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hannahroséy
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OMG IS SHE INSANE!!! Most radiator covers have been safely checked and are fire retardant!! She’s putting one of the most flammable materials over a radiator putting her whole family at risk from a fire starting! Not to mention all her followers seeing this and thinking it’s a good idea! What is she thinking!!
Winging-it!
Active member
I find this really sad that they think this is a normal part of a long term relationship for the reasons that they have been together so long and they see each other all the time...
It isn't, or at least it shouldn't be. I've been with my partner since I was 16. We've now been together sixteen years and we have never run out of stuff to say to eachother. And it's not because we aren't together most of the time either. He's worked from home exclusively since corona virus hit. We spent 8 months shielding because of the medication I was on at the beginning, so saw literally nobody else except our firstborn who was a preschooler and was unable to leave the house. I was then pregnant and my work decided it was safer for me to work from home on the two days I work. I'm now on mat leave with a with a baby 5 weeks younger than carys.
It sounds like their relationship is getting really stale but they are stuck in a loop of James being dependent on carys for income and carys being dependent on him for emotional support and both being dependent on social media to maintain their way of life, even though it is clear that they would benefit from taking time away to find themselves again and bond with their daughter. It must be really tough being first time parents AND it being documented on social media for all to see and critique
I wouldn't do it for all the tea in China personally... And I think they are only just discovering what a different kettle of fish it is presenting your child as part of your content as its highly emotive. This isn't going to change and they need to understand that and decide whether they can cope with putting that side of their lives out there. Either way they need to decide on a direction to take their channels in soon, as they are going to seriously struggle with losing views with the lazy content they have been churning out recently. There's only so many day in the life vlogs people will watch.
plwcm
VIP Member
I think it is more the word mourn that makes it sound bad. Like she's saying her previous life is dead and she can never do anything she used to do before. She has a husband home all the time, she has it so easy. I'm a new mum, my baby is 15 weeks, I have always wanted to be a mother and I don't mourn my relationship or wish I had my old life. Yes, I might occasionally think it would be nice to go out for a meal just me and my partner, but I wouldn't change anything, and that can wait until our child is older and I'm more comfortable leaving her with family. I'm not there looking at my baby while she cries thinking god I mourn my relationship, to me that's just odd. Especially with how much she banged on about wanting to be pregnant and how she wants so many kids etc. I don't think she did much pre-pregnancy anyway
what does she have to mourn? Oh Amber's crying in the middle of our mukbang
we can't sit and watch TV all night like we used to I can't sleep in until at least 10am I can't force myself to do a workout because she cried for a few mins and I made the decision to not go out on the walk with her Like Carys hun, you hadn't properly had a good workout routine for around a year before getting pregnant, I don't know why you're suddenly putting this pressure on yourself to do 3 workouts a week minimum, and push yourself loads when your body needs to heal clearly. She could even be making her healing time longer because she's trying to do too much when her body clearly needs time and low impact exercises. And I don't want that to happen because then it's just more fake body positivity to listen to
Also, I can confirm that your baby doesn't malfunction if they are awake while you do a workout, they might even find it fascinating and smile at you endlessly while watching you
what does she have to mourn? Oh Amber's crying in the middle of our mukbang we can't sit and watch TV all night like we used to I can't sleep in until at least 10am I can't force myself to do a workout because she cried for a few mins and I made the decision to not go out on the walk with her Like Carys hun, you hadn't properly had a good workout routine for around a year before getting pregnant, I don't know why you're suddenly putting this pressure on yourself to do 3 workouts a week minimum, and push yourself loads when your body needs to heal clearly. She could even be making her healing time longer because she's trying to do too much when her body clearly needs time and low impact exercises. And I don't want that to happen because then it's just more fake body positivity to listen to Also, I can confirm that your baby doesn't malfunction if they are awake while you do a workout, they might even find it fascinating and smile at you endlessly while watching you
BeyoncéCarter-Knowles
Chatty Member
How insulting. Carys, hi. Hello. Yes we know you’re reading. Please don’t assume that the people who watch you are dense. It’s incredibly rude. Nobody, even young teenagers who maybe don’t catch everything you lie about, would know that you clearly messaged the company. They don’t justOnce again Carys proving that she is NOT the relatable, just like everyone else kind of influencer she thinks she is and claims to be.
She 100% messaged that company and said she’d advertise their brand in return for some free clothes. A mother genuinely struggling to afford clothes for her child would get ignored from a brand if she messaged them and yet Carys with all the money to buy clothes for Amber gets them handed to her.
