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That canāt be Truff! Thereās no chiselled jaw.Can not wait for the next few days![]()
What a lovely post for those who think life is perfect. Iām old, like before filters and mobile phones and you had to get pics developedRemind you of anyone? For all the mums out there doing it right unlike these fake wannabe influencersā¦..
Yesterday while at the pool I watched a young Mama and her little daughter enter the pool area dressed in very nice coordinating swimming suits. The mom, with her perfect loose curls tied up in a coordinating scarf, spent the first few minutes talking loudly on her phone to a friend while her daughter stood waiting to get into the pool. Mom ended the phone call and proceeded to spread out pool toys and sunscreen on a matching towel. Then after finding just the right angle and the right light, Mama pulled out her tripod and took a few selfies with her daughter. Little One asked to get in the pool. Mama said wait and then posed her daughter in front the pool, then going in to the pool and then coming back out of the pool. Little one smiled big and said "cheese" like she'd done it a million times. Then Mama told her she could play. Little One walked in and swam around for a couple of minutes. Mama called a friend on her phone and began another conversation while Little One politely and repeatedly asked "Mama, can you come in the water with me, please?" She was ignored. "Mama, come play with me?" she asked 4 more times. Mama glanced over at her but never got off the phone. After 10 minutes Mama ended her call, collected the sunscreen that was never applied, the water toys that never touched the water, and then her daughter and left the pool.
I sat there thinking about what I'd witnessed for awhile afterwards. I imagined the photos she took being perfectly edited and posted to social media with a caption like "Pool time with my girly! #Makingmemories".
Somewhere another Mama is going to be at home with her children, the house a mess from their play, her hair unruly from a day of mothering and her clothes dirty with spit up or peanut butter. She's going to be tired because she's spent her day cooking, caring, cleaning and playing with her children. She's going to look at that photo and she is going to compare herself to the perfect Mama at the pool. The Adversary is going to whisper into her ear "you aren't good enough... You don't look like that Mama at the pool... You don't have money to buy expensive swimming suits like that and you don't have time to make memories like she is" and that young Mama is going to believe it. She's going to feel like a failure. Ugh!! She'll never know that how she spent her time that day was so much better in her children's eyes than that "perfect Mama" at the pool.
What we see on Social Media isn't always real. Sometimes and often it's a complete set-up. It's staged and filtered and it's counterfeit.
Sometimes we do see absolutely real photos of vacations and beautiful homes and freshly done hair but it's only ONE moment. It's the very best moment out of a whole day spent much like our own. Working, cleaning, and messes...
Mamas, don't compare yourself. You ARE enough! You are amazing and the very best part is that you are REAL! Your dirty shirt and your messy house and your happy children are real and they are proof that you are doing it right!
State of those extensions.Can not wait for the next few days![]()
Because they are a group of mindless, low iq clusterfucks who carry on regardlessWhy aren't they wearing masks on the plane despite this still being required?
I just didWould it be foolish to follow her before Kate makes her go private ?![]()
Remind you of anyone? For all the mums out there doing it right unlike these fake wannabe influencersā¦..
Yesterday while at the pool I watched a young Mama and her little daughter enter the pool area dressed in very nice coordinating swimming suits. The mom, with her perfect loose curls tied up in a coordinating scarf, spent the first few minutes talking loudly on her phone to a friend while her daughter stood waiting to get into the pool. Mom ended the phone call and proceeded to spread out pool toys and sunscreen on a matching towel. Then after finding just the right angle and the right light, Mama pulled out her tripod and took a few selfies with her daughter. Little One asked to get in the pool. Mama said wait and then posed her daughter in front the pool, then going in to the pool and then coming back out of the pool. Little one smiled big and said "cheese" like she'd done it a million times. Then Mama told her she could play. Little One walked in and swam around for a couple of minutes. Mama called a friend on her phone and began another conversation while Little One politely and repeatedly asked "Mama, can you come in the water with me, please?" She was ignored. "Mama, come play with me?" she asked 4 more times. Mama glanced over at her but never got off the phone. After 10 minutes Mama ended her call, collected the sunscreen that was never applied, the water toys that never touched the water, and then her daughter and left the pool.
I sat there thinking about what I'd witnessed for awhile afterwards. I imagined the photos she took being perfectly edited and posted to social media with a caption like "Pool time with my girly! #Makingmemories".
Somewhere another Mama is going to be at home with her children, the house a mess from their play, her hair unruly from a day of mothering and her clothes dirty with spit up or peanut butter. She's going to be tired because she's spent her day cooking, caring, cleaning and playing with her children. She's going to look at that photo and she is going to compare herself to the perfect Mama at the pool. The Adversary is going to whisper into her ear "you aren't good enough... You don't look like that Mama at the pool... You don't have money to buy expensive swimming suits like that and you don't have time to make memories like she is" and that young Mama is going to believe it. She's going to feel like a failure. Ugh!! She'll never know that how she spent her time that day was so much better in her children's eyes than that "perfect Mama" at the pool.
What we see on Social Media isn't always real. Sometimes and often it's a complete set-up. It's staged and filtered and it's counterfeit.
Sometimes we do see absolutely real photos of vacations and beautiful homes and freshly done hair but it's only ONE moment. It's the very best moment out of a whole day spent much like our own. Working, cleaning, and messes...
Mamas, don't compare yourself. You ARE enough! You are amazing and the very best part is that you are REAL! Your dirty shirt and your messy house and your happy children are real and they are proof that you are doing it right!
Big bleeping Karen energy on itCan not wait for the next few days![]()
Iād love it to go Amber! But just like she did in Dubai sheās the type of jammy cow thatāll miss it by a day! tit donāt stick on people like that unfortunately.Iād love it if bojo closed the borders so smug cunts like her canāt come back in without forking out a fortune and a long ass quarantine
I was 31 when I got married and I had my hen night at a hotel who were having a 70s and 80s disco. Folk who wanted to dressed up and folk who didnāt, didnāt. I bought tacky novelty things for the tables (inflatable guitars and microphones and the like) and it was such a good night.That hen do is so bleeping tacky. Why does everyone have to have the SAME hen do? Iām never having any kind of hen, I just donāt see the point at all?? Donāt even get me started on all the tacky āwifeyā tit and matching outfits, could they be any more basic
Kate's hole taking the starring role as the Splurge GunAre they putting on a high school production of Bugsy Malone?
100% can tell you we caught one cheeky fucker out on the whole hen do thing.I was 31 when I got married and I had my hen night at a hotel who were having a 70s and 80s disco. Folk who wanted to dressed up and folk who didnāt, didnāt. I bought tacky novelty things for the tables (inflatable guitars and microphones and the like) and it was such a good night.
That was 10 years ago and a lot of friends and acquaintances were doing the going abroad and having a home henny too thing even then. No shade to anyone who does that but I think being an all-day guest at a wedding can be expensive enough without paying for yourself and part of the brideās trip to Ibiza and chipping in for matching clothes, hats etc. It must make some guests feel bad.
Sorry I canāt remember who said it before but everyone knows someone who organises collections and kitties and scams it so they donāt have to pay![]()
Find yer own content, head - Chezza wants hers back!!Like she didnāt go swanning off to Dubai a few months back the first chance she got along with the rest of the influenzas?shes so out of touch