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I could have written your post! Am one of six, mum and dad weren’t very interested past the cute stage. I was a pretty neglected adolescent and it took years out of my teen and adult years to unpack all that. I only have one child because I want to pour all my attention and resources into her, bit extreme maybe but I try to avoid making my Narc mothers mistakes all the time.
She’s said that pretty often and has previously attributed it to one of her other brothers but now seems to take it on as her own creation/saying. I guess what she means is that your siblings are the only ones who have come from the exact same place as you and witness your life and journey from start to end pretty much.
Exactly that. I understand what she means but from
another standpoint. I only have one sibling, much younger than me. So I have a ton of family memories that they don’t have because they weren’t around!
I'm sure that's what she meant, but it comes across as very self absorbed to describe them as a 'witness to your life' as if their main job is to stand around and look at you, and if they have the audacity to die, that is one less person to do that.
admittedly I've never lost a sibling but seems like an odd way of framing things to me
exactly! but she's clearly proud of her choice of phrasing
as a writer you'd think she'd be better with words
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Funny, I actually thought she showed some growth and development with her recent ig post about her attitude towards exercise. I guess it's one step forward, two steps backI think we have a challenger to reposting bitchy bathroom comments: reposting negative goodread reviews
handling criticism like water off a duck's back
there's something quite bleak about her reading all her goodreads reviews
I quite liked the reel.
I can barely listen to the latest podcast featuring Alfie. Not only does he pass WAY too much comment on the clothing Jessie wears, but how she describes feeling like “she can’t believe she has a boyfriend”…. Wtf. 4 kids later and you have weird teenage thoughts like that. No wonder he takes the absolute piss, imagine knowing that your partner feels as though they don’t deserve to be with you!
Yeah she's had a thread for a while but it's not hugely active
I haven't listened to the newest Jessie podcast with Alfie. do you think they did it because so many people were like - you went to the football final???
But, I have now listened to the Alfie podcast about Formula one! Weird really but some in my family - sister and her husband especially - have got into F1 over lockdown with the Netflix thing, and last weekend they recommended a podcast about it and I found it was Jessie's extremely busy boyfriend and father of her 4 kids. Quite weird now that I started following Jessie because of her doodles and now I'm consuming more of Alfie's 'content'. Anyway the thing is - the podcast is undeniably funny and my brother in law had never heard of alfie or jessie so it was weird to have it coming from that angle. I didn't say to him - Yes I know a LOT more about his partner and his kids and their life than I should...
But, I have now listened to the Alfie podcast about Formula one! Weird really but some in my family - sister and her husband especially - have got into F1 over lockdown with the Netflix thing, and last weekend they recommended a podcast about it and I found it was Jessie's extremely busy boyfriend and father of her 4 kids. Quite weird now that I started following Jessie because of her doodles and now I'm consuming more of Alfie's 'content'. Anyway the thing is - the podcast is undeniably funny and my brother in law had never heard of alfie or jessie so it was weird to have it coming from that angle. I didn't say to him - Yes I know a LOT more about his partner and his kids and their life than I should...
I find the way they atomise their relationship & being parents to four young kids quite odd
So odd. Like, they never refer to themselves as a family, do they? And Jessie's post the other day about trying to get all 4 kids out of the house and it being difficult, you'd think she was a single mum. Alfie's back and should be doing all the parenting stuff and letting Jessie take a backseat or only do the stuff she needs to do for Becker. She talked about (on WIK recently) feeling guilty about leaving the kids for anything, even work but it sure seems like Alfie doesn't.
I just wish she’d cut her hair. When you’re that invested in maintaining super long hair, even though it’s difficult to care for and doesn’t look particularly attractive, you have issues. I get the impression that she’s as obsessive about hair as she is about skin and not moving her face She really is neurotic.
She really is neurotic.- Status