Does she genuinely think people are stupid enough to think/ believe that the brand has these insane website capabilities of being able to see and know that THE CARYS WHITTAKER was just browsing their website?
miraculously message you regarding an Ad while you’re browsing baby clothes. By saying that they did, you are telling people they are too stupid to notice it was a lie. You are going to get yourself a mass-unfollowing if you don’t start treating people better. I see your YouTube subscriber numbers are very poor. They should be climbing a lot faster than that, shouldn’t they. Wonder why they aren’t…
Dutchie123
Well-known member
'Would wear size 12 if my boobs were smaller'
And I would wear a size 8 if my body was smaller. But it's not. So I wear a size 12. But according to lazybee Carys' logic that still makes me a size 8?? Great!
And I would wear a size 8 if my body was smaller. But it's not. So I wear a size 12. But according to lazybee Carys' logic that still makes me a size 8?? Great!
WhatsGoingOnHere
Active member
Honestly feel like shit with her saying she’s a 12 and there’s me a size 16 and she is 10000% the same size as me. I’ve got a dress that I have to fit into and drinking protein shakes for the last 2 weeks to fit into it. Makes me feel ashamed of my body
gardenparpie
Active member
I don't think you fully know until you have a child how it feels. I don't think what how she feels is that uncommon to be honest, it's a huge adjustment, you can both love your child and take some time to adjust. No wonder a lot of people don't seek a bit of support or whatever if they feel this way, you just get judged and all sorts of accusations. Lots of people also are firm with routine to start with, I wasn't but some friends were, it worked for them- concerned for Amber's welfare as a previous poster said is a bit savage.I can’t believe someone who was so obsessed with trying for a baby can say she is mourning her old life, being able to do what she wants when she wants and also her life with her partner. So many questions
Did she have any idea what life with a baby would be like? Did she want a baby or just like the idea of it?! Or was it all for content..
I find carys annoying and there's plenty to gripe about, but all of this is the same crap so many new mums have to contend with all of the time and it's sad.
Yukon909
Chatty Member
Yes I was literally about to post this!! ‘They offered’ aka you begged them for free clothes despite amber having probably more clothes than you now that she doesn’t even wear. The whole ‘oh I found this company and they offered me clothes’ is so stupid, just admit you were begging for stuff carysSo does this mean she found the company and then messaged them being a beggy influencer so she didn’t have to pay? What kind of world do we live in?
littlepup
VIP Member
I feel like she’s googled ‘top ten new mum gripes’ or perhaps she does feel it and is trying to be relatable but again, she’s so privileged it isn’t.
Not being able to do a dog walk because YOU don’t want to when the baby is awake is a problem of your own making.
Not being able to use your at home, best part of £2000 exercise system because you won’t do anything when your baby is awake and don’t want to wait for your retired husband to come home (and the being able to do it in the end anyway) just isn’t relatable.
Try not being able to walk the dog because your colicky baby won’t stop screaming for 7 hours a day. Or you’ve had to quit the gym and use the subs to pay for nappies and formula… One persons problem isn’t invalid because others have it worse, but she doesn’t even really have a problem, she’s creating them. What has she had to give up in favour of Amber except her figure because it’s certainly not a career, much sleep, time with her partner like most?! Not working out in that exact moment is
Not being able to do a dog walk because YOU don’t want to when the baby is awake is a problem of your own making.
Not being able to use your at home, best part of £2000 exercise system because you won’t do anything when your baby is awake and don’t want to wait for your retired husband to come home (and the being able to do it in the end anyway) just isn’t relatable.
Try not being able to walk the dog because your colicky baby won’t stop screaming for 7 hours a day. Or you’ve had to quit the gym and use the subs to pay for nappies and formula… One persons problem isn’t invalid because others have it worse, but she doesn’t even really have a problem, she’s creating them. What has she had to give up in favour of Amber except her figure because it’s certainly not a career, much sleep, time with her partner like most?! Not working out in that exact moment is
formallygeese
Active member
It’s like she’s a middle aged plus woman trying to sell her Avon wares at a dinner party. She’s 24? I couldn’t believe it when she said that in a vlog that included her birthday.Whilst the reels are cringey and transitions are pretty naff compared to other fashion blogger’s reels, at least we don’t need to hear Carys describing the fit and feel of each item with her usual bank of adjectives- stretchy, soft, comfy and flattering
Cabbage_2021
Well-known member
Yes! The sling counts as a layer, so she's got atleast 3 layers on and a hat ... I can't even with these two