I'm changing my profile pic back in honour of the real SB
I'm changing my profile pic back in honour of the real SBYep, you are correct.. let's just remind everyone
Not to worry Nikki, you posted the info in good faith. Maybe the timing of the article is not right at the moment and they will use it when they are ready or maybe they have legal issues xWell it's clear KSR is feeding me a great big pile of shi*
Ooooft! I wonder why she would do that? Do these stories always get cancelled due to legal stuff I wonder?Well it's clear KSR is feeding me a great big pile of shi*
I agree completely - everyone's journey is differentI just wanted to reply to a poster on the other thread who gave some good advice with regards to having people like KP in your life but also coming from a different angle, then the thread closedso here goes.
I think it’s very sound advice. Unfortunately some of us adore these parents and many of us don’t know it’s narcism, or other MH issues often until much later, if ever. I appreciate they don’t deserve it. Mine was my father, I was a daddy’s girl, I love my mother dearly but my brother needed her time more being disabled and I completely understood that he was my world and likewise he adored our father.
It was very difficult for my mother to stand up to him and there wasn’t the help back then. He was never violent it was all mental abuse and the truth is she also loved him. Many people are in these situations and often feel sorry for the narcissist, no doubt because many have sob stories as KP has and often their partner wants to be the knight in shinning armour making it better for them, thinking they will change, they never do as they don‘t see any wrong in what they do. So anyone thinking KP will change if she gets a harsher punishment I think will be disappointed it’s not going to happen, that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t have a harsher punishment far from it, she certainly deserves it with all her driving offences.
It‘s very difficult to explain especially on paper and I appreciate I don’t know for sure but the glimpses I see of Princess you can see she adores her mother and perhaps Junior finds it easier to distance himself than Princess. I also recognise the games KP plays, like buying Princess a puppy that she so wants, then giving it away. It‘s all about control, you forever feel you’re on the end of a yo-yo. I wouldn’t be surprised if KP bought the puppy knowing PA didn’t want the responsibility of one himself but thought it would give her some control over his and Emily’s life, by forcing the puppy on them when she was on her holiday/travel shows and that would give her some sort of win in her head. When it didn’t work she took it out on Princess by giving her dog away. Who does that to a child they supposedly love certainly not a wonderful mother, it was beyond cruel.
Many of us who’ve had a narcissistic parent/partner/person in their life sadly know to well their traits and the control games they play.
I definitely think therapy is the way to go but sadly our NHS is under so much strain that’s easier said than done but there are some private places out there that charge a minimal amount. One thing I think that’s very important is anyone in these situations it’s not your fault, you’ve done nothing wrong it’s them and that’s so important to hold onto.
Sending love and hugs to all who need it
Also KP is still a c*nt, god I hate that word but sometimes needs must!
No tea. No bikkies. No garibaldi...No tea?
Skanky's lot have upped the shite output in the past few days so clearly there IS something bubbling under the surface they are concerned about. Its probably a case of timing due to skanks throwing her Legal Experts (lying assholes) onto whatever it isNot to worry Nikki, you posted the info in good faith. Maybe the timing of the article is not right at the moment and they will use it when they are ready or maybe they have legal issues x
I don't think so... DC seems to know about a story about to break, too. I think it's more a case of the media dicking about with it than K.Well it's clear KSR is feeding me a great big pile of shi*
I messaged her saying nothing again she's replied "I'll let you know when it's going up. Out. X"Ooooft! I wonder why she would do that? Do these stories always get cancelled due to legal stuff I wonder?
I completely agree and for anyone to say .... I know KP is terrible but, or similar...... There should be no ‘but’ it belittles how abhorrent she is and how much this has a negative impact on all her children who clearly and understandably love her. They all deserve so much better as does every child.Well said. My dad has narc traits, anxiety and OCD personality disorder and can be very emotionally manipulative. I'm the only one in my family who has 'told him off' as he put it and stood up to him and pointed out he behaves like a child, he acted like a toddler, crying and stamp his feet! The very first time I did it I was in my 30s! My mother is very dependent on him and has been well trained over the years to give in to his emotional bullying, such as moving house multiple times when she didn't want to. My partner thought his difficult behaviour was probably just autistic traits until we went on a big family holiday where my dad made the atmosphere horrific for everyone and we all had to sneak out of the house to get away from him. I've said at times I would have nothing to do with him if it wasn't for my mum . I also now understand how some of my dad's behaviour and mental illness impacted me as a teen and early 20s, being constantly told you're not good enough, being conditioned not to speak up for yourself etc. It can result in complex PTSD and depression. I was robbed of chances to do certain things as was my sister. I'm mostly over it now though, at some point you've got to try and take control of the crap hand you may have been dealt. My dad's father was also a narcissistic shite who enjoyed killing people in the war and believed he was very special, he used to send 'art' and plays to all the papers and BBC which were all hilariously shite
There's also an abusive narc mother married into my family and her impact on kids, inlaws and elderly relatives has been astounding. The amount of people she has affected is sickening, police have been involved but a bit like Teflon Kate she has got away with various incidents, including an assault in public, because members of the family won't make statements against her. One of her children is an adult now and has disowned her. So those are some of the reasons I also hate what KP gets away with. The amount of emotional damage she has caused to
others is huge and people need to be educated about this sort of emotional abuse.
Oh contraire she is a good mother because she goes no where +×÷#@ near her kids so they prosper and get a good upbringing from their dad's and partners . Harvey is the only one under threat but the cash tap seems to have been turned off for whatever reason and his residential care keeps her at bay most of the time.and she's a terrible "mother"
Don’t be too disheartenedWell it's clear KSR is feeding me a great big pile of shi*
Please don't mention Carly and anticlimax in the such close proximity....Don’t be too disheartened, DC16 said it wasn’t new news so it might have been a bit of an anticlimax.
Can’t think why Carly came to to mind with that last word.
Are garibaldi biscuits your currant favourite?No tea. No bikkies. No garibaldi...
I know his name came to mind when I read It back, can’t think whyPlease don't mention Carly and anticlimax in the same comment....
Who doesn't like a bikkie made out of squashed flies....?Are garibaldi biscuits your currant favourite?
I'll get my coat.....
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