I hope he knocks her clean out one day. Do I condone domestic violence? Absolutely not. But like I’ve said before and having had experience with a narcissistic former partner, I 100% think that she is an emotional and financial abuser. Some of the evidence being:
complains when he spends his own money, can see what he is doing with money via alerts on her phone. But has no problem freely spending it herself, even though she doesn’t contribute to the household.
badmouthed his mother a lot, made him feel like his mother was a burden to him. Has alienated him from his mother, friends, other family. Runs his social media for him. She was on his tiktok one night on his phone on her live. So she knows the password to his phone. Does she go through it? Maybe.
on his rare nights out she picks out his outfits, messages him to check on him (she said this in a video), collects him afterwards - not out of niceness but so she can control when he comes home.
feeds him crap food, I believe she wants to make him as self concious as possible so he won’t leave her
is always a bit mean to him, humiliating him on lives and on youtube. E.g. making him shave his combover off on a video knowing he was self conscious about it.
uses her fake anxiety to make him feel sorry for her and to keep them in their pensioner lifestyle so he will stay with her forever.
Sorry the Fat Controller is really pissing me off atm and I am suuuuper premenstrual