I went out with a guy when I was a teenager, for about a year. Now I'm married to his mate and he lives round the corner with his wife and its not awkward!
when I just started my job there was a guy I knew there who had been trying to get with me for agessss. We had the same circle of friends etc but he was a serious fucking player so I kept saying no. Fast forward Xmas do whaf did I do … went home with him. He has the biggest Willy I’ve ever seen to this daywe’re still friends now ! He has just bought a house with his gf & I obvs have a baby and a fella.we never told anyone it happened and I don’t even think we discussed it. Was just a drunken fumble that proved where better off as buddies
when I just started my job there was a guy I knew there who had been trying to get with me for agessss. We had the same circle of friends etc but he was a serious fucking player so I kept saying no. Fast forward Xmas do whaf did I do … went home with him. He has the biggest Willy I’ve ever seen to this daywe’re still friends now ! He has just bought a house with his gf & I obvs have a baby and a fella.we never told anyone it happened and I don’t even think we discussed it. Was just a drunken fumble that proved where better off as buddies Not sure why I still call my three year old a baby 🥹
So much makes sense now.RLF has the biggest Willy I’ve ever seen
You lucky galRLF has the biggest Willy I’ve ever seen
Haha why??So much makes sense now.
Why you're always at itHaha why??
We’re not always at itWhy you're always at it
I used to know someone (it will soon become clear why we're no longer in touch) who kept a record in her diary of every time she shagged her husband. Not just that it had happened, but also location, position, and a brief review.We’re not always at itjust had a good month
making up for all the time we couldn’t
I am so invested in this!Right, the crush. You get the cons first so you don't get your hopes up.
We work together closely enough that it'd probably be a problem.
He's not my boss but he is a level above me in the hierarchy so potentially mild power dynamics ickiness.
He's a real outdoorsy active type which obviously I'm not.
Extroverted and sociable and has a million friends, which, if we're being truly honest, simply wouldn't work with my whole weirdo loner vibes. Realistically, would be exhausting.
Taller than me but only just. I'm not convinced VAR would notice the difference. Inevitably I would feel like a big clomping monster.
I belong alone and am OK with that.
And then the pros, so you get where I'm coming from.
Fit. Not like bae-gorgeous (who is?) but fit in a grinning puppy-dog kind of way.
An actual adult man who mows the lawn and puts up shelves and doesn't need looking after. Emotionally stable in a way men I'm attracted to generally tend not to be.
Properly warm and friendly. Remembers little comments about your life or family and asks engaging follow-up questions next time he sees you. Loves a "what's for tea?" chat.
Really clever and knowledgeable but wears it lightly, helps me if I ask him to but never assumes I won't understand something. No ego - asks me for help when he thinks I know better.
Hilarious in just the way I like. Thinks of a pun and has to let me know about it, then waits eagerly to find out if I can do a better one.
I think he sounds like a really nice person to have in your lifeOh, you guys....
I don't know if he likes me. My track record in this regard is an endless parade of obliviousness.
He talks to me every day we're both in the office.
He always tries to persuade me to come on nights out etc with people from work, and when I do go he often buys me drinks (not like getting me drunk, I mean like two glasses of wine or something) and won't let me return the favour.
And sometimes at work if I'm busy he'll bring me a cup of tea unasked.
And he remembers the things I'm interested in and will say, "I saw this and thought of you..."
So I kind of feel like there's some sort of connection there. But I'm not sure how much of it is just that he's a good person.
I find it very hard to believe anyone could like me, there's a lot of nonsense I have to drown out in my head to even consider it.
I used to know someone (it will soon become clear why we're no longer in touch) who kept a record in her diary of every time she shagged her husband. Not just that it had happened, but also location, position, and a brief review.
I’m with you in both of your comments. But not everything ends badlyI am so invested in this!
Right, so the biggest con for me is how close you work with him. Let’s say you do go out with him. If it goes badly, who knows how he’ll react to you at work and if he - or others who find out - makes it difficult for you. This is just me projecting my own overly-sensitive and political workplace onto you, sorry. I’d just want to ensure your job and reputation stay solid. The other big con is his huge social circle. I’m 100% with you on that one. It sounds a bit much and let’s hope he’s not co-dependent on them. All the pros sound really nice, though I must say./SPOILER]
Yep same hereI think he sounds like a really nice person to have in your life
Jesus Christ! I don’t think there would have been enough space in my diary for when me and RLF first got togetheras if you’d review everytime
Me and RLF had a little break when I decided if he wasn’t going to marry me then I didn’t see the point in being together (I was young and dramatic) and I had a colleagues shoulder to cry on… we hooked up a few times and that was that. Even now i work with him a few times a month and he’s still the nicest person. I even went to his wedding earlier in the year
These are both such cute stories, I love them. I'm happy to hear you still get along with them.This is so cute and so well thought out. I'm a huge believer in if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
I had a thing with a guy once. We were never together, but we would hold hands and have little kisses and cuddles if we happened to be out together, more than friends but not enough to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Eventually it just fizzled away, we were seeing other people etc. Anyway, a few years later we ended up working together. Zero awkwardness and because we used to get on so well and had great chemistry, we just fell back into a lovely friendship (with no kisses or cuddles). So a success story of sorts! If it doesn't work out, it doesn't always have to be awkward.
Come on your turn sweetieYou girls have led such exciting lives!
I have no stories! My love life has always been very vanilla.Come on your turn sweetie
This leads to my extremely dull life right now... we've been together but with a small break for almost 13 years and yeah now i live vicariously through my ficsYou girls have led such exciting lives!
Your fics suggest otherwiseI have no stories! My love life has always been very vanilla.
You made the right choiceRLF has the biggest Willy I’ve ever seen
I wish mine hadI have no stories! My love life has always been very vanilla.
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