Jaibxxx/Bespoke by Jai

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I watched one of her videos in which, to me, she implies she’s tried to off herself and that’s why she was in hospital. She said something along the lines of “last week I didn’t want to be alive/be here anymore” something like that. Just how it seems to me
 
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No she’s actually winding me up in the comments of her videos. “Don’t speculate on sensitive subjects you know nothing about” DONT POST YOUR WHOLE LIFE ON TIKTOK THEN LOVE. Mate is she actually alright? Of course people are going to ask about your pregnancy as YOU chose to share it!!! No one has miraculously guessed you’re pregnant you’ve told everyone!!! And view baiting by posting videos in hospital to get people concerned. We know you want your ex to worry. Sorry but that’s just as sick as him!! Why would you want someone to think your babies are not here anymore?? Weird behaviour I’m sorry but she’s taking it way too far and people need to start outing her more.
 
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I had a friend who was with her boyfriend for about 8/9 years. He (his family) have money & are very well off. They’re relationship was absolutely tit, he was horrible to her, they didn’t spend time together, she just basically wasn’t in love with him any more (and wasn’t for about 5 years). And honestly he was absolutely vile to her, the things he’d say. But she stayed because she had the lifestyle. They have children together. She had nice things, went expensive places. She decided to end the relationship because she was so drained from it all. Then about 2 months later got back with him because she missed the lifestyle, she hated that she had to live wage packet to wage packet, like most of us!!! He ended up leaving her in the end, now from what I can see, she only dates people that she knows have money!
 
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No she’s actually winding me up in the comments of her videos. “Don’t speculate on sensitive subjects you know nothing about” DONT POST YOUR WHOLE LIFE ON TIKTOK THEN LOVE. Mate is she actually alright? Of course people are going to ask about your pregnancy as YOU chose to share it!!! No one has miraculously guessed you’re pregnant you’ve told everyone!!! And view baiting by posting videos in hospital to get people concerned. We know you want your ex to worry. Sorry but that’s just as sick as him!! Why would you want someone to think your babies are not here anymore?? Weird behaviour I’m sorry but she’s taking it way too far and people need to start outing her more.
There are so many of these types of girls that get a platform. Nothing is ever as it seems when they first start out then luckily most of us see their true colours / mask slip. She’s an idiot using her Pregancy for views and engagement. She needs to just be cancelled, I can see her ending up like a single mama Aimee type. Absolutely hated by most but with an army of delusional huns
 
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I’m not usually one who says “they are in the public eye they deserve any tit comments they get, they signed up for it etc” however if you do use things for content you can’t pick and choose what you share especially if you use really personal stuff for engagement and views, some followers really get emotionally involved involved with influencers, that’s literally what influencers do. I get she’s hurt and doesn’t want to talk about it and whether she has made an attempt on her life, suffered a miscarriage or had a termination, I do agree all of those are sensitive things but she brought everyone in on the journey and how has an attitude while keeping people in the dark and sitting back while her followers are attacking each other.
I’m pro choice having had a termination a long time ago and having to assist someone else in theirs (which was absolutely horrendous) but even I would really struggle after putting the scan pictures up etc. Talking about one twin sucking its thumb. I’m not one for being over sensitive I have my own thoughts on gestation and all of that but that would be hard. I think she made the right decision tho if that’s what she did. She should at least clarify why she was in hospital as she’s sharing every bit of this break up journey and no doubt helping others along the way
 
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Ooh I thought you just meant because her forehead is so stiff in her video and she looks a bit swollen
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What is she on about in her most recent video…. She could prove the lies and rumours wrong in her comments… all I ever see is people mentioning her pregnancy or lack of.
 
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The people writing comments like “hope your babies are ok” “how far along are you now” don’t give a toss about her babies or her. They are nosey. They want to know without directly asking…
Someone commented the other day saying when you have had your babies come for free Botox and lip filler you deserve it… she’s prob gone to her directly and explained and got the freebies
 
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I unfollowed her. She’s rotten to the core 😳 she’s had an abortion and loving all the speculation/fighting in her comments.
 
