I was mulling this over in the shower this morning and am probably not going to articulate it particularly well, but she really reminds me of myself in my early twenties. I was a total hot mess and proud of it, always creating chaoses, switching identities and interests more often than I changed my knickers. I could be very charming in a quirky, manic way, so would have a rotating door of usually older girlfriends, who quite rightly got tired of my tit pretty quickly, I'd create more drama to lure them back but then swiftly find myself a new target.
I was terrible with money, always overspending and reaching the furthest reaches of my overdraft within days of payday. I was incredibly lucky with career opportunities but would change jobs every year or so, probably linked to my ever-shifting identity.
I had residual eating issues from adolescence so would live off slop with no texture, flavour or nutritional value - rice in a bowl of vegetable stock being a favourite meal.
But you know what? That was ten years ago. By the time I was 25/26, I realised it wasn't cute anymore and that I needed to grow the duck up. I moved out of London because I was kidding myself that I could afford to live there, settled down with a fantastic, stable, kind partner who was quite clear that they wouldn't put up with the chaoses, sorted my career out and have recently started a family.
I'm still not great with money, and like Jackie get tempted by high end things (embarrassed to admit that I do indeed have a Dyson hairdryer), but I save up for things or tend to get second hand/refurbished. Sadly yet to find any hideous designer scarves in puddles though.
The idea of still behaving the way I did, and as Jack does now, makes me cringe so much I'm basically doing kegels. Especially when you become a parent, you have a responsibility to get your act together and be an adult. I've been partial to the odd selfie myself in the past, but I wouldn't dream of a thot shot or animal bra pic. I'd be mortified for any of my closest friends to see something like that, let alone colleagues, potential employers and the whole public.
I used to think she was great, probably because I'm a Guardian-reading, avocado-munching, middle class millennial twit who has been so damn lucky in my life that I took her poverty tale as gospel. But since dealing with her indirectly for work, then the begging at the beginning of lockdown (I have a real issue with Patreon types but that's another rant for another day) and the sideboard thot shots earlier in the year, the scales really fell from my eyes.
I look at how she behaves and can't believe that I'm a year younger than her - it's like watching a teenager desperate for attention.
Rant over. Sorry about that, she really grates my mushrooms, especially at the moment.