I have no comment to make on little Ted - I’m a teacher and I’ve met plenty of children that really don’t enjoy going to these events - too much noise, too many other kids, unknown situation etc. I don’t get the extreme anxiety that St Jen of Hives faces with him going away to a club but I imagine if you have chronic anxiety that could definitely be an issue. What I just don’t get his the cheating Al telling the internet. I get anxious and my boyfriend would calm me down and talk me through the situation. He would not share it on the internet - it wasn’t done kindly either “avoid Jen” he said. It’s cruel of the cheat to not support her. Does she not mind having all her anxieties shared online? Again I think it’s great that more people are sharing their challenges with mental health but it’s not his health, he’s not asking how to support her - he’s mocking her. Their relationship has some major red flags. I hope she has a good friend somewhere that can support her through this.