I'll start by saying I've got no personal experience of fertility struggle or baby loss - in fact I was unreasonably lucky, we never wanted a baby, then we did, and we conceived easily and had a healthy baby. While I was pregnant I was very aware of a few couples in our circle who weren't as lucky, so I kept my pregnancy off socials for the most part and was careful not to complain about anything because I knew it would have been hurtful to them.
However, I've got a friend who's struggled with endo since we were teenagers, and is still having major issues and not getting the help she needs - the doctors are keen to 'preserve her fertility' even tho she's in her 40s, she's got 3 teenagers and she wants no more babies
. I also work in a job which means most neonatal, baby and child deaths in the area come across my desk, and I've met parents who've suffered devastating loss. I have the deepest sympathy for them and for everyone on here who's had struggles or losses.
But this fucking truffle clown, with her
fertility journey
, is getting right up my nose now. Stop going on about how it's 'not spoken about', when what you mean is 'you want to speak about it in an inappropriate place'. Do some proper reading, realise that most women tend not to get pregnant the minute the idea occurs to them, and stop looking for fake sympathy from fake people over a fake problem. Enjoy the kid you've got and try to learn how to raise her properly. And wash your foundation brush you mucky little scruff.
Happy Saturday everyone