Jasmine Lipska

[sweetpotato3]

Hi guys I've been lurking on the forum and the GG forum for a few days. I was really shocked and honedtly relieved to see I wasn't alone in my concerns about Jasmine.
I've never been a client of Jasmines but I did go to highschool with her. I remember her being sweet, pretty and kind but also quite shy.

She was known at school to be popular and clever at learning languages, she would often win the top awards for Bahasa Indonesia.
I admired her a lot and was really happy to see her start a YouTube channel and continue her language learning journey and travels.

Once she got famous I noticed she unfollowed / deleted many of her highschool friends and classmates including myself online which didn't bother me so much because we were not that close. The first thing that put me off about her was her advice on using " the pull out method" to her followed on YouTube and What also bothered me was when I realised she was charging prices that of a lawyer, counselor or acrual psychologist for her services and she's not qualified at all! $400-600AUD
i also noticed that only a few days after the couple announced they were committed to Angel and taking care of her , she posts a desperate ad on Facebook for someone to adopt Angel??
Just goes to show they use social media to boast their image and don't really care about Angel at all.

The fact that she's earning top dollar Aussie income and living in Bali where the cost of living is already low, also now even lower due to the pandemic makes no sense and is taking advantage of the locals.

her husband is idiotic, racist and disgusting and uses the terms masculine and feminine in the wrong ways. It's disgusting how she's had like one realtionshio for a couple months and that automatically makes her some sort of couples counsellor.
it bothers me how she claims everything u want can just be manifested when she clearly doesn't take into account her privellage. I'm born and raised in Australia and everytime I visit Indonesia usually 2 times a year pre cocid it's the first thing I notice. The clear disparity between tourists, wealthy indonesians and the poorer locals. She and her idiot husband won't even wear a mask when walking in public wtf?!!


I am Chinese indonesian myself and how josh and her treat the locals and how josh treats jasmines own background hurts me on a deep level.
I am so dissapointed at who I once saw as a rolemodel. She's nowjust a con artist.

 

[foreverfernweh]

I've never been a client of Jasmines but I did go to highschool with her. I remember her being sweet, pretty and kind but also quite shy.

She was known at school to be popular and clever at learning languages, she would often win the top awards for Bahasa Indonesia.

If you went to high school with her, then you must have known her "best friend" Courtney as well, right? Was Jasmine popular though? She always seems to vilify female companions/friends...

 

[sweetpotato3]

we were not in the same year level so I didn't know Courtney personally but I did see her around. Yes Jasmine was popular, I don't know how many friends from highschool she still keeps in touch with though.

 

[Ladyhush38]

How can someone be popular if they had no friends? She said that her whole group of friends ditched her.

we were not in the same year level so I didn't know Courtney personally but I did see her around. Yes Jasmine was popular, I don't know how many friends from highschool she still keeps in touch with though.

 

[sweetpotato3]

again, I was not close to her or in her yesr level to know things on a deeper level but from how things looked she did have friends based off seeing her at lunch time with friends and I also remember her being invited to parties too. I guess it's just how "popular" is defined . I wouldn't go as far as to say she had no friends in highschool though.

i will add though that we went to an all girls school and the environment was quite toxic. So even when I myself was in a " group" it did not feel like I had a lot of close friends.

 

[foreverfernweh]

again, I was not close to her or in her yesr level to know things on a deeper level but from how things looked she did have friends based off seeing her at lunch time with friends and I also remember her being invited to parties too. I guess it's just how "popular" is defined . I wouldn't go as far as to say she had no friends in highschool though.

i will add though that we went to an all girls school and the environment was quite toxic. So even when I myself was in a " group" it did not feel like I had a lot of close friends.

Well that I can definitely relate to. Girls school or even just high school in general is so cliquey and people at that age are so immature that having a big group of friends doesn't necessarily mean you're actually close friends with them. So Jasmine is probably just surface level friends with them.

