I totally agree, I think its so unnescary to make personal information like that public.Bit unfair to post personal stuff like that which portrays her mum in a bad light considering she features in a lot of her vlogs. Idk it just rubs me the wrong way
I genuinely think one of the reasons she had a baby was because she wanted to prove her mom wrong and show how easy it was and finally be able to say her mom was such a bad mom because she’s doing such a great job, Id say her mom is one of the only voices of reason in her life and when she tells her a hard truth that she doesn’t want to hear she makes these insanely personal tiktoks slatting her mom and “cuts her off”The new TikTok about her mum is very personal. She says she had cut off all contact but hopes to rekindle their relationship in the future. Obviously that is heartbreaking and no one can judge her decision becasue God only knows what went on in that house over the years, but I do question the sharing of this info online.
I wouldn’t go as far as saying her mother is a voice of reason. Keelin is far too comfortable online and doesn’t have boundaries but that doesn’t mean she’s lying about her mam. When she was moving from London and trying to find someone to take her cat in, she posted screenshots of her mother literally threatening to kill the cat.I genuinely think one of the reasons she had a baby was because she wanted to prove her mom wrong and show how easy it was and finally be able to say her mom was such a bad mom because she’s doing such a great job, Id say her mom is one of the only voices of reason in her life and when she tells her a hard truth that she doesn’t want to hear she makes these insanely personal tiktoks slatting her mom and “cuts her off”
I highly doubt her mam would literally kill the cat but she's (the mam) allowed to not want to mind the cat for keelin. its not the mams responsibility, its keelins. She's 24/25 now, she can't expect her parents to be at her feet forever. Plus she can't expect a person (her mam) who doesn't even like cats to mind it for however long. Keelin fully acts like everyone should do everything for her. She's so entitled n she's become soooo much worse since getting pregnant n having the baby. she expects everything to be done for her. its gross.I wouldn’t go as far as saying her mother is a voice of reason. Keelin is far too comfortable online and doesn’t have boundaries but that doesn’t mean she’s lying about her mam. When she was moving from London and trying to find someone to take her cat in, she posted screenshots of her mother literally threatening to kill the cat.
nah she had the baby because her influencer career was failing and i think she pissed off her housemates getting missy moving jason in etc so she knew she'd have to find a new place soon, it was getting to the point where she was going to actually have to get a job so she decided to just get pregnant and move back home insteadI genuinely think one of the reasons she had a baby was because she wanted to prove her mom wrong and show how easy it was and finally be able to say her mom was such a bad mom because she’s doing such a great job, Id say her mom is one of the only voices of reason in her life and when she tells her a hard truth that she doesn’t want to hear she makes these insanely personal tiktoks slatting her mom and “cuts her off”
I was really shocked when said she said that J would come home in the evening, there would be no food in the house and he would then ask her "what are we going to have for dinner?"Watching her new YouTube video has made me feel uneasy, feel like he’s she’s close to losing it. Also I’m calling to her and Jason will break up when he’s taking his parental leave for sure.
I don’t think this is a K vs J thing, some would say maybe she should have dinner made because she’s been home all day but that’s up for debate… what it shows is they clearly don’t communicate, J feels she should be cooking and K feels he should be cooking but neither talk about it. Resentment is building. The learning to drive in 6 months thing is also a bizarre comment.I was really shocked when said she said that J would come home in the evening, there would be no food in the house and he would then ask her "what are we going to have for dinner?". Or when she said they split the bills equitably, ie. She pays for more than him.
Seems like he's not taking much or any responsibility, makes sense now why the sister is always there helping. I'd say K is genuinely under a lot of pressure.
I have no doubt she's under pressure but jesus did they not discuss these things before moving in together let alone before deciding to have a child. How shall we split chores, what standard of cleanliness do you like, do you expect us/you/me to cook from scratch or are you OK with oven pizzas and frozen veg, how do you react to pressure - do you withdraw, do you get angry? Do you think i should handle all night feeds/changes if you are working for a wage? How much money do you think is reasonable to save every month, do you have any savings so far? what was your parents attitude to money and how did that define your attitude? How will you react if we can't pay the bills one month, what are our options? how do you define a successful life, do you want to move out of the city one day, what kind of person do you want our child to grow up to be and how do you think your/our parenting will guide them there? Why do you want a child? What are your views on health, do you take care of your health and how? How do you recharge - do you need alone time, how much, do i need to be out of the apartment? How much sleep do you need a night to function, how do you react if you don't get that?I was really shocked when said she said that J would come home in the evening, there would be no food in the house and he would then ask her "what are we going to have for dinner?". Or when she said they split the bills equitably, ie. She pays for more than him.
Seems like he's not taking much or any responsibility, makes sense now why the sister is always there helping. I'd say K is genuinely under a lot of pressure.
