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For me, the stand out thing that she did that pissed me off was begging for money on Twitter at the start of lockdown. When people were in financial uncertainty themselves and it was such a scary time for some. I was utterly disgusted with her for that.
 
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I think it might be good to add a list of all the expensive homewares that the patreon is funding too - I know some have been mentioned upthread. There’s the dyson fan and dyson hairdryer, 3 or 4 x brand new cotswold co bits of furniture, the two garden swing chairs, the fancy alarm clock, the Oooni and gawd knows what else. (But she cant afford a tutor for her son. Or vet’s bills).

Oh and it also seems likely she paid for lip fillers too (though this isn’t proven so should probably be left out).
 
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I am not a bully.

This post is LOOOOOONG.


I am making this list while it's quiet. To remind myself why I am here. I'm not a bully, I haven't ever contacted Jack outside of Tattle (I did reply to her when she invaded our platform). I haven't contacted her sponsors, her production company, or her coworkers. I haven't tracked her house, or been to any of her public events. I have not joked I would follow her to A&E.

I am just someone who got fed up with the inconsistencies, the rage filled nasty behaviour and the way she dropped causes, people and ideas like hot potatoes.

The majority here are the same. There are some who have gone too far, eg. taken themselves to her social media. Those people are breaking the rules of Tattle and do not speak for us. Discussing content she has made public isn't an offence, in fact it is how she makes her money. She wants followers, views, engagement, etc. but wants to control the narrative to be purely positive. It doesn't work like that.

Her use of Caroline Flack's name is absolutely unforgiveable. Keeping receipts of what she's put on her social media is nothing like what Caroline went through and it's just another example of her using triggering content to manipulate the narrative.

A long arsed list containing the points which brought me to and kept me on Tattle. I know I will have missed things....

* Jamie Oliver was subjected to a vile set of tweets in which Jack instigated a pile on... because he got a new job that she thought she would be better at. The job she subsequently got as a result of hers and her followers manipulative behaviour was a bleeping car crash. See also, This Morning appearance featuring Chicken(less) Lingreenie (raw) and Hellmann's how to make a sandwich(?).

* David Walliams was subjected to a set of offensive and poisonous tweets because her son was gifted one of his books (and she was pissed off about it). Within these tweets she insinuated he was racist, sexist, a drug user and many other unpleasant and seemingly unfounded slurs. She also appealed for people to DM her with gossip about him and was requesting information about a deleted chapter from his autobiography. She told her followers that she was going to dissect each of his books and that she wasn't going anywhere. After getting furious over a white character she believed was black, she failed to complete the first book.

*Made a monetised Black Lives Matter video, which was nothing more than a money making scam. Said she would hand over her platform to black voices, but this did not happen. Also claimed she would write a book, lifting voices of black people. The book has not been mentioned since the subject stopped trending on Twitter.

*Used her social media to denigrate Louisa. She had the TV on, she was using the WiFi, she left, she's not covering her half of the rent, she left. There was also the time Louisa had gone out for a meal and so Jack immediately posted an old picture of when they had gone for a meal, like the ghost of Christmas past, trying to ruin Louisa's afternoon. This one makes me feel sick to write. Her treatment of Louisa on social media has always had a bad vibe to it, like abuse and manipulation. It can sometimes take years to realise how badly the other person treats you, and I just hope that she's had lots of lovely friends and family around her during all of this.

*Sneered at the lunches being sent to children on free school meals during lockdown, suggesting that sandwiches and jacket potatoes were bad lunches(?) Shaming the parents of free school meal children, ridiculing the meals they were feeding their kids, saying they weren't feeding their kids enough. Offering no useful advice to the parents of these kids, she stopped mentioning the subject as soon as it stopped trending on Twitter.

