Like her or not, Roxy Jacenko packed 400 boxes of stock yesterday. The difference between her and our Jesssiiii.
Jessiikkaaa packs 50 boxes and needs a lie down.
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Another classic example of adhd. This used to be me. Jessi please, babes, get assessed
I'm the same too. I'm medicated and yes it helps a tonne but it's still a big conscious effort that never ends. I'd be ignoring my kids all day if I wanted my house to be perfect. Jess ignores her kids AND her house chores.
Completely agree that disorganisation and messy home are typical for adhd, which is ironic because we work best, and prefer to be in, clean environments. But with the all or nothing mentality that comes with adhd, it can be really overwhelming to start cleaning a messy house as we see it as one big task to complete, whereas a neurotyoical person will just clean a room or two at a time. A classic example for Jessi is the 3 hour deep clean the other day, I can only assume she hyper focused. I will say though that some people, particularly women, appear very organised and have super tidy homes. That’s a learnt masking behaviour, I do that a lot. I’m super early to things, and prepare wah in advance, because I’ve learnt I need to otherwise I’m late and unorganised and let loved ones down. I also decluttered a lot and try to live minimally (as much as a young family can) so I have a better chance of staying on top of the housework and mess.
Also the motivating factors for people with adhd are external, which is why we do things at last minute, or might race around and clean up right before we are due to have guests over or our partner comes home from work. Jessi used to clean right before her cleaner came at the old house, or she packs bloom orders at the very end of an acceptable time frame to be dispatching them. She waits until the packaging for her Christmas albums run out, even if she did realise the Christmas party orders will make her run short, because she left it to the very last minute to complete that task of ordering more. She doesn’t have that internal motivation that neurotypical people have.
On her stories tonight before they leave for Bowies dinner, where she comments on Phil’s safari outfit, you can see piles of stuff everywhere. Again super typical for adhd to go to the effort of piling things up, put clutter in a drawer or bag, and then never completely follow through by then taking the next step of putting the things in the pile (or bag or drawer) away.
Binge eating is also typical, I feel like we see that in her constant intake of Coca Cola, maccas, takeaway. People with adhd with a lower baseline of dopamine so they are constantly seeking dopamine hits, one way to get a dopamine hit is through junk food / binge eating. On the topic of how much coke she drinks, undiagnosed adhd people usually unwittingly medicate themselves with caffeine - coke or coffee. It’s because it’s a stimulant, as is a prescribed adhd medication, so it’s actually having a different effect on her than a neurotypical . I used to have min 4 coffees a day before being diagnosed, if anything I’d be able to take a nap after a coffee. It completely explains her Coca Cola and coffee addiction.
Personal hygiene also typically lacks in adhd because of too many steps involved, or sensory issues. An example for Jessi was the lack of aftercare during her mummy makeover, and lack of care for her body even now after going to all that effort. She eats crap and doesn’t exercise.
Which then leads to the example of hyper focus and impulsivity for her, the way she cycles through hobbies like ice skating, the bike (I think?), projects around the house. She rarely follows through and finishes the project before starting another one - typical adhd. It’s also the all or nothing mentality of adhd. If she’s not good at something right away she doesn’t get a dopamine hit, then she gives up easily as her brain actually cannot muster up enough motivation to continue.
and wear something sensible like a loose, sleeveless singlet to pack orders in a hot garage! I get she wants to dress like Hailey Beiber and her idols, but Hailey’s not packing orders in a hot garage in Queensland 
Too self involved to put any effort into your son's birthday. Sure some kids do love a Woolies cake, but I doubt Bowie chose this and with a tealight candle instead of 7 measly candles. It's the little desire to make the kids happy that upsets me. She is always the first and only priority.
love a woolies cake for mid week birthdays, add a small packet of smarties, a birthday banner & figurines literally takes 2 minutes. How shitty of a mother can you be 
I don't understand how she or Phil thinks this is ok when they constantly spend $$$ on useless shit, jess still looks like a meth head, the house "renos" & "styling" look ridiculous & those poor kids & dog are just neglected 