 

[st00pidness]

Josh is so racist it's disgusting

Is this supposed to be.... funny?
The humor of this guy ....

 

[hopahopa]

New post about the topic of jealousy. She uses a very specific example of "when your partner has a female friend". Just find it interesting that out of all the examples of jealousy to choose from, she picks that

We know Josh has a history with pretty blonde Bali influencers (Jade Joselyn etc) and this may be a real sore point for Jasmine as it goes against her pure "one soulmate for life" mentality and is now self soothing in the form of a caption rather than addressing it with her husband. Do you think this could partly been the reason for when she stormed off on a solo getaway a few months ago?

She definitely seems the insecure type tbh and Josh is not exactly a reformed fuckboy no matter what he claims. He got caught looking at other half naked girls on his insta story if you guys remember! "What you need is to feel special and prioritised" Ties into her doing photoshoots "to feel sexy" because Josh might not be giving her this validation and is seeking it from social media. At the end of the day, Josh literally has to have post it notes around their villa that say "I love my wife" to remind himself to love her. Not really a good sign lol.

Really weird, if Jasmine is not his type and she knows that then why force it????
Some people have specific types in looks that they like for example Josh likes blonds and that’s a well known fact, this does not mean to say that he doesn’t find brunettes, gingers, oriental, Indian and blacks attractive on specific cases but these are not his type and we all know that.

I actually know two cases of Polish men that love women black women but they settled for Polish women like them because first of all they lived in small towns and in their time diversity was non existent in their area and that the wife of one them can actually pass for a black woman when she uses fake tan because she has a wide nose and tick lips.

I think Jasmine and Josh would have been fine to just go on a few coffees, dinners, chit chat and maybe a bit of intimacy and move on but I don’t think Jasmine was mentally prepared for something like that and Josh was probably feeling bad for hurting a naive girl like her so he went along, saw her fairly big following at the time and thought he could perhaps start his too.
Just goes to show that you have to be careful with these online dating sites/apps and in the physical world too to be honest.

EDIT: Real men that love their wives don’t say it much nor show it a lot only on tight and specific circumstances because they see it as a sign of vulnerability and something girly.

This is only my opinion I could be wrong but it’s the result of my observations based on what’s shared on the internet.

 

[Jellyjam_]

again, I was not close to her or in her yesr level to know things on a deeper level but from how things looked she did have friends based off seeing her at lunch time with friends and I also remember her being invited to parties too. I guess it's just how "popular" is defined . I wouldn't go as far as to say she had no friends in highschool though.

i will add though that we went to an all girls school and the environment was quite toxic. So even when I myself was in a " group" it did not feel like I had a lot of close friends.

Hello, forgive me for being a little wary but everything you said is just things we've already been talking about and already know. You say she's a role model to you but then you say you weren't even close with her? Ofc I'm just a stranger on the internet you don't need to prove anything to me it's just I hope you understand where I'm coming from, don't want to invalidate your experience in any way x

Check out this new reel she looks absolutely deranged, not to mention using a Cardi B audio to seem cool and fun. She literally looked so uncomfortable mouthing the word "tina" LMAO
And the caption, once again bringing her own life into it such as "cutting off a family members" yet she says "communicating with your partner rather than giving silent treatment"... Yet she gets annoyed at Josh and walks out on him? And also "taking constructive criticism rather than getting defensive" is just so hilarious to me. Would be good for her to take her own advice for once, doesn't really seem like she's putting in effort to heal ancestral wounds is she? lol.

The way she capitalises Coach is just so weird like she's God or some all knowing all seeing person. Much more respected professionals don't call themselves Doctor or Lawyer

 

[Garlic_Bread]

I swear this girl has an obsession with her tina or whatever she wants to call it.

 

[SerenityPlays]

Former Lipska client, was in one of her earlier group community a few years back. This was before she was a coach. One word. Wow. It's incredible that I'm not alone in feeling a little weird about the way she became money hungry. Everything mentioned in this forum is spot on. She's nice, but can tell she is inexperienced and just regurgitates free content you can find online. Back then she wasn't in a relationship and would get uncomfortable talking about dating and relationships. So it's interesting to see that she went full on in dating & relationship advice based on her only romantic relationship with Josh.