*Tweeted multiple triggering subjects including eating disorders, self harm, suicide, sexual abuse, animal abuse with no spoilers and in a way which seemed intentionally inflammatory. Also tweeted images of injury with no trigger warning (foot, eye) and photos of large amounts of medication during a time in which she had stated she was mentally very unwell and had mentioned (triggering content) suicidal ideation

*Tweeted multiple heavily filtered/edited photographs of herself with no clarification that they were edited to make her body appear differently. When asked about this, she was seen to deny editing.

*The kitten saga. Adopted a very unwell and disabled kitten, without seeking proper veterinary advice. Forced the kitten up onto it's deformed front legs the first night she got it at around 1am, when it was surely tired and disoriented. Claimed she was able to care for and pay for the kitten's treatment yet did not take the kitten to the vet for days even though it was clearly very unwell. Used the kitten as a photo prop, putting it on her shoulder, in her pocket, etc. Eventually took the kitten to the vet where she was told it was too poorly and needed to be put to sleep. Didn't take the vets advice and took the kitten home where she tweeted about how she was shocked at the amount of money a trip to the vet cost and said she might look into donations to help her pay for it. Also seemed to be attempting to make inroads with Supervet. Allowed the kitten to die at home, possibly in a lot of pain.

*The use of a tip jar (regularly shaken) to beg and plead poverty reminds me of when con artists scam old nanas out of their life savings. She pleads poverty and claims she's doing so much for free but if you go on her website, it's so full of ads it is almost impossible to navigate. She shook her tin at the beginning of lockdown, prompting many followers to donate even though they were saying they were poor themselves. She then went and purchased even more high end luxury items for her home (which is already full of them). Con artist.

*Uses her child on her social media, often revealing more info than seems comfortable let alone necessary. Embroiling him in her dramatic and chaotic online life.

* The continued misrepresentation of AA and what life looks like when you work your steps and are honest with your sponsor. I know this is a sticky one, and the less said the better really. Her behaviour is so at odds with the steps, I will leave it there.

Hopefully that will be helpful to people who come here wondering why a small (there's hundreds of us on this thread) group of obsessed bullies have been making someone's life absolute hell.
*Literally* couldn’t love this more
 
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@Yel @admin can we have @grunkalunka’s bullets as an article pls? Might be useful as an intro on why Jack has yielded over 60 threads?

ETA - May be worth us crowd sourcing more bullets as there’s just SO much? Including her son having to check she wasn’t DEAD?!
For me, the stand out thing that she did that pissed me off was begging for money on Twitter at the start of lockdown. When people were in financial uncertainty themselves and it was such a scary time for some. I was utterly disgusted with her for that.

The time it was revealed she had named the disabled kitten with a short life expectancy the same as her exes beloved childhood dog was very chilling.
 
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How frustrating that I unfollowed so as to not add to her stats...and she locks up! In saying that, I know it will be more of the same, with more sycophants stroking her ego so probably not missing too much!

Just want to add my love for Grunkas post - and agree it should be front and centre of all links over here. It certainly speaks for me. After I unfollowed, I also ended up unfollowing a few other accounts because they would re-tweet effusive praise of her into my timeline. The POTATOES piece especially. If there was a comprehensive “eye-opener” available, then it might be easier to say to people in real life at least, that we like, “Here - read this, I am interested in your opinion”.

I agree it’s not bullying to have this info out in the open and even more so now she is controlling her “poor lil ol’ me” narrative. I put money into her business to help out food banks when she did the push to buy a copy of Tin Can Cook for them - and since then have discovered (like all of us) that she is just an absolute shameless fraud. When I read a food bank, after some chasing, got some photocopies of a few recipes, I was considerably less than impressed. I imagine most of her more affluent followers chipped in for quite a few copies to go out to the food banks too. Would love stats on THAT little venture. “Buy my book for the poor people pleeeaaase”. Then barely send any out.

She is the one that wants to be famous and on telly, talking pieces on the radio, and in the Guardian, speaking events about her “poor upbringing”, She is the one that is monetising her private life. So suck it up and take the rough with the apparently very lucrative smooth.
 
