If the children hadn't been taken away from her, I wonder if they would have ended up with Stockholm Syndrome? Maybe not the boys so much but possibly the girlsand she's a terrible "mother"
If the children hadn't been taken away from her, I wonder if they would have ended up with Stockholm Syndrome? Maybe not the boys so much but possibly the girlsand she's a terrible "mother"
There really is something quite disturbing/disquieting about this man. In fact, I find him quite menacing, although I can't put my finger on it (although he'd probably like me to....)Post decking ? Look at those massive 9 likes You must be raking it in SB Talking of rakes, there’s a suggestion for your Only Fan… View attachment 1385609
Me too! I hate that word and never use it in real life. But on here, it flows as naturally as lying does to skankyIt's amazing how many people say the `c` word on here that probably don't say it IRL. It's her! She sends you to it!!
Never gets old seeing this true image! What a day that was- her in the nuns habit and this classic image!Yep, you are correct.. let's just remind everyone
Blimey. That made me take in a short gasp of air. I'm still trying to rearrange my chin so that I can close my mouth and breathe safely through my nose again....
Deuce Bigalow: Male GigoloHe certainly doesn’t look ANYTHING like that in reality.
Oh I know. I felt SO empowered by that entire event. The way she professed to 'embrace her body as opposed to giving it away....'Never gets old seeing this true image! What a day that was- her in the nuns habit and this classic image!
Bet she wasn’t struggling to breathe through her nose that day! That’s a fair few sniff bags deep!Blimey. That made me take in a short gasp of air. I'm still trying to rearrange my chin so that I can close my mouth and I can breathe safely through my nose again....
Thank you Rosiecosyvery well put @Jwren
It's a bit early for Halloween masks That scared the bejesus out of meBlimey. That made me take in a short gasp of air. I'm still trying to rearrange my chin so that I can close my mouth and I can breathe safely through my nose again....
So true….I just wanted to reply to a poster on the other thread who gave some good advice with regards to having people like KP in your life but also coming from a different angle, then the thread closed so here goes.
I think it’s very sound advice. Unfortunately some of us adore these parents and many of us don’t know it’s narcism, or other MH issues often until much later, if ever. I appreciate they don’t deserve it. Mine was my father, I was a daddy’s girl, I love my mother dearly but my brother needed her time more being disabled and I completely understood that he was my world and likewise he adored our father.
It was very difficult for my mother to stand up to him and there wasn’t the help back then. He was never violent it was all mental abuse and the truth is she also loved him. Many people are in these situations and often feel sorry for the narcissist, no doubt because many have sob stories as KP has and often their partner wants to be the knight in shinning armour making it better for them, thinking they will change, they never do as they don‘t see any wrong in what they do. So anyone thinking KP will change if she gets a harsher punishment I think will be disappointed it’s not going to happen, that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t have a harsher punishment far from it, she certainly deserves it with all her driving offences.
It‘s very difficult to explain especially on paper and I appreciate I don’t know for sure but the glimpses I see of Princess you can see she adores her mother and perhaps Junior finds it easier to distance himself than Princess. I also recognise the games KP plays, like buying Princess a puppy that she so wants, then giving it away. It‘s all about control, you forever feel you’re on the end of a yo-yo. I wouldn’t be surprised if KP bought the puppy knowing PA didn’t want the responsibility of one himself but thought it would give her some control over his and Emily’s life, by forcing the puppy on them when she was on her holiday/travel shows and that would give her some sort of win in her head. When it didn’t work she took it out on Princess by giving her dog away. Who does that to a child they supposedly love certainly not a wonderful mother, it was beyond cruel.
Many of us who’ve had a narcissistic parent/partner/person in their life sadly know to well their traits and the control games they play.
I definitely think therapy is the way to go but sadly our NHS is under so much strain that’s easier said than done but there are some private places out there that charge a minimal amount. One thing I think that’s very important is anyone in these situations it’s not your fault, you’ve done nothing wrong it’s them and that’s so important to hold onto.
Sending love and hugs to all who need it
Also KP is still a c*nt, god I hate that word but sometimes needs must!
