The thing is some of these aren't arts and crafts can get a bumper pack of Amazon for £15 there's loads in there it swimming isn't expensive if you do it once in a blue moon I agree it is if say your going weekly there's no excuse for it like you sayTotally agree. it’s expensive to do these thing, but If she has hundreds to spend on clothes for herself, meals etc then she has absolutely no excuse not to be doing things with her kids.