Well no but the general rule of thumb is a baby should have one 1 extra layer compared to adults in the room. So if they have T-shirtās/jumpers whatever on, the little one should have on a vest and onesie for example. Itās only March, I canāt imagine they live in a house thatās red hot - otherwise they would also be in less clothes?Id imagine she's fine. You cant tell the temperature of a room or house on instagram
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Agreed but they have clothes on and she doesn't? A baby vest is underwear and they're both not strolling round in theirs.Id imagine she's fine. You cant tell the temperature of a room or house on instagram
Also she's regularly out in pram (and last month when it was colder) without a hat.
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If Kate was a family member / friend of mine, I'd be having a stern word with her about this.
They really havenāt got a clue! New parents or not, thereās no excuse. I watched last nights Celebrity Bumps and they come across quite immature and finding it funny they arenāt preparing themselves. Now Noa is here, it shows theyāve not bothered to learn.
Seems theyāre happy to chuck some money at a doula and let them bring up their child.
Yeah, they're both immature and not particularly funny.
Oh perlease this is not mum shaming, is anything itās delusional middle class mum shaming- they need a reality check. Yes of course they can find a newborn tough, most of us do, but my god read the room before you post. oh and the comment about Kate Ferdinand bottle feeding- no one cares how these people feed or dress their childrenbut they need to be conscious of what they quote to an impressionable audience of āhunsā. Just like when Rochelle Humes take pics of a newborn cot with cot bumpers and ruffles and a baby pillow ffs!
The whole defence of Kate saying she didnāt want kids and now is finding it a shock. Maybe she should have stuck to her guns and not had a baby just to please her boyfriend then. Who, from the ābrief snapshotā of their lives that they choose to post doesnāt seem all that interested tbh. Interesting timing on him folding his business too just when his career of being an influencer/minor reality tv star was taking off but Iām sure thatās just a coincidence. Itās not rocket science to know that if you are sat in a hoodie then maybe your baby needs to be wearing more than just a vest!
They will keep posting and crying troll whenever people say something they donāt want to hear because before Kate was pregnant, her posts were getting around 3k likes and now she is getting around 30-50k likes per post.
Kate has been cashing in on having a baby before Noa was even conceived but people think sheās so down to earth and relatable and I donāt get that at all
They will keep posting and crying troll whenever people say something they donāt want to hear because before Kate was pregnant, her posts were getting around 3k likes and now she is getting around 30-50k likes per post.
Kate has been cashing in on having a baby before Noa was even conceived but people think sheās so down to earth and relatable and I donāt get that at all
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I listened to the entirety of series 1 of their podcast during my maternity leave with twins (and that was bloody hard but they were always dressed properly). Itās so clear from her comments during that series, when she was apparently against having a baby (ahem, bullshit 
), that she was only going to have a c section if she did have a baby. She was fixated on saying that she would only have a c section at every possible opportunity. I canāt comment on whether she is actually genuinely birth-phobic, but I donāt think she ever considered a vaginal birth as an option.
For clarity, Iām no hero. I had a c-section and Iām about to have another one, so thereās no judgment here. Birth trauma and pissing myself for the rest of my life arenāt for me. If thatās Kateās view too then she should just be honest and say she wanted a c-section, and not blame it all on some phobia.
), that she was only going to have a c section if she did have a baby. She was fixated on saying that she would only have a c section at every possible opportunity. I canāt comment on whether she is actually genuinely birth-phobic, but I donāt think she ever considered a vaginal birth as an option. For clarity, Iām no hero. I had a c-section and Iām about to have another one, so thereās no judgment here. Birth trauma and pissing myself for the rest of my life arenāt for me. If thatās Kateās view too then she should just be honest and say she wanted a c-section, and not blame it all on some phobia.
To the poster who sent a message to Boj, be prepared to be called out publicly in an insta rant, they have form. Must admit I don't think the thread is particularly mum shaming, people are sharing opinions, some are harsh some are not, but I definitely see balance.
All of those things you can do if you 'wear' the baby in a baby carrier or a sling
I don't mind if he wants to do that, I spoke up for a baby I was concerned about.