Absolutely right there! Skank & SB just cause the very worst of me to explode which includes a tirade of Anglo-Saxon expletives that normally never emerge - theres just something about these CUNTS that makes That Word the only one appropriate for the rage they inspire.It's amazing how many people say the `c` word on here that probably don't say it IRL. It's her! She sends you to it!!
So despite all the heavy-duty filters on there look at the furrows under her eyes going towards the snout
Only now, he's sporting the highlight lookThis picture gets me every time THIS is the real you Carol!!
Here's a tip... 'suck her dick'Post decking ? Look at those massive 9 likes You must be raking it in SB Talking of rakes, there’s a suggestion for your Only Fan… View attachment 1385609
That is so trueIt's amazing how many people say the `c` word on here that probably don't say it IRL. It's her! She sends you to it!!
Well said. My dad has narc traits, anxiety and OCD personality disorder and can be very emotionally manipulative. I'm the only one in my family who has 'told him off' as he put it and stood up to him and pointed out he behaves like a child, he acted like a toddler, crying and stamp his feet! The very first time I did it I was in my 30s! My mother is very dependent on him and has been well trained over the years to give in to his emotional bullying, such as moving house multiple times when she didn't want to. My partner thought his difficult behaviour was probably just autistic traits until we went on a big family holiday where my dad made the atmosphere horrific for everyone and we all had to sneak out of the house to get away from him . I've said at times I would have nothing to do with him if it wasn't for my mum . I also now understand how some of my dad's behaviour and mental illness impacted me as a teen and early 20s, being constantly told you're not good enough, being conditioned not to speak up for yourself etc. It can result in complex PTSD and depression. I was robbed of chances to do certain things as was my sister. I'm mostly over it now though, at some point you've got to try and take control of the crap hand you may have been dealt. My dad's father was also a narcissistic shite who enjoyed killing people in the war and believed he was very special, he used to send 'art' and plays to all the papers and BBC which were all hilariously shiteI just wanted to reply to a poster on the other thread who gave some good advice with regards to having people like KP in your life but also coming from a different angle, then the thread closed so here goes.
I think it’s very sound advice. Unfortunately some of us adore these parents and many of us don’t know it’s narcism, or other MH issues often until much later, if ever. I appreciate they don’t deserve it. Mine was my father, I was a daddy’s girl, I love my mother dearly but my brother needed her time more being disabled and I completely understood that he was my world and likewise he adored our father.
It was very difficult for my mother to stand up to him and there wasn’t the help back then. He was never violent it was all mental abuse and the truth is she also loved him. Many people are in these situations and often feel sorry for the narcissist, no doubt because many have sob stories as KP has and often their partner wants to be the knight in shinning armour making it better for them, thinking they will change, they never do as they don‘t see any wrong in what they do. So anyone thinking KP will change if she gets a harsher punishment I think will be disappointed it’s not going to happen, that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t have a harsher punishment far from it, she certainly deserves it with all her driving offences.
It‘s very difficult to explain especially on paper and I appreciate I don’t know for sure but the glimpses I see of Princess you can see she adores her mother and perhaps Junior finds it easier to distance himself than Princess. I also recognise the games KP plays, like buying Princess a puppy that she so wants, then giving it away. It‘s all about control, you forever feel you’re on the end of a yo-yo. I wouldn’t be surprised if KP bought the puppy knowing PA didn’t want the responsibility of one himself but thought it would give her some control over his and Emily’s life, by forcing the puppy on them when she was on her holiday/travel shows and that would give her some sort of win in her head. When it didn’t work she took it out on Princess by giving her dog away. Who does that to a child they supposedly love certainly not a wonderful mother, it was beyond cruel.
Many of us who’ve had a narcissistic parent/partner/person in their life sadly know to well their traits and the control games they play.
I definitely think therapy is the way to go but sadly our NHS is under so much strain that’s easier said than done but there are some private places out there that charge a minimal amount. One thing I think that’s very important is anyone in these situations it’s not your fault, you’ve done nothing wrong it’s them and that’s so important to hold onto.
Sending love and hugs to all who need it
Also KP is still a c*nt, god I hate that word but sometimes needs must!
....at least I can stop constantly refreshing my screen.... (lower lip wobbling and wiping tear from eye....)Well it's clear KSR is feeding me a great big pile of shi*