Might save this for my next relationship!I have no doubt she's under pressure but jesus did they not discuss these things before moving in together let alone before deciding to have a child. How shall we split chores, what standard of cleanliness do you like, do you expect us/you/me to cook from scratch or are you OK with oven pizzas and frozen veg, how do you react to pressure - do you withdraw, do you get angry? Do you think i should handle all night feeds/changes if you are working for a wage? How much money do you think is reasonable to save every month, do you have any savings so far? what was your parents attitude to money and how did that define your attitude? How will you react if we can't pay the bills one month, what are our options? how do you define a successful life, do you want to move out of the city one day, what kind of person do you want our child to grow up to be and how do you think your/our parenting will guide them there? Why do you want a child? What are your views on health, do you take care of your health and how? How do you recharge - do you need alone time, how much, do i need to be out of the apartment? How much sleep do you need a night to function, how do you react if you don't get that?
This is just purely off the top of my head of things I'd want to know about someone before living with them. The fact he's a grown adult working in a clothes shop and he seems unable to come home from a shift and be proactive enough to cook dinner for 2.....? Sorry I know retail can be fucking tough but when you have a child and new mum at home you need to down a coffee and wake up.
Honestly I kinda disagree with you. The world really isn’t baby- or new mother-friendly (or at least Dublin City isn’t). Think about how it’s only recently become more acceptable to breastfeed in public etc. I mean how many newborn babies do you actually see out and about? You are expected to an extent to just stay at home all day with the baby as a new mum.All that talk about there being no support for mothers - I’m actually stunned. Does she expect the world to stop revolving because she chose to have a baby?
The new TikTok about her mum is very personal. She says she had cut off all contact but hopes to rekindle their relationship in the future. Obviously that is heartbreaking and no one can judge her decision becasue God only knows what went on in that house over the years, but I do question the sharing of this info onl
I don’t think Keelin wants J to be a stay at home dad - how can she make content full time when 90% of her content rn is moaning, talking about how hard things are with the baby and doing all the housework - what would she do if she had nothing to give out about? She would actually have to put in effort to make engaging content! I think she loves to be a martyr and go without showers (for no reason), make out like she can’t put the baby down for a second, and garner praise and even sympathy for the situation she chooses to put herself in.Jeeeeesus that new video is bleak. J is honestly a waster, I’m completely stunned at how uneven the division of labour and childcare between them is, especially cos she is such a “feminist”. I don’t think he means bad, he strikes me as just so incredibly immature. They’re in the shits now but they really shouldn’t have had a baby together, at least not so soon. She’s always been so whirlwindy and acting on whims but now there’s a whole new life involved she needs to start taking this shit seriously. Yerman just clearly has a lot of growing up to do. Good luck to them on that 6 month extended leave thing.. which, by the way, why didn’t he take that leave when the baby was newborn? Or maybe when K was hobbling around the gaff in her 3rd trimester? The fact she’s the primary breadwinner AND primary caregiver of their child.. like would he not just quit his job at that stage and commit to being a stay at home Dad. Also such a lol that they’re both gonna miraculously learn how to drive in the 6 months he has off work.
Fair enough, I live in the UK now and it’s pretty common to see new mums with their newborns out and about. In the video, it sounded like she wants every person she meets to stop and be in awe of her baby - sadly childbirth is the most natural thing in the world and she’s not the first one to do it!Jeeeeesus that new video is bleak. J is honestly a waster, I’m completely stunned at how uneven the division of labour and childcare between them is, especially cos she is such a “feminist”. I don’t think he means bad, he strikes me as just so incredibly immature. They’re in the shits now but they really shouldn’t have had a baby together, at least not so soon. She’s always been so whirlwindy and acting on whims but now there’s a whole new life involved she needs to start taking this shit seriously. Yerman just clearly has a lot of growing up to do. Good luck to them on that 6 month extended leave thing.. which, by the way, why didn’t he take that leave when the baby was newborn? Or maybe when K was hobbling around the gaff in her 3rd trimester? The fact she’s the primary breadwinner AND primary caregiver of their child.. like would he not just quit his job at that stage and commit to being a stay at home Dad. Also such a lol that they’re both gonna miraculously learn how to drive in the 6 months he has off work.
Honestly I kinda disagree with you. The world really isn’t baby- or new mother-friendly (or at least Dublin City isn’t). Think about how it’s only recently become more acceptable to breastfeed in public etc. I mean how many newborn babies do you actually see out and about? You are expected to an extent to just stay at home all day with the baby as a new mum.
yeah i actually think it is a little different in the UK, but i can imagine it being a lot worse in DublinFair enough, I live in the UK now and it’s pretty common to see new mums with their newborns out and about. In the video, it sounded like she wants every person she meets to stop and be in awe of her baby - sadly childbirth is the most natural thing in the world and she’s not the first one to do it!
I think she likes to be the martyr and make things difficult for herself for example she says she cannot leave the apartment with the buggy on her own so someone always has to be with her. Bearing in mind this is the apartment she chose when she knew she’d be having a baby. Surely she could invest in a lighter buggy so she’s not holed up inside 24/7. I nannied babies as a teenager and used to walk miles and miles with them as the fresh air and movement tired them out!
Totally agree that Jason’s acting like a lemon, he could do so much more to fulfill his duties and take the pressure off her.
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