I think the most interesting thing about her program is that there were teenage girls in the paid group program (like 15-16 yo). Makes sense because most of them came from watching her YouTube content. I always thought it was weird that these younger girls were paying for her programs, because they accepted everything Jasmine was telling them as the truth, and lacked critical thinking skills. I assume they got the money and permission from their parents? But signing up back then, you didn't have to indicate age, which is weird looking back in hindsight because a lot of what she was sharing were therapy topics like mental health.

At some points, I felt uncomfortable Jasmine giving out advice to the teenage girls, when in reality I think a lot of these younger girls were highly vulnerable and would have benefitted from a therapist. I would not be surprised if those same teenage girls are now paying for her current programs because her Loved program is targeted for those who are inexperienced in relationships. I find a lot of her current programs don't appeal to me anymore or an older adult audience.

She also tried to sell me to join her other paid programs. I politely rejected because didn't feel like any of her programs were dealing with anything I needed help on and her lack of experience.

I'm not a fan that she calls herself a life coach and promotes "inner child healing", and "shadow work". Generally speaking, coaching is more focused on helping you achieve your future goals, while therapy tends to have more of a past and present focus.

The work she is proclaiming is what therapy does, which is misleading because she is not a therapist. That disclaimer is important because I think a lot of people who come across her content treat her services like therapy. Especially when she talks about childhood wounds, she does not have the education to consult her clients on it in an ethical, medical or responsible way.

This wording on her bio is also concerning "Guiding women in embodying self-love to create the 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 and 𝗮𝗯𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 of their dreams". Therapy focuses on the topics Jasmine is proclaiming she is helping her clients with, such as mental health, eating disorders, body image, etc. If she wants to claim life coaching, her work needs to focus on helping her clients achieve goals not related to their mental health or well-being.

The major difference between therapy and life coaching is the focus of the work: therapy focuses on mental health and emotional healing, while life coaching focuses on setting and achieving goals. The way she advertises and operates her business is kind of misleading and unethical because it sounds a lot like therapy. I'm surprised no one has called her out on that.

Thank you for sharing!!! I agree with you, it is unethical and irresponsible of her to take advantage of teenage girls for money.

Also she uses a lot of therapy buzz words like “trauma” and talking about childhood with her clients like she’s a damn therapist! Jasmine is a quack. A modern scam artist. That is her legacy.

 

[Ladyhush38]

Her “yoni”. Yeah we get it, you have a tina like all women. Yeah, you’re using it often to have sex with a loser. What you’ve achieved is nothing special so stop harping on about it! The more she talks about her “yoni” and the tantric sex sex stuff the more it’s obvious that she has very little experience in that department. If I were her, I’d keep my mouth shut cos I don’t want to come across as a sex starved novice

I swear this girl has an obsession with her tina or whatever she wants to call it.

 

[SerenityPlays]

Thank you so much for your testimony! If there's any other former Jasmine clients or you're lurking, feel free to contribute.
You make an excellent point about disclaimers. None of this would be half as bad if she just put a simple disclaimer saying she's not a therapist and to seek real professional help. By implicitly claiming to "cure" and "heal" complex issues is highly irresponsible and can almost certainly cause more harm that good. Whether she's a aware of this or not is up for debate. For example, most ASMR videos always put a disclaimer saying if people have issues with insomnia or sleep, they should speak to a professional and not rely on their videos.