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It doesn’t seem like they police their creators - from their ‘help’ section it appears that the creator is of the utmost importance and the supporters have to confront them about lack of reward and requesting refunds directly. The ball is very much in the creator’s park. Even in the case of someone making a one year pledge and the creator providing none of the expected benefits from day one, they cannot claim a refund. Their approach seems to be that the money is to support the creator and not necessarily to obtain the benefits (53 postcards a month, opportunity to submit your own slop, etc) that you’re led to believe you will be given... (??)

Honestly reading about this is really putting me off Patreon. I completely agree that creators need more protection from issues like spending hours on a commission only for the recipient to say they don’t like it and refuse to pay... but not offering any help to supporters who are getting duck all of what they were promised? Their philosophy is Jacklogic: I promised you those rewards THEN, when you paid, not NOW

All you can do is cancel your pledge so they won’t get any future payments

I support one project on Patreon - a podcast which releases most of their content for free, I pay only about £3/month for the extras. The creators have taken a few months off and while I wouldn’t have minded continuing to support them despite getting nothing, they paused everyone’s pledges because I guess they have integrity, respect their supporters and feel like they should deliver on their promises

I don’t know anything about the charity commission but charities have to be registered and you can’t set up a charity to benefit a specific person to my knowledge. Sorry Jack 😐 (not really)
I think this does explain though why Jack has so few Patreon subscribers (compared to the number of SM followers she has). If she’s not providing the promised content, or the promised content is a bit shite, then people will not sign up at all or will cancel - unless they have more money than sense.
 
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Fantastic post @GrunkaLunka. Factual and to the point. Shows how much of a horrible person she has been when it’s listed like that and that’s not even everything she has done!

The only thing I feel awkward about in my previous postings is regarding knowing where she lives. However this is all based on things she herself has posted online and me knowing the area well. I would never go there or post any exact location but she’s made it bloody easy for people to find. For someone who was apparently stalked and concerned for her safety she plays fast and loose with location details.
 
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For me, the stand out thing that she did that pissed me off was begging for money on Twitter at the start of lockdown. When people were in financial uncertainty themselves and it was such a scary time for some. I was utterly disgusted with her for that.
This was the turning point for me also. Especially as she was still living with someone else who was working/earning. She seemed to be getting plenty of work herself.
 
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Remember, this is the woman who seriously wanted to crowdfund for a house.
 
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This was the turning point for me also. Especially as she was still living with someone else who was working/earning. She seemed to be getting plenty of work herself.
Especially when that partner was earning £160k-£200k a year...
Someone also did a quick tally of what Jack has earned since lockdown. It was a lot. Since MARCH she's done...
DKL. absolutely awful but she would have got paid well
Book sales.
Photograph sales.
TM appearances. Again, absolutely awful but would've been handsomely paid
Patreon. God knows how much but is AT LEAST a grand a month
Hellmans. (my personal tit show favourite) She said it was 5 figures so £10k AT LEAST.
HA conference.
Tip jar.
Ads on her website.
Maintenance from ex

She is a scam artist and a liar. She claimed poverty and greedily took money from those who couldn't afford it. She has an extremely affluent lifestyle whilst wailing that she's soooo pooooor.
 
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Especially when that partner was earning £160k-£200k a year...
Someone also did a quick tally of what Jack has earned since lockdown. It was a lot. Since MARCH she's done...
DKL. absolutely awful but she would have got paid well
Book sales.
Photograph sales.
TM appearances. Again, absolutely awful but would've been handsomely paid
Patreon. God knows how much but is AT LEAST a grand a month
Hellmans. (my personal tit show favourite) She said it was 5 figures so £10k AT LEAST.
HA conference.
Tip jar.
Ads on her website.
Maintenance from ex

She is a scam artist and a liar. She claimed poverty and greedily took money from those who couldn't afford it. She has an extremely affluent lifestyle whilst wailing that she's soooo pooooor.
Also undeclared affiliate links, one of which she has in her Twitter bio right now!
 
