James and Carys #9 flogging ITS collection being misleading shh James is now breastfeeding
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. In the breastfeeding pic Carys even comments that it was freezing cold. Imo Amber should've had a proper hat on and a coat
yeah I don't think we will every hear a bad thing from them. even today's stories about amber being fussy ended with oh but we are so grateful for how calm she is. just admit the last day or so has been hard. yes youre6 grateful you've got your baby, but doesn't mean you don't feel tired, emotional at times. she would be more relatable if she was just honest
i knew she would be one of those type of influencers....that whips the nips out whenever she gets the chance! i understand the baby needs feeding but why not find a more private spot to do it.
Sorry I don't agree, women have the right to breastfeed where ever they want to, wherever they feel comfortable.
Agreed. It's not a big deal.
i get that its their right etc but why not sit down to the side and have a muslin or something just to protect modesty a bit.
she doesnt look like shes comfortably feeding in that photo...she looks awkwardly stood in the middle of a car park!
some mums like modesty and some donāt care
It is natural after all.I have friends who cover up and some who donāt itās just preference
Iām sure if she was uncomfortable she would of covered up or gone elsewhere, no one is forcing her to do it that way haha
Iām probably going to be someone who covers up as I donāt feel comfortable getting my boobs out in front of people but itās so natural that thereās nothing wrong with it if some mums do
its not so much that's shes breastfeeding in public...its more the fact she has to post and take a photo every time she does it. its not natural its forced for the sake of getting a picture for social media. that's what really pisses me of about the celebs and influencers that do this.some mums like modesty and some donāt care
I have friends who cover up and some who donāt itās just preference
Iām sure if she was uncomfortable she would of covered up or gone elsewhere, no one is forcing her to do it that way haha
Iām probably going to be someone who covers up as I donāt feel comfortable getting my boobs out in front of people but itās so natural that thereās nothing wrong with it if some mums do
its like the bump all over again...whipping the bare thing out every 2 minutes for the socials.
i have many friends that have babies and they breastfed and would whip it out but there would be no fuss made about it and it was just a natural thing as it should be.
Sorry but preaching āModestyā during breastfeeding is just another way of shaming women. She doesnāt need to cover up, itās not a sexual act. If people choose to cover up thatās absolutely fine but thereās nothing wrong with not covering either. Itās a totally natural thing and itās just another way to shun breastfeeding parents into dark corners and toilets so not to make others āuncomfortableā. But really the people who are uncomfortable with it are the problem tbf because itās not a sexual act. Itās no different to an adult eating a meal at a table itās just food!
Influencers post pictures of all aspects of their life? They post photos of themselves eating, in underwear, etc. Itās all for social media itās literally their job, none of its natural. why would it be any different for a pregnant person
Why are they held to a different standard.edit to add: I donāt understand why influencers want to share all the mundane parts of their life donāt get me wrong. But if you follow influencers itās to be expected as part of their content.
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im not shaming im simply saying its all for attention and social media.Sorry but preaching āModestyā during breastfeeding is just another way of shaming women. She doesnāt need to cover up, itās not a sexual act. If people choose to cover up thatās absolutely fine but thereās nothing wrong with not covering either. Itās a totally natural thing and itās just another way to shun breastfeeding parents into dark corners and toilets so not to make others āuncomfortableā. But really the people who are uncomfortable with it are the problem tbf because itās not a sexual act. Itās no different to an adult eating a meal at a table itās just food!
Influencers post pictures of all aspects of their life? They post photos of themselves eating, in underwear, etc. Itās all for social media itās literally their job, none of its natural. why would it be any different for a pregnant person
Ashley james type vibes
personally, I'd cover up but it is personal choice. I assumed she would be the type to not
but I agree, we don't need to see a pic every time she breastfeeds in public. we get it, you can breastfeed, it isn't a personality trait although she said it was freezing, especially being on the beach it was probably a lot colder, so you would have thought this time she would have used a blanket to keep amber warm at least
but I agree, we don't need to see a pic every time she breastfeeds in public. we get it, you can breastfeed, it isn't a personality trait although she said it was freezing, especially being on the beach it was probably a lot colder, so you would have thought this time she would have used a blanket to keep amber warm at leastthis was the point i was trying to make lol i just couldnt word it correctpersonally, I'd cover up but it is personal choice. I assumed she would be the type to not
Sorry another stupid question from a non mum here... is breastfeeding in public legal? Like in terms of having boobs out. Isnāt that indecent exposure? Or does it not count if itās for feeding. I know some women put a thin blanket over themselves when they do it. Also Iāve heard of cafes asking feeding mothers to leave. Just not sure whatās actually accepted! Please donāt feel in making a judgement, I genuinely just donāt know - most mums I know bottle feed.
There is actually no law against public nudity (edit to add I mean for the top half. There are exposure laws to cover genitals but breasts arenāt genitals) in the UK so women can go topless. Private companies can obviously ask you to leave though.
Separate point. I hope Carys realised she does not have to be perfect. Iām not saying air all your woes but aiming for perfection will make her anxiety so much worse.
Why arenāt they putting amber in a snowsuit???? Iām getting so stressed looking at the pictures of them out and about itās so cold and that poor baby is just not covered up enough
To be fair I donāt know where they were but in cardiff today it was quite warm, 15 degrees ish. Maybe nearer the coast where it was windy it may have been colder though.
ohh so unrelated but I have to say, can't believe people consider 15 degrees as "warm" I live in a city where it gets to 40 degrees celcius in the summer
I mean since she was born, theyāve been out quite a few times and Iāve never seen her in a snowsuit. Also wasnāt it lightly snowing when she was a few days old, and they went on a walk and she wasnāt even in a snowsuit even then? Theyāre idiots
Sheās sat on a bench.
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