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creme.egg92

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I am fucking fuming. There's a debate on Facebook about JKR and someone said they can still enjoy Harry Potter because they can separate the art from the artist, in the same way that they still like Roman Polanski's film. How is JK defending women in any way comparable to Polanski? I am seriously fed up. Oh and of course this was from a straight man who is blissfully unaware of the nuances of this debate. I know because he told me a few weeks back he didn't really know enough about it
I'm getting really pissed off with that on Twitter too. I saw a white guy yesterday climb down publicly from slating JK, saying he hadn't read enough or her essay at all. And while I'm glad he at least has the humility to do that, I feel like we really need to normalise the idea of not just running your mouth about something you know nothing about. There is nothing wrong with saying or thinking 'actually I don't know enough about this to have an opinion yet' and just shutting the fuck up.
 
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MaldonMalaise

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Just caught up, what a thread. Plenty I agree with, some I don’t, but so nice to see a discussion on the unstoppable tide of the transgender community with nuance and a lack of personal attacks, which you certainly don’t see elsewhere online.

I have a question for everyone. Do you think your opinion on MTF trans people In women’s spaces is dependent on various factors? Such as if they “pass”, if they’ve had surgery. Personally I have no real issue with a MTF trans person who has had years of treatment, surgery and life experiences who dresses well and behaves in a calm and dignified fashion, but this new generation of trans people who think they don’t have to change at all except put on ridiculously short skirts creep me out.

I know JK touched on this with her friend, but I feel like 20 years ago when trans people were a tiny percentage of the population that it was a small amount of people getting the help they needed and they were genuinely happy to be living the life that was right for them, but these days trans appears to be a badge that it’s easy to put upon yourself to look more woke or to earn some extra points in the oppression Olympics. I have a friend who is trans and has lived as a woman for over a decade, and I feel like this new generation of woke kids wanting attention in women’s spaces make the world a more dangerous place for people like her.

Sorry for the mountain of text
 
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mindlessness

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I have so many eye rolls.

It’s clear in the statement they think the people ‘most impacted by’ recent events are trans people. But you know who I think has been most impacted by Rowling’s essay? The many women who had a moment of realisation reading it and the twitter fallout and realised they’re actually gender critical. That it’s ‘okay’ to not be okay with every new inclusive policy. The women who were reminded they’re allowed to question things and stand up for their sez
 
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Bitofthebubbly

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Fallon Fox is a despicable character who has no business in women’s MMA. Clearly gets a thrill out of beating the utter crap out of women.

I am so sad for the direction women’s sports is going.
 
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jewelkitty

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No. You don’t want intersex people to be highlighted because it blows out your argument that gender identity isn’t real. Intersex people matter!!
Jfc, come the fuck on. Of course they matter so that's why I'm saying this before they have to ask yet again. You are using them as a tool, I see them as people in their own right.
 
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totallytaz

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This is certainly not someone who wants to be on board with women. You can see from this post that they despise them.
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Piff paff puff

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It’s human intelligence going barmy. We have the intelligence to create new concepts for identities and so here we are. The animal kingdom don’t do this. I mean we have people identifying as cats or forest fairies etc now it’s getting out of hand.

As a child I was obsessed with Taz the Tasmanian Devil cartoon. Mum was always always buying my Taz clothes from the boys section, but you know what, it was no gruelling task for her to do so. It’s not like the shop assistants interrogated her about her choice nor was it a problem for me when I walked into school wearing it. This overthinking and overanalysing is coming from a nation where, I dare say, life is too easy for us. There are still countries where daily survival, making ends meet is paramount - they don’t have time to poke holes in every little thing someone says or think up new identity concepts.
God yeah, when I think of all the real issues we could tackle and change to make a better world. Let women be women. Let trans have their own Bog and let's stop wasting time on the latest fashionable celeb driven nonsense.
 
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LittleMy

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This gets me too. They have thrown her under the bus. Even if they didn't agree with what she was saying, why even speak up it all? Why did they need to set the matter straight? A chance to try keeping themselves relevant, I guess? And Radcliffe, the word woman isn't yours to give away
More like trying to distance themselves from her since their fan base is largely woke millennials. They don’t want any negativity from JK’s tweets affecting their precious careers. The only sensible one was Rupert Grint, he’s kept out of everything really.
 