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Especially when that partner was earning £160k-£200k a year...
Someone also did a quick tally of what Jack has earned since lockdown. It was a lot. Since MARCH she's done...
DKL. absolutely awful but she would have got paid well
Book sales.
Photograph sales.
TM appearances. Again, absolutely awful but would've been handsomely paid
Patreon. God knows how much but is AT LEAST a grand a month
Hellmans. (my personal tit show favourite) She said it was 5 figures so £10k AT LEAST.
HA conference.
Tip jar.
Ads on her website.
Maintenance from ex

She is a scam artist and a liar. She claimed poverty and greedily took money from those who couldn't afford it. She has an extremely affluent lifestyle whilst wailing that she's soooo pooooor.
Apologies for quoting myself, but just wanted to add the videos about BLM and the dead cat were monetized.
 
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I am not a bully.

This post is LOOOOOONG.


I am making this list while it's quiet. To remind myself why I am here. I'm not a bully, I haven't ever contacted Jack outside of Tattle (I did reply to her when she invaded our platform). I haven't contacted her sponsors, her production company, or her coworkers. I haven't tracked her house, or been to any of her public events. I have not joked I would follow her to A&E.

I am just someone who got fed up with the inconsistencies, the rage filled nasty behaviour and the way she dropped causes, people and ideas like hot potatoes.

The majority here are the same. There are some who have gone too far, eg. taken themselves to her social media. Those people are breaking the rules of Tattle and do not speak for us. Discussing content she has made public isn't an offence, in fact it is how she makes her money. She wants followers, views, engagement, etc. but wants to control the narrative to be purely positive. It doesn't work like that.

Her use of Caroline Flack's name is absolutely unforgiveable. Keeping receipts of what she's put on her social media is nothing like what Caroline went through and it's just another example of her using triggering content to manipulate the narrative.

A long arsed list containing the points which brought me to and kept me on Tattle. I know I will have missed things....

* Jamie Oliver was subjected to a vile set of tweets in which Jack instigated a pile on... because he got a new job that she thought she would be better at. The job she subsequently got as a result of hers and her followers manipulative behaviour was a bleeping car crash. See also, This Morning appearance featuring Chicken(less) Lingreenie (raw) and Hellmann's how to make a sandwich(?).

* David Walliams was subjected to a set of offensive and poisonous tweets because her son was gifted one of his books (and she was pissed off about it). Within these tweets she insinuated he was racist, sexist, a drug user and many other unpleasant and seemingly unfounded slurs. She also appealed for people to DM her with gossip about him and was requesting information about a deleted chapter from his autobiography. She told her followers that she was going to dissect each of his books and that she wasn't going anywhere. After getting furious over a white character she believed was black, she failed to complete the first book.

*Made a monetised Black Lives Matter video, which was nothing more than a money making scam. Said she would hand over her platform to black voices, but this did not happen. Also claimed she would write a book, lifting voices of black people. The book has not been mentioned since the subject stopped trending on Twitter.

*Used her social media to denigrate Louisa. She had the TV on, she was using the WiFi, she left, she's not covering her half of the rent, she left. There was also the time Louisa had gone out for a meal and so Jack immediately posted an old picture of when they had gone for a meal, like the ghost of Christmas past, trying to ruin Louisa's afternoon. This one makes me feel sick to write. Her treatment of Louisa on social media has always had a bad vibe to it, like abuse and manipulation. It can sometimes take years to realise how badly the other person treats you, and I just hope that she's had lots of lovely friends and family around her during all of this.

*Sneered at the lunches being sent to children on free school meals during lockdown, suggesting that sandwiches and jacket potatoes were bad lunches(?) Shaming the parents of free school meal children, ridiculing the meals they were feeding their kids, saying they weren't feeding their kids enough. Offering no useful advice to the parents of these kids, she stopped mentioning the subject as soon as it stopped trending on Twitter.