I agree, it's been balanced. Mrs Hinch gets ripped to bits on here but her little one is always appropriately dressed at least.
Basically just said I wasn't there all the time so how would I know that she was inappropriately dressed much of the time? Moronic answer, pouncing on the semantics of the question because he knew I was right.
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Iāve bit my tongue for too long on this thread . Yes agreed new borns arenāt always easy . Maybe I was just lucky with mine . 3 days after giving birth , my partner went back to work because heās self employed . At this point I also had a 6 year old who was due to go back to school 3 days after I came out of hospital . Therefore I was back up driving doing the school run everyday at 8am with a 6 year old & a 3 day old . But you know what I just got on with it , canāt even remember it being that bad . Yea I was probably knackered , my baby had a clean nappy & went to school in his baby grow then I would bath & get him dressed for the day once we were home . Women have babies why is there such a drama . In my opinion mums make their own kids hard work sometimes 
. And I donāt have an issue with C-sections but for the love of god , quit it with the abdominal birth crap !
. And I donāt have an issue with C-sections but for the love of god , quit it with the abdominal birth crap !Yes, itās a major physical ordeal. But I only ever hear āmajor abdominal surgeryā with a obvious insinuation that elective c sections are bad for exactly that reason, and natural birth is better because youāll recover quicker blah blah.
My point was that isnāt always the case. Everyone talks about the myriad risks of c sections and conveniently glosses over the many and varied complications of vaginal birth. Why?
Good for you but itās not a competition, once you become a mum do you all feel the need to compete with each other over who can juggle the most and ājust get on with itā ?!Iāve bit my tongue for too long on this thread . Yes agreed new borns arenāt always easy . Maybe I was just lucky with mine . 3 days after giving birth , my partner went back to work because heās self employed . At this point I also had a 6 year old who was due to go back to school 3 days after I came out of hospital . Therefore I was back up driving doing the school run everyday at 8am with a 6 year old & a 3 day old . But you know what I just got on with it , canāt even remember it being that bad . Yea I was probably knackered , my baby had a clean nappy & went to school in his baby grow then I would bath & get him dressed for the day once we were home . Women have babies why is there such a drama . In my opinion mums make their own kids hard work sometimes
I know good for meGood for you but itās not a competition, once you become a mum do you all feel the need to compete with each other over who can juggle the most and ājust get on with itā ?!
. No competition from me just think some people create their own drama . Like itās a shock newborns cry & you donāt get much sleep . Life goes on
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I don't think Kate is going to find motherhood easy in the slightest at all, ever.
It has been uncomfortable viewing to witness just how difficult this strong, independent, seemingly happy woman, is finding this time in her life. It is really sad and I feel for her.
I'll give her credit that she always said she didn't want to have children and she has had a child for Boj, not for herself. On an emotional level I think this will be too much for her, for always. She didn't want it. It is that simple. I'm not saying she doesn't love the baby, I'm just saying I don't think she will ever fully adapt.
If this is the case then she has been unbelievably irresponsible in bringing a child into this world that she doesnāt want.
Oh thanks for that, my PND has vanishedI know good for
Not much she can do now. Plenty of people have babies they weren't planning for and thankfully most of them are happy enough. Sure she had options but having a child is a huge emotional impact and not everyone is going to be overwhelmed with love. Its easy to think what have I done at this stage. I just hope for her and the baby its just early day fatigue and if not that she gets the help she needs.
We have no idea what helps her and how she is dealing with the situation, maybe hiring a doula and spending time on Instagram so she can feel like her old self is what is getting her through, we all deal with things differently and have different coping mechanisms. Whatever gets her through.
She's made a second career out of publicly declaring she didn't want kids and wouldn't be shamed into it. Then she had a baby and has done nothing but post about how horrendous it has all been. No one is denying she's had a hard time, but I think you should be careful what you put online for thousands of strangers and mail online readers. One day noa is going to end up reading the back story of this period and how her mother had sworn off kids, then hated it, and all the comments too. Kate should share honestly, but be careful not to overshare.
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