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Inforapenny

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Yes there are. I was part of a few of them, it's underground.
I lost faith for a while because it's so disheartening and awful. Some were on Facebook,close groups.
I'll have a look for you and post the group's.
Linda Bellos is a bit of a legend and worth following and Google her and WPUK and look at their demands.

Someone made a good point. Twitter and such can be incredibly disheartening BUT it is the demographic of that platform and not necessarily the general feeling.

Unisex toilets are grim but ok IF it's because there are few toilets and not to appease trans and men
I was in Kings cross toilets last year and a bloke ironically working for the Harry potter shop (couldn't make it up😂) came out of one of the ladies cubical.
6ft foot, 5 o'clock shadow but in a skirt. Heavy set and basically a bloke
I wanted to tell him to fuck off. I'm a grown woman but imagine being a little girl.

If I'd said anything I'd be transphobic.
At times like this a hate men....it's such a terrible feeling.

And then you get trans saying you're transphobic if you don't want their nob.

Rant over...
 
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Basicbasic

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Posey Parker hello there! Didn't know you were clogging up the tattle algorithm with your hateful bullshit as well as YouTube 😑
Never heard of her. You obviously can't get over the fact that millions of women across the world are in support of women's rights.
 
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Glaschelle

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Here’s me thinking that threads on this website are meaningful but then i came across this deluded one... continue crying about news articles sticking up for people’s rights saying they are “arrogant and patronising” When clearly all of you fucking Jk supporters are just the same with all your “i don’t feel safe in toilets with a trans person” bullshit.
I don't have any difficulty using the same toilets as trans people. My issue is predatory men and how all women - cis, trans, non binary, whatever label you want to slap on yourself, can be protected!!!

I'm also not a big fan of "We don't agree with so you're a TERF and a transphobe"

Whatever happened to live and let live, agreeing to disagree.

Evelyn Beatrice Hall "i disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it"
 
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thatstupidcat

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I too have e-mailed support directly. I can’t stay quiet when I see men spam her with porn in a children’s art competition, and I swear I’m going to have kittens the next time I see someone screaming ”suck my ladydique, terf!”

It’s like being in the upside down right now, where I am having to explain to supposedly intelligent people exactly why women’s spaces and sex-based rights exist, and it isn’t to preserve our delicate lady feelings.
 
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ShowMeYourFeline

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I’m actually impressed with the Warner Bros statement, it’s the best they could do in this day and age to not throw JKR to the wolves while avoiding offending deranged wokesters.
 
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I feel like this is a classic case of look at what people do, not what they say. Shes genuinely philanthropic, created a big part of my childhood (and my daughters now) etc. I dont really care what she says on Twitter. Its just Twitter.
 
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PinkBogeyBreath

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To be fair, even if any of the actors agree with JK's tweets and essay content, they may not feel they are in a position to say so. I'd suggest there's lots of people in the public eye who toe the line publicly while privately thinking the world has lost the plot.
 
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Scotch Mist

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The reason the TRAs are so pissed off about JKR speaking up is because she can't be cancelled.

They relish in "exposing" and doxxing women who don't agree with their extremism, writing anonymously to their employers trying to get them sacked.

I've seen many people on various platforms saying how transphobic she is. When I ask them to specify exactly what she has said that's transphobic, surprisingly I don't hear anything back.

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On another note, did anyone see the anonymous message Posie Parker received from a TRA? I've placed it in a spoiler as it's very disturbing.

In my eyes the people who are calling women like me TERFs are siding with people like this:

🤬 The person who sent that tweet is sick and dangerous and should definitely receive a visit from the police immediately. It's absolutely disgusting to write that and think its acceptable because you don't agree with someone else's opinion. I can't believe the venom of that post. I'm angry and completely appalled at the same time. How frightening to have that directed at you.
I really hope that the person who did that gets some jail jail time and is made an example of.

This is why so many women are afraid to speak out now. Nobody wants to raise their head above the parapet knowing that it might be blown off.
 
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