James and Carys #11 baby’s not perfect they won’t admit, Carys is ashamed of her tits.

[Yukon909]

Aka begging for a free one

 

[Livelaughlove123456]

No one that is actually happy with their body talks about it every single fucking day

 

[Corona]

I literally cannot get over her recent stories...shes stressed and upset she can’t do a workout because Amber was awake, saying she mourns the times when she could do what she wants...did she not realise that babies take up all your time? Clearly isnt all that happy with her body if she wants to work out that badly. And how stressed she was that Amber would have been awake on a walk as she is so alert and wants to look around..what?!?!?! Thats how babies learn!! Let the poor baby look around and take in her surroundings ffs. I honestly think she just wants and expects Amber to sleep all day and it genuinely stresses her out when she is awake. It makes me really sad

I was just about to comment on this too! Drives me insane. I wish she'd had a really difficult baby so she'd have been hit with a large dose of reality. She's got absolutely no idea about what "mum life" is like for the rest of us and she's sat there moaning that she couldn't get one the bike when she wanted to and had to wait 15 minutes. Eugh she's so annoying

 

[littlepup]

I don't think you fully know until you have a child how it feels. I don't think what how she feels is that uncommon to be honest, it's a huge adjustment, you can both love your child and take some time to adjust. No wonder a lot of people don't seek a bit of support or whatever if they feel this way, you just get judged and all sorts of accusations. Lots of people also are firm with routine to start with, I wasn't but some friends were, it worked for them- concerned for Amber's welfare as a previous poster said is a bit savage.

I find carys annoying and there's plenty to gripe about, but all of this is the same crap so many new mums have to contend with all of the time and it's sad.

I agree, despite wanting a baby for years I did find it hard when suddenly you can’t do anything you want to do, you are entirely governed by the baby pretty much around the clock. With breast feeding you’re potentially tied to baby every 3-4 hours and it can feel soooo restrictive - these things take some getting used to, no debate.
The point is though I don’t feel Carys has to contend with the same level of crap as most new mums. She has James at home so doesn’t have that same dependency, he can watch Amber. Her story about not being able to work out, but actually she did just 20 mins later - her version of not doing what you want is mild compared to most and she still gets to do an awful lot like still work, earn money, house projects, take holidays, workout in a home gym etc to soften the blow. To take to IG to moan she nearly missed doing some exercise because she chose not to walk with Amber awake, I just can’t sympathise.

 

[Jasba]

She’s a size 16 US and doesn’t look far off from Carys. Which is size 20 UK right? Cmon Carys.

 

[Livelaughlove123456]

It seems they didn’t realise having a baby would completely change their lives.

Carys wants to live the life she had before Amber but was apparently so desperate for a baby. It doesn’t make sense to me.

 

[plwcm]

To be fair there aren't many baby classes in the area (I'm near to carys) at the moment due to covid. They were my lifeline with my first and I am really going to miss them this time round if they don't start up again. Although there should be outdoor buggy fit classes which you'd think she would enjoy.

What did she say on her story? That she won't take Amber out incase she cries?

it was that they drove for their usual dog walk, realised they didn't have the sling (even though she has storied walks where they have just carried her), drove back home but now amber was awake and Carys didn't want to take her on the walk because she would be awake and alert and wanting to look at everything (which she apparently can't do in the sling, but they wouldn't take the buggy). Carys stayed home to have awake time with amber. Amber starts sleeping so Carys goes to workout on the peloton bike because she wants to push herself yet contradicts herself by saying she's been told she can't push herself due to ab separation?. Amber wakes up, Carys stresses because she wants to do her workout, but then says obviously Amber comes first so feeds her and she goes back to sleep, so Carys finishes her workout. She then rambles on about how she mourns being able to do what she wants when she wants.

Not being funny but if she's putting on this "I work out for my body when I want to blah blah blah" front, you wouldn't feel terrible and like you need to workout. I only ever feel guilty for not working out when I want to lose weight, not if I'm just working out for mental health etc. She honestly needs to just take a breather and heal her body first before trying to lose weight. it's honestly boring hearing all her bullshit excuses

 

[baby.number.3]

I’m Glad she’s taken amber to baby yoga…. But… why did need James to go, and drive? At over 3 months old it’s concerning that Carys still hasn’t taken her out herself.