It's super worrying and sad that lost teenagers as young as 15 and young women go to her for advice. She clearly knows this and is taking advantage of these poor girls which is why she takes on a big sister/motherly approach in her comments, calling people "dear" or "sweetheart", fostering a parasocial relationship with them in the process. The amount of girls who pour their hearts out to her in lengthy comments, saying they can't wait to meet her one day and give her a hug etc while she just responds with the exact same copy and paste "I'm glad this resonated with you *insert name* "

I also really dislike the fact she exploited a legal grey area and practiced coaching and therapy whilst being completely unqualified, calling it "membership calls" instead to make it sounds like a cute club. Very shady behaviour. She's also been very careless and has actually leaked private group calls in the past which is blatant breach of confidentiality. I'll leave the screenshot (with faces blurred of course)

I've got a theory there are quite a few clients that like you, become disillusioned after a while once they realise the truth and therefore, aren't repeat customers which is why Jasmine tries to sell so hard because there's only a finite source of girls to scam.

And the reason why no one has called her out is because unfortunately, no one can get through to her, she's like a brick wall that just blocks and deletes. She simply doesn't want to hear anyone or anything that even remotely goes against her.

I still can’t believe she leaked the video of her group call with her clients!

Hi guys I've been lurking on the forum and the GG forum for a few days. I was really shocked and honedtly relieved to see I wasn't alone in my concerns about Jasmine.
I've never been a client of Jasmines but I did go to highschool with her. I remember her being sweet, pretty and kind but also quite shy.

She was known at school to be popular and clever at learning languages, she would often win the top awards for Bahasa Indonesia.
I admired her a lot and was really happy to see her start a YouTube channel and continue her language learning journey and travels.

Once she got famous I noticed she unfollowed / deleted many of her highschool friends and classmates including myself online which didn't bother me so much because we were not that close. The first thing that put me off about her was her advice on using " the pull out method" to her followed on YouTube and What also bothered me was when I realised she was charging prices that of a lawyer, counselor or acrual psychologist for her services and she's not qualified at all! $400-600AUD
i also noticed that only a few days after the couple announced they were committed to Angel and taking care of her , she posts a desperate ad on Facebook for someone to adopt Angel??
Just goes to show they use social media to boast their image and don't really care about Angel at all.

The fact that she's earning top dollar Aussie income and living in Bali where the cost of living is already low, also now even lower due to the pandemic makes no sense and is taking advantage of the locals.

her husband is idiotic, racist and disgusting and uses the terms masculine and feminine in the wrong ways. It's disgusting how she's had like one realtionshio for a couple months and that automatically makes her some sort of couples counsellor.
it bothers me how she claims everything u want can just be manifested when she clearly doesn't take into account her privellage. I'm born and raised in Australia and everytime I visit Indonesia usually 2 times a year pre cocid it's the first thing I notice. The clear disparity between tourists, wealthy indonesians and the poorer locals. She and her idiot husband won't even wear a mask when walking in public wtf?!!


I am Chinese indonesian myself and how josh and her treat the locals and how josh treats jasmines own background hurts me on a deep level.
I am so dissapointed at who I once saw as a rolemodel. She's nowjust a con artist.

Thank you for sharing! But didn’t Jasmine first meet Courtney in uni and not in high school? So I’m a bit confused how you saw Courtney in your high school when Jasmine was older than you and probably in uni by then.

 

[foreverfernweh]

Thank you for sharing! But didn’t Jasmine first meet Courtney in uni and not in high school? So I’m a bit confused how you saw Courtney in your high school when Jasmine was older than you and probably in uni by then.

No I'm pretty sure they were high school friends?

 

[sweetpotato3]

thats okay I get where you're coming from. I wish I could go into more detail but at the same time I don't want her to know that's is ME posting
I was in the year below her and when I say she was a role model I meant because I studied Indonesian and my teacher would always use her as an example because she did so well in Indonesian and her studies in general.
hope you get where I'm coming from!
Also yes I definitely agree on everything that's been said so far on the forum and kind of just wanted to rant on my own, sorry if it was repetitive!

most of my interactions with Jasmine during highschool was afar and I mainly reached out to her more when she was in Uni and I was in my final year of highschool for advice, hence why I can't comment much on her actual friendships in highschool other than just what it looked like to me and my friends.

