I agree with the Fraus who think something is up - suddenly coming out with all these explanations sounds like a strategy to get ahead of the story. I think someone (a media outlet of some sort) is digging into the Sue Lee money and probably other stuff. And she's desperately trying to discredit CCJ squig without saying that she takes money from Patreon without delivering anything.
I tend to believe that she's not living at home, but I suspect it's for other reasons than doorstepping. It's been clear for a while that SB isn't there most of the time - who goes raving all weekend and then off to Hay and Leicester if you're single-parenting a kid and a big dog?
I wonder if she has finally run out of lease at the Bungamansion and is sofa-surfing while she waits to move into the new place.
This does feel a bit like End Times, with everything collapsing inwards since the Shattenstone interview last autumn. Her book flopped and was actively dangerous, she's the punchline to every joke about bad cooking and grifting, more and more people are realising her Patreon is a scam, she's had two CCJS this year so far and precious little paid work on horizon, her face is falling apart, she was shit on QT and is resigned to doing 3 min slots on Meridian, and she's just flailing around on Twitter for attention. Her celeb friends are vanishing fast and her public profile is shrinking just as rapidly.
I would feel sorry for her, but she's a lying, fraud and a poverty ghoul so I don't.