No you’re completely right.3. I may be incorrect here, and please correct me if I am wrong, but if you are at the stage of your recovery where the slightest bit of stress can set you off on a wobble and require you to go to a meeting, should you really be going into a pub (with all the psychological triggers present) who is having an actual pint? Sorry for the long sentence and more than happy to be corrected on this, but, I would have thought if your recovery was still in its infancy, going into a pub wouldn’t be advised.
Idk it’s not my place to judge anyone’s illness or recovery but her story is just so atypical of any women’s I’ve ever heard, especially young women’s it’s like she’s picked it up out of eastenders?! There’s a whole schtick about listening to the similarities and not the differences *because* alcoholism isn’t just drinking 100 pints of value lager and hissing at your partner and chucking tit at interns, it’s also being a party girl binge drinker like everyone else your age but ending up in a MH crisis? Or it’s having a few insane weeks of making atrocious decisions and knowing you need to stop and you need help with your MH? Or overdosing once and ending up in hospital. None of these are what the media portray ~the alchies~ to be like but it’s more commonplace than the bloke that ends up street homeless from it. Someone here said it perfectly in that Twitter lacks nuance, so does this back story
ETA - actually feel guilty for being so judgy so will say there’s no pre requisites to join AA other than a desire to stop drinking, no one judges the validity of your story so pls don’t let me put you off? It’s just hard to find her credible in any field but particularly as a beacon of recovery for potentially vulnerable people, I’d rather she just kept to scamming.