 

[SerenityPlays]

thats okay I get where you're coming from. I wish I could go into more detail but at the same time I don't want her to know.
I was in the year below her and when I say she was a role model I meant because I studied Indonesian and my teacher would always use her as an example because she did so well in Indonesian and her studies in general.
hope you get where I'm coming from!
Also yes I definitely agree on everything that's been said so far on the forum and kind of just wanted to rant on my own, sorry if it was repetitive!

most of my interactions with Jasmine during highschool was afar and I mainly reached out to her more when she was in Uni and I was in my final year of highschool for advice, hence why I can't comment much on her actual friendships in highschool other than just what it looked like to me and my friends.

No worries! Thank you again for sharing. It’s always refreshing to hear from people who know her even from a distance in real life. I hope more people who are lurking who know her IRL share as well.

Sorry to hear she cut you and other people IRL off. It is a bit weird she did that and isolates herself with following only people on social media. Especially if they were nice people.

This is why we theorize she has issues with maintaining long friendships. It’s like she purposely isolates herself and focuses on growing the Jasmine Lipska brand only and not the Jasmine Lipski person. Tbh she probably would be unbearable as a friend since her job overlaps with her personal life.

 

[Jellyjam_]

thats okay I get where you're coming from. I wish I could go into more detail but at the same time I don't want her to know.
I was in the year below her and when I say she was a role model I meant because I studied Indonesian and my teacher would always use her as an example because she did so well in Indonesian and her studies in general.
hope you get where I'm coming from!
Also yes I definitely agree on everything that's been said so far on the forum and kind of just wanted to rant on my own, sorry if it was repetitive!

most of my interactions with Jasmine during highschool was afar and I mainly reached out to her more when she was in Uni and I was in my final year of highschool for advice, hence why I can't comment much on her actual friendships in highschool other than just what it looked like to me and my friends.

Hey thank you for understanding and I totally get where you're coming from! Sometimes they annoy me so much I get a bit repetitive too haha. If only Jasmine would apply her excellent Indonesian skills for her English because her captions are a jumbled up load of nonsense lol

Just went onto their channel and saw this, 1) they didn't even answer the person's question at all and 2) they don't even know what gaslighting means?? If you're touting yourself as a advice expert/quasi therapist then at least do due diligence rather than talk out of your ass like come on! I'm convinced they learn a new word and just fit it in whenever they can such as "quantum leap" etc. They're just so confidently wrong it's infuriating!

Is this supposed to be.... funny?
The humor of this guy ....

Unfortunately, Jasmine has reached 50k followers however fortunately, her engagement has hit rock bottom. She sells her body, family secrets and dignity to only get 1000-2000 likes and 20 comments maximum. Sad.

Speaking of engagement, I think Josh is genuinely that racist and is probably much worse in private which speaks volumes about the type of person Jasmine is if she condones it. I also think he deliberately posts cringe, controversial content because he gets the most views. His other one mocking spice tolerance wearing a turban to pretend to be indian and squinting his eyes to be Chinese is unfortunately his highest ever viewed TikTok with the most comments, that one has hundreds and thousands whereas he normally gets a couple hundred views. He's honestly pathetic.

I swear this girl has an obsession with her tina or whatever she wants to call it.

If you think about it, Jasmine only really discovered financial independence away from her parents as well as sex only a year or so ago so it's all very new and exciting for her. Playing big woman renting a house and having sex. You're not special Jasmine so quit acting like you've been blessed by God with these special powers and it's your divine right to teach others when you're literally like every other woman, just more insufferable and arrogant.

This is why we theorize she has issues with maintaining long friendships. It’s like she purposely isolates herself and focuses on growing the Jasmine Lipska brand only and not the Jasmine Lipski person. Tbh she probably would be unbearable as a friend since her job overlaps with her personal life.

