My gp used to document every bruise, but it was more emotional, financial, gaslighting, but took a toll physically I was 6stone when I left with my 2 kids, luckily family helped, why oh why is his family not helping if they can see he's not coping, she's making insta posts, how about going behind the scenes and getting him a decent solicitor or mental health treatment, he maybe a man but it doesn't matter, maybe he is really insecure and doesn't have the mental capacity to see what's going on. I can only comment on what is in print but he's not doing a good job of portraying himself as a decent law abiding person who wants a quiet life.Its always difficult to decide whether to go ahead with charges, and theres always the chance that if they plead not guilty, that you have to relive it all again in court giving evidence.