am I out of order for thinking it’s strange the coffin says “baby one and baby two”? Why hasn’t she gave them a name instead of just a number?
Not sure how far along she wasam I out of order for thinking it’s strange the coffin says “baby one and baby two”? Why hasn’t she gave them a name instead of just a number?
She’s in her comment section thanking people for their support like what happened to Jai has anything at all to do with her so I’m going with no.As for Abby- is she ok? She has literally changed her whole personality since she has become friends with Jai. To say we need sectioning? Darling you need to go and work out who the f you are. The biggest mouth and smallest actions.
the date on her embryo transfer scan is 6 Feb so the time she was posting from hospital the first time she was around 16 weeks.Not sure how far along she was
I think it was at least a TFMR something found at the 12 week scan maybe as she was crying on a video not long after thatOk. You’re all going to hate me for saying this but I’m going to say it anywayThe video tells you the bare minimum (which is fine as she’s finally admitted that she isn’t pregnant and can stop baiting people which is what was annoying me the most). A friend of mine had an abortion at 22 weeks as they found multiple anomalies in her 20 week scan and she had to make a decision about terminating the pregnancy. It was an abortion and she had to deliver her baby but she also had counselling and had a very similar goodbye process of writing a letter, recorded as born sleeping rather than died etc etc. Whether Jai had an abortion or lost the babies for other reasons, I’m glad she’s finally admitted she’s no longer pregnant and feel sad that it ended up that way for her. However, everybody assuming she must have lost them naturally is exactly the narrative she wanted as it evokes sympathy and forces people to forget how shitty she has behaved in the last few months.
Surely an abortion due to issues with the babies is similar to a miscarriage, no? To me she is clarifying that the babies were wanted and she didn’t terminate because she wanted to. If she terminated because she *had* to that’s different and the same as a miscarriage. I mean hell even if she terminated because of all the actual shit she’s been through then that’s still rough on a person. It’s not like she fell pregnant accidentally. Wow i almost sound like I’m sticking up for herOk. You’re all going to hate me for saying this but I’m going to say it anywayThe video tells you the bare minimum (which is fine as she’s finally admitted that she isn’t pregnant and can stop baiting people which is what was annoying me the most). A friend of mine had an abortion at 22 weeks as they found multiple anomalies in her 20 week scan and she had to make a decision about terminating the pregnancy. It was an abortion and she had to deliver her baby but she also had counselling and had a very similar goodbye process of writing a letter, recorded as born sleeping rather than died etc etc. Whether Jai had an abortion or lost the babies for other reasons, I’m glad she’s finally admitted she’s no longer pregnant and feel sad that it ended up that way for her. However, everybody assuming she must have lost them naturally is exactly the narrative she wanted as it evokes sympathy and forces people to forget how shitty she has behaved in the last few months.
Huh? Either way it’s very sad and a loss yes. I didn’t say otherwise and I don’t get what you’re getting at? I can give my opinion on what I think might have happened the same as everyone else, you’re entitled to not speculate if you don’t want to.Surely an abortion due to issues with the babies is similar to a miscarriage, no? To me she is clarifying that the babies were wanted and she didn’t terminate because she wanted to. If she terminated because she *had* to that’s different and the same as a miscarriage. I mean hell even if she terminated because of all the actual shit she’s been through then that’s still rough on a person. It’s not like she fell pregnant accidentally. Wow i almost sound like I’m sticking up for herbut I thought the speculation would be done by now
Sorry about that I meant to quote the post you quoted and not yours. I did edit itHuh? Either way it’s very sad and a loss yes. I didn’t say otherwise and I don’t get what you’re getting at? I can give my opinion on what I think might have happened the same as everyone else, you’re entitled to not speculate if you don’t want to.
I had a miscarriage before and it was incomplete and they called it retained product of conception, but it resolved without treatmentNot backing her up but looks like on the end of her reel the letter says something regarding removal of products of conception. Usually when you don’t miscarry everything but has happened where it’s an incomplete abortion in some cases.
That’s quite a harsh statement. Are you 100% on that?I had a miscarriage before and it was incomplete and they called it retained product of conception, but it resolved without treatment
Miscarriage or not she wanted rid of them babies
Nah I’m sorry that’s harshI had a miscarriage before and it was incomplete and they called it retained product of conception, but it resolved without treatment
Miscarriage or not she wanted rid of them babies
Don’t agreeI had a miscarriage before and it was incomplete and they called it retained product of conception, but it resolved without treatment
Miscarriage or not she wanted rid of them babies
I don’t think you get the point I was trying to make.Surely an abortion due to issues with the babies is similar to a miscarriage, no? To me she is clarifying that the babies were wanted and she didn’t terminate because she wanted to. If she terminated because she *had* to that’s different and the same as a miscarriage. I mean hell even if she terminated because of all the actual shit she’s been through then that’s still rough on a person. It’s not like she fell pregnant accidentally. Wow i almost sound like I’m sticking up for herbut I thought the speculation would be done by now
I agree with you. I think it was a scary uncertain situation she found herself in, not in her plans. But I believe she wanted them and would have made it work like many women do.Don’t agree
I think she loved and wanted those babies even though the circumstances were shit
It is weird, it seems like neither of them have any other friends.How long have Jamie and Abbs known each other? It’s really embarrassing how they’re portraying their friendship because I think they’ve known each other less than a year!! Where are their other friends?? How did they meet? So many questions
No worries, thanks for clarifying. Regardless of Jais story herself, I wouldn’t put an abortion down to DV/abuse in the same category as an abortion due to medical complications of the foetus tho they are both a choice. That’s just my opinion thoI don’t think you get the point I was trying to make.A medical abortion is still a choice albeit one that’s influenced by external factors. Many people go through pregnancies even where there are health conditions identified so I wouldn’t class it the same as miscarriage where a person doesn’t have any choice or control over it. I am pro-choice but don’t think that a medical abortion or abortion due to horrific circumstances such as DV/Rape etc can be put in the same category as miscarriages. I’m not speculating, I just find it interesting that it has been shared in the way it has as like I say, it doesn’t actually tell you anything other than confirming she is no longer pregnant but everybody has assumed it means she lost the babies naturally. She doesn’t owe anybody an explanation as to how now that she isn’t pregnancy baiting but it is intriguing that she has shared it with a particular narrative along with Abby’s very over the top, dramatic crying video at the same time that her followers were starting to turn on her. It’s a smart PR move either way as it had the desired effect. I do genuinely hope she moves on and can now stop talking about it. It’s my last comment on the matter too!
Why are people saying this, when most people on here thought she had an abortion? A bit contradictory. There’s a reason why people were so convinced she had one. There’s videos of her crying and moaning about being pregnant are still up for everyone to see. I don’t think she once posted anything positive about the babies.Nah I’m sorry that’s harsh
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