He has only gone to the cinema to avoid tea/bath/bedtime with slimer he probably sleeps through the film at least though Fred is getting to do something other than go to the bloody zoo that's all they do! @Barbie2020 i was in your position 2 young kids, mental health struggles, no money of my own even the furniture in our home was his he worked all week came home sat on his backside and did nothing liked belittling me etc etc but i got out you can too it will be hard to start with but life is way too short to spend with someone who doesn't make you happy you deserve better talk to friends, citizens advice find out what is available to you and go.for it! You can do it he is the one who has made you feel you can't but you can!