*Tweeted multiple triggering subjects including eating disorders, self harm, suicide, sexual abuse, animal abuse with no spoilers and in a way which seemed intentionally inflammatory. Also tweeted images of injury with no trigger warning (foot, eye) and photos of large amounts of medication during a time in which she had stated she was mentally very unwell and had mentioned (triggering content) suicidal ideation

*Tweeted multiple heavily filtered/edited photographs of herself with no clarification that they were edited to make her body appear differently. When asked about this, she was seen to deny editing.

*The kitten saga. Adopted a very unwell and disabled kitten, without seeking proper veterinary advice. Forced the kitten up onto it's deformed front legs the first night she got it at around 1am, when it was surely tired and disoriented. Claimed she was able to care for and pay for the kitten's treatment yet did not take the kitten to the vet for days even though it was clearly very unwell. Used the kitten as a photo prop, putting it on her shoulder, in her pocket, etc. Eventually took the kitten to the vet where she was told it was too poorly and needed to be put to sleep. Didn't take the vets advice and took the kitten home where she tweeted about how she was shocked at the amount of money a trip to the vet cost and said she might look into donations to help her pay for it. Also seemed to be attempting to make inroads with Supervet. Allowed the kitten to die at home, possibly in a lot of pain.

*The use of a tip jar (regularly shaken) to beg and plead poverty reminds me of when con artists scam old nanas out of their life savings. She pleads poverty and claims she's doing so much for free but if you go on her website, it's so full of ads it is almost impossible to navigate. She shook her tin at the beginning of lockdown, prompting many followers to donate even though they were saying they were poor themselves. She then went and purchased even more high end luxury items for her home (which is already full of them). Con artist.

*Uses her child on her social media, often revealing more info than seems comfortable let alone necessary. Embroiling him in her dramatic and chaotic online life.

* The continued misrepresentation of AA and what life looks like when you work your steps and are honest with your sponsor. I know this is a sticky one, and the less said the better really. Her behaviour is so at odds with the steps, I will leave it there.

Hopefully that will be helpful to people who come here wondering why a small (there's hundreds of us on this thread) group of obsessed bullies have been making someone's life absolute hell.
@GrunkaLunka i ❤ You. Nothing more needs said!
 
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For me, the stand out thing that she did that pissed me off was begging for money on Twitter at the start of lockdown. When people were in financial uncertainty themselves and it was such a scary time for some. I was utterly disgusted with her for that.
This is what brought me to Tattle. I've followed her for years and so much has been 'off' but never saw her made accountable for anything. She even got away with the awful comment about David Camerons son without too much of a fuss. At the start of lockdown I was genuinely so worried about family and friends and the future and there she is complaining about work being cancelled and begging for money. Whilst living with her well paid partner.

Also whoever wrote the post about using Patreon as a charity is spot on. It's not there to provide money to buy your families food and pay bills because the freelance work has dried up. It's money in exchange for regular, meaningful, creative content.
 
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Incredible post @GrunkaLunka and also @heretoreaditall2019 - we are not worthy! Agree with @Pocahontas that they’re fairly objective and think the sheer support shows we are all on the same page.

Could we also add @Dogmuck post (possibly from last thread?) about how JM has no legal footing somewhere in the recap? It was so succinct and brilliant as well as debunking that JM has anything on us so to speak. I think the sheer nastiness/pile ons that JM instigates can/does at times really unnerve/intimidate people, especially when she mentions her ‘lawyer’. Dogmuck’s post is a good reminder that she doesn’t have a foot to stand on (and only furthered by the fact we’ve said we’re not sharing posts now she is private).
 
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It would be good to get an updated limegooss article as that would be an easy summary of the lies Jacks tell with receipts
You can make Wiki's for people on here.

Might be better than Limegoss as I think any Tattler can update it?

Someone in the Sali Hughes thread made one for her and it is a thing of beauty.
 
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