Her life is her brand and her job, I've casually dm'd both her and Josh a fair few times to question them and they respond almost immediately, they respond to every comment too which means they just don't get many interested people actually engaging or they're like sharks looking for their next bait. They even know people on first name basis so a vast majority of their following don't even care about them and probably just see a nice setting with fairly attractive people. It's actually quite sad how their life is consumed by social media. Ironically they're prisoners to it

 

[SerenityPlays]

Hey thank you for understanding and I totally get where you're coming from! Sometimes they annoy me so much I get a bit repetitive too haha. If only Jasmine would apply her excellent Indonesian skills for her English because her captions are a jumbled up load of nonsense lol

Just went onto their channel and saw this, 1) they didn't even answer the person's question at all and 2) they don't even know what gaslighting means?? If you're touting yourself as a advice expert/quasi therapist then at least do due diligence rather than talk out of your ass like come on! I'm convinced they learn a new word and just fit it in whenever they can such as "quantum leap" etc. They're just so confidently wrong it's infuriating!



Unfortunately, Jasmine has reached 50k followers however fortunately, her engagement has hit rock bottom. She sells her body, family secrets and dignity to only get 1000-2000 likes and 20 comments maximum. Sad.

Speaking of engagement, I think Josh is genuinely that racist and is probably much worse in private which speaks volumes about the type of person Jasmine is if she condones it. I also think he deliberately posts cringe, controversial content because he gets the most views. His other one mocking spice tolerance wearing a turban to pretend to be indian and squinting his eyes to be Chinese is unfortunately his highest ever viewed TikTok with the most comments, that one has hundreds and thousands whereas he normally gets a couple hundred views. He's honestly pathetic.


If you think about it, Jasmine only really discovered financial independence away from her parents as well as sex only a year or so ago so it's all very new and exciting for her. Playing big woman renting a house and having sex. You're not special Jasmine so quit acting like you've been blessed by God with these special powers and it's your divine right to teach others when you're literally like every other woman, just more insufferable and arrogant.


Her life is her brand and her job, I've casually dm'd both her and Josh a fair few times to question them and they respond almost immediately, they respond to every comment too which means they just don't get many interested people actually engaging or they're like sharks looking for their next bait. They even know people on first name basis so a vast majority of their following don't even care about them and probably just see a nice setting with fairly attractive people. It's actually quite sad how their life is consumed by social media. Ironically they're prisoners to it

Not surprised Josh’s racist tik toks are getting more views. Considering the major age cohort on Tik Tok are immature teenagers. I can imagine teenage kids eating this up because they don’t have the full awareness that it’s racist. They just react to the shock/outrageous factor.

Josh’s taste in comedy and sense of humor is that of a 13 year old boy.

 

[SerenityPlays]

Came across this viral ongoing investigation and it made me think of Jasmine and Josh.

Like them, Gabby Petito, in this video is an influencer specifically on vanlife and travelling. She is 22 and engaged and blissfully documented her travels online with her fiancé. They have an argument and turns out to be domestic violence.

Fast forward today, she is missing and her fiancé won’t cooperate with investigators. Shortly after being questioned by police, he also goes “missing”.

This attached video comment perfectly incapsulates to take everything you see on social media with a grain of salt. Seemingly blissful and happy couples, like Jasmine and Josh, could be miserable and fighting all the time behind the scenes. Further exacerbated by the need to perform on social media, surely can take a toll on a relationship.

I know Jasmine likes to reference her parents as successfully marrying young and still being together. But I think that’s partly due to them not feeling the need to document and monetize their relationship online. In fact, her parent’s relationship at least her dad is kept private. I think that is key to the success of their relationship.

Jasmine and Josh don’t keep their relationship private, which increases risk of strain and stress to “perform” for followers.

 

[Ladyhush38]

Josh wants more of her money and less of of her whinging

Jasmine wants more of Josh’s attention and sausage because she is a sex starved desperate loser

I should get them to pay me to be their therapist. I’ll charge them through the roof and re-distribute the fees to all the people they conned. I would love to be Robina Hood!