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She needs to stop bleeping baiting and be honest
It’s so so wrong and if I were to comment that in her video no doubt someone would say “ don’t be a bully” “don’t ask personal questions” “don’t talk to a woman like that who’s been through all this”

look I sympathise 1000% with what she’s been through but what I don’t condone at all is explaining your situation and letting people engage with you & feel close to her and sympathise… then make out like you owe no one nothing! ( which of course she doesn’t) but don’t share any of your personal life if you do not want anyone to ask you personal questions!!!! Because we all know the reason she shared her story was to annoy her ex and rightly so! How he’s treated her and his unborn children is vile he didn’t deserve to be a father! But she’s stopping well down to his level by doing what she’s doing to gain engagement. It’s wrong!!!
I’m in no way saying she owes her followers anything but remember love that you chose to share all of this. Stop getting rude when people ask questions. It’s the internet it’s FULL of idiots.
 
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I honestly think she forgets half the stuff she’s said! What was it Mummy’s money, he sold something or he’s a criminal

You thinks she’s a survivor for walking away when one of her most viral videos is about him leaving her whilst pregnant with twins

Can’t believe a word that comes out her mouth!
 
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My sympathy for her is honestly at zero now, I cba with her attention seeking shite anymore.

Instead of snapping at people in her comments asking about the babies SHE posted about for daring to ask how they are, she could simply say “I’m not pregnant anymore”. No explanation needed and it stops the questions. She doesn’t because she wants the attention.

Tagging her videos with #domesticviolencesurvivor is a bit of a joke as well considering she was happy to put up with it for Chanel bags, a house renovation and IVF.

I don’t doubt she’d have kept those babies if it wasn’t for the fact you can’t get CSA from proceeds of crime.
 
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Im just watching her video from this morning. She says she’s reading negative things about herself I don’t know if she means here or in her own page. Shes addressing the negative commenters as, “we” dont know what domestic abuse is. Erm im sorry, but why do you think we gravitate towards you Jai? I along with plenty of others have encountered domestic abuse. A lot of us are several years safe and wiser. What a lot of us are not, are people who at the time of our absolute worst heartbreak and pain and all the crappy rest of it, was blogging our bleeping journey on Tik Tok or whatever other social media platform. What the actual fuckery, I can’t believe what I’ve just seen her say. She’s blasted her whole personal tit to anyone and everyone and for those of us who can see the badness and evil and wrongness in her relationship, and are wondering WTF she has done next because she is the one whose posted everything for anyone to see, and she’s reprimanding people for having an opinion cos we haven’t been through domestic abuse??? Piss off. Seriously no. Most of us suffered in silence with no platform or outlet, and if we had and made bad decision after bad decision, best believe we’d have been challenged about it!
 
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Im just watching her video from this morning. She says she’s reading negative things about herself I don’t know if she means here or in her own page. Shes addressing the negative commenters as, “we” dont know what domestic abuse is. Erm im sorry, but why do you think we gravitate towards you Jai? I along with plenty of others have encountered domestic abuse. A lot of us are several years safe and wiser. What a lot of us are not, are people who at the time of our absolute worst heartbreak and pain and all the crappy rest of it, was blogging our bleeping journey on Tik Tok or whatever other social media platform. What the actual fuckery, I can’t believe what I’ve just seen her say. She’s blasted her whole personal tit to anyone and everyone and for those of us who can see the badness and evil and wrongness in her relationship, and are wondering WTF she has done next because she is the one whose posted everything for anyone to see, and she’s reprimanding people for having an opinion cos we haven’t been through domestic abuse??? Piss off. Seriously no. Most of us suffered in silence with no platform or outlet, and if we had and made bad decision after bad decision, best believe we’d have been challenged about it!
literally this!!!! minus the pregnancy although i had no choice but to have a termination i related to her on every level. i felt horrific i actually cried at the first few videos she posted but the way way she is desperately trying to profit off of this shows she is not one bit genuine
 
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I think we can all assume she isn’t pregnant, who goes to Zara and buys shorts and loads of tops with no stretch with jewels on pregnant with twins.
How is she even affording £150 Zara trips being unemployed.
 
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I assumed a while ago she’s not/no longer pregnant. All these shopping hauls the clothes look tiny, not larger or stretchy to fit through a pregnant summer, plus she dosent seem to be showing at all and it’s been weeks. Somethings definitely not right here
 
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