I'll be honest - I never had the urge to have children, but the whole sanctimommy thing, and people saying "you're doing it all wrong" while you're already demented with stress only sealed the deal. Big respect for all the mother fraus.Funny enough I tore AND I'm one of the rare people who is immune to normal levels of local anesthetic due to an autoimmune condition. I told the woman who was doing my stitches that I need at least double the amount of regular anesthetic and she refused, I genuinely felt every stitch. I wasn't silent though. It was pretty traumatising (on top of a very traumatic pregnancy).
Kind of off topic but I think we have been indoctrinated to think we have to suffer silently through pregnancy and childbirth and the often traumatic aftermath. My mental and physical health has never been the same since but I remember people saying things to me like 'pregnancy isn't an illness' or 'you're pregnant, not sick' & 'mavis had the same condition as you but already has ten kids to look after and she just got on with it' .
Women like Jack bragging about silent thirty hour labours are really not helpful for people who wonder why their experiences were so horrible in comparison to the majority.
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This is amazing, thank you! Jack maths:Who was it yesterday who was asking about her book sales? I have a very trustworthy source in the publishing world who sent me this overnight:
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That's true. Also, there's a misconception that the longer you spend on a page, the higher Google will rank it. But most people will just nope out of there upon seeing a wall of text, so it can actually be bad for your numbers. As a PP said, there was a tool to remove all the gumpf and it pissed off a load of bloggers: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-56241653Probably just a rumour but don’t recipe writers write a whole load of gumpf about the dish and how it reminds them of one summer they spent in Tuscany with their granny massaging tomatoes with olive oil etc as it keeps people on their page longer so adverts and pop up ads create more income for them?
7. Lawyer. Because when she said that her lawyer was reading Tattle, it was actually her reading tattle. That makes her a lawyer, right?6. Actor, Ruby Rose’s body double.
Spoiler: it was not a heart attack.Here's the long version on her blog:
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Heart attacks, nut burgers, school places and politics.
Hi all. I know it's been a long time since I wrote on my blog. Some of my regular readers will have noticed I moved back to Southend in the summer, and have been adjusting to life outside of London...web.archive.org
"""""""suspected heart attack"""""" apparently.
WithoutThere are many factors to her decline - no clear brand, prickly personality, endless drama, terrible TV presence and, above all, shit food.
But it's also worth looking at how her style of recipe writing has evolved.
This is from her early days at the Guardian:
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...and this is from her blog now:
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I apologise for the screenshot there - Jack's website is not optimised for mobile. But I think the problem is clear. She thinks of herself as a Writer with a capital W. She really, really isn't one. The result? Recipes that are essentially unreadable, as well as inedible.
She said in that interview that some other "better people had electric hobs". But she then goes on to say that she is "diametrically opposed to electric hobs".I'm going to watch this again:
Come, come, my dear Manc - don’t forget who we are talking about here! She is medical marvel Jack Monroe. If she can bench press her own weight, carry a sofa home, stand on her tiptoes for 11 mins, move various heavy items of furniture, row 20 kms and walk 20,000 steps a day she can for damn sure sit up while in the middle of having her abdomen operated on to forensically eyeball the birth of her son. Probably with no pain meds at that point as well.How the hecking heck can she see down there when lying on her back? It wouldn't be physically possible to see your own cesarean surely. I've seen my sisters scar, it is on the lower part of her belly. The baby bump would get in the way wouldn't it? Does she have an overly long neck?
I have no direct experience of anyone with Autism, but the way Jack makes out, all Autistic people are the same. You, and others on this forum are so informative and I have learned so much. Autistic people are not one homogenous group, it is evident from you Fraus that have disclosed your diagnoses. Jack does exactly as you say, hides behind a label. Actually she hides behind many, many labels.Thing is that for some Autistic people, people facing jobs are marvellous. Sometimes they just enjoy it (because not everybody with Autism is unable to talk to people) and sometimes because it gives a framework, a way/script of responding, a way of learning to engage with and understand people - not to 'mask' but to learn.
I think working with people has been the best thing ever for me. I wouldn't have learned any of it had I been able to hide behind a label and never do anything that didn't feel 100% safe. And Mr D thrives when he's in roles with people - put him out back where he doesn't have to speak to anybody and he'll lose speech from not using it daily, and dealing with conflict/angry people at work means things that would be incredibly stressful for him elsewhere become minor irritations.
Don't forget that she silently ripped a radiator from the wall whilst in labour.Why silently? Why is that a point unless you are trying to be better than people who make noises when in labour?