I was just coming on to say this! So Carys goes to mum & baby yoga and James has to drive her there?
They’re grown adults, she doesn’t need to be supervised for everything

 

[plwcm]

anyone else laugh when in the vlog she was saying it feels like amber had been with them forever and she can't remember what her relationship with James was like before Amber. Wait a second, just last week you were saying that you mourned your life and relationship before Amber

Also very clear again that they've read here, even just the "neither of us are close to having PPD" comment clearly a lot of her followers think it as the comment section for this video is full of people saying for her to see her GP for help

 

[Yogarow]

I run a restaurant and bar and no way would I ever employ her. She has no skills for front of house service, which is actually NOT an unskilled job as many expect it to be! It is hard physically and mentally and face paced and we don not have room for lazy people. Similarity my husband would never employ her as a pot washer as the pot washer is one of the hardest workers in the whole building! They get instructions shouted at them and have to be on the ball, she wouldn't even know what a frying pan was!

 

[Wingingmotherhood]

Love, you’re not even 3 months postpartum. Did you really expect to have the body of a fitness model when your daughter is barely 3 months old when you didn’t have that body before & didn’t maintain an exercise plan or eat healthily during pregnancy (which is fine, but it seems like the only person with unrealistic postpartum expectations is Carys, no one else cares!)

 

[dramateachannel]

The way she talks in those stories makes it sound like she’s annoyed about having a baby. Omg I really hope they enjoy parenting soon because I feel so bad for amber atm.

 

[plwcm]

I think we can all agree hes obviously a great dad, hes taken to his new role with such ease, compared to Carys she is so dependent on James, and he enables her. It just adds to her anxieties, she needs to take those small steps and take Amber on her own to classes, or for a walk on her own or her fears will only multiply.

I don't get how exactly he enables her. There have been numerous times in vlogs where she says James has went to the gym or went out, she could easily go out for a walk with amber by herself. It is more a Carys problem in my eyes rather than James controlling her and not letting her do anything by herself. Probably going to build a home gym so James doesn't have to go out to the gym and rush back to open the calpol for Carys, she can just bring it out to him

 

[HolymolyMeohmy]

Decided to scrolllllll back to look at her captions during her fitness days... There's tonnes of her with food talking about food being life and not being restrictive and eating whatever she fancies ... So shes bullshitting somewhere.

Also saw this picture and I actually cannot believe this is the same person just over 2 years ago. She has ageddddd so much

 

[heartonosey]

Her shed looks shit. That is all.

 

[Nao]

I just saw someone’s comment saying we don’t know what she’s like behind closed doors in regards to why she won’t go anywhere without James and it made me think. You know how in the past she’s admitted to being a jealous and possessive girlfriend? She said she always thought James would meet someone else, she would be paranoid about who he was talking to on his phone, obsessed with her looks etc… but she also said she isn’t like that now and I’m not buying it. Sorry Carys, but I’m not. I think that’s (partially) what all this is about. Her body looking the way it does post baby will be making her think those things all over again and I bet when she “can’t” go anywhere without James, she actually can, but she doesn’t want to leave him at home alone or she’s worried what he’ll do if she’s not there. Is he going to text someone, is he going to meet someone, is he going to get his jollies to pornhub over someone who looks like I used to, and so on. I get the overwhelming sensation that she’s insecure again (or it never went away) and now it’s worse because of her post baby body and she wants to keep him close but she’s playing it off as anxiety. No no, I’m not jealous and paranoid, I have anxiety so we need to be together all the time.
Feel me?

Their lifestyle doesn't help. Even if covid wasn't a thing, they're always at home, no interaction with others or limited. I got anxious about human interaction with just 3 months off on furlough, if you have those underlying issues, I'd imagine they only get worse if you don't live your life. Before, they travelled, went out, met friends but as soon as they moved into that house...it was all house based.

Also, I also don't agree with the James narrative. He clearly adores her, is enabling maybe not forcing her out of her comfort zone, perhaps...but I think the issue is all her....and that she also likes a little of the dramatics.

 

[klady]

Because she’s a childish gob shite

That, and because she’s embarrassed of her true face and neck weight gain. Pulling these faces means she doesn’t have to stomach herself. She’s messed up in the head. She needs professional help, but won’t seek it. So until then, she’ll have a phone full of these types of pictures. She’s crying for help. Just sad really.

 

[Emily19966666]

She’s such a liar. That girl she’s just posted on her Instagram is supposedly a size 16 yet looks half the size of little miss size 12/14 because of my boobs. Okay hun

 

[plwcm]

size 12 all over but jeans are size 14. so if boobs make you a size 14 too, then you're a 14 all over!! what is so bad about being a 14

 

[Alexandra876]

Fucking hell she's at it again, trying to convince us she's SO comfortable with her new body yet here she is saying, 'I'm wearing a size 12 here but wear 14 in most other things in the collection for my boobs! But would wear a 12 if my boobs were smaller'

WE KNOW YOU'RE NOT A 12 CARYS, STOP MAKING OUT THAT IT'S SOMEHOW SHAMEFUL TO BE LARGER THAN A SIZE 12!