I feel exactly the same as you ! I had an ex who did exactly the same.I think she pushed him so far that he lost his tit. My ex used to do it to me and then sit back watch me unravel and then tell me he always knew I was mental
she knew exactly what she was doing when she started to record him. She’s winding me up with all this crap!
I totally believe that Jodie would be the type of person to co-erce Billy into losing his tit just so that she could record him being angry, whilst she "calmly" spoke to him. Bet it was all premeditated.
The more she says, the more I think that he was trying to leave for weeks/months whilst she plotted to gather evidence against him.
I could be totally wrong and blurring the lines of my situation with my ex and Billy and Jodie - but she has form of doing this after all of her relationships end. It seems to me like she's enjoying destroying him a bit too much.