DinosaurSenior
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Great selections in today's racing....
Yes, I say with 100% certainty we’re the “bullies”. I can show you 10 pictures of me (I hate having my picture taken) where if I thought back, I could pinpoint I wasn’t feeling great mentally. It’s what “we do” isn’t it? I have never, ever taken a photograph or asked someone else to take a photo of me when I feel like utter shit. Odd behaviour imo.Just because we know Jack can put on one of those smiles anytime she wants, here is one in the middle of the time she was talking about above (4th May 2021).
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(Edit- I do feel for her, I do, but
1. Are we the bullies?
2. Before and after pictures really are not my thing and should not be used in regards to MH in my opinion.
3. I am not convinced the therapy has worked with respect to SM.)
I’m a newbie who has lurked for a long time until posting recently. I always found her a bit annoying but felt bad about it as she was ‘doing good’ etc. I used to frequent mumsnet a long time ago and the fawning on there was unreal and frankly nauseating. When she’d turn up on threads to lap up compliments… ffs!Can someone please remind me if we did a poll of what brought people to Jackttle?
Channelling Ian Beale’s troubled eraAlso i dont mean to sterotype but isnt the first pic like a classic hobo pic? Its interesting that she chose to use that photo rather then the one with her wearing the diana jumper... She carefully picked the one where she looks like someone down on their luck and then one with her smartly dressed.
I dress pretty much the same all the time, so if i was drunk i would look the same as i always do unless i was out out.
Perhaps i have gotten it wrong though.
I dreamed a dream in tweets gone byShe thinks she's in Les Mis doesn't she
Totally agree with everything you said. I totally get that telling people going for a walk can help often doesn't help if they have no other help going on, but for me when I'd been on the meds and had the CBT for a few months, getting outside really helped. I will always remember the day I turned a massive corner - I had been walking round the museums and galleries in London for weeks as they pushed me with my agoraphobia as they were enclosed and open enough if that makes sense? Covent Garden was a similar place to make me feel ok, I had a day where I was walking through and stopped to listen to a student opera singer, and I finally felt a glimmer of happiness and thought 'you know what? I can beat this'. I then went and bought a disgustingly expensive candle I could not afford, but I light it for a short time every time I feel low, and it reminds me of that feeling I had that day. Jack needs to find something that makes her happy in a similar way I think - and I really hope she does!100% agree with this. Also yoga, exercise, fresh air. Those are really helpful for improving your mental health. I think the frustration comes when by the time you ask for help and someone tells you this, it seems like a really hard thing to do. But honestly, going for a walk on the beach would be really good for her right now.
That barman fucking hates you, Jack.