That is such a good point actuallyAlso that she was quick to post that accusation of abuse of Jenny shutting down the Patreon, but not the ‘real’ receipts
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she must have died when she realized the entire site was down..it was so erratic
That is such a good point actuallyAlso that she was quick to post that accusation of abuse of Jenny shutting down the Patreon, but not the ‘real’ receipts
she must have died when she realized the entire site was down..it was so erraticThat is such a good point actually
100%Think it was such a perfect indicator of how quick she can create a story in her head with very little evidence to back it up
she must have died when she realized the entire site was down..it was so erraticThat is such a good point actually
*I* was getting fed up of L and I’m not even her friend. I was genuinely scratching my head at the time as to how her sisters and J tolerated it. And before you downplay it, yes L, it was chaotic. You moved Jimmy back into your kids’ lives (which is a huge thing) only to move him back out (another massive adjustment), only to introduce Moo Moo to them (another big step for any child, despite you saying at the time introducing a fella to your kids isn’t a big deal. It is), only to break up with Moo Moo, get with the latest ex, move one kid in with him, leave the other with your parents (allegedly) within weeks, only for him to break up with you and kick you out of his house, move your whole life back into your old apartment (all the while leaning on your friends) only for you then turn around and get back with him. You keep saying you’re not chaotic and it really shows a massive lack of self awareness if you think what I’ve described is not hugely chaotic.Kinda seems like they were all really fed up with L and discussing her
you’d swear she was abusing her kids the way you’re going on give over, adults break up and make up all the time you’re going on like she’s bopping off to a crack shack every weekend and neglecting them? Have u never gone to your nannys for a week or two on your summer hols?*I* was getting fed up of L and I’m not even her friend. I was genuinely scratching my head at the time as to how her sisters and J tolerated it. And before you downplay it, yes L, it was chaotic. You moved Jimmy back into your kids’ lives (which is a huge thing) only to move him back out (another massive adjustment), only to introduce Moo Moo to them (another big step for any child, despite you saying at the time introducing a fella to your kids isn’t a big deal. It is), only to break up with Moo Moo, get with the latest ex, move one kid in with him, leave the other with your parents (allegedly) within weeks, only for him to break up with you and kick you out of his house, move your whole life back into your old apartment (all the while leaning on your friends) only for you then turn around and get back with him. You keep saying you’re not chaotic and it really shows a massive lack of self awareness if you think what I’ve described is not hugely chaotic.
Why is she pretending that they didn’t spend a good ten mins discussing the rumour that sosu tit herself on her wedding day because she did too much coke? some bullshitter she isNever looked at their tumblr before.. the irony of some of the responses in light of current events - lol’ing at an anti bullying campaign and no need to seek revenge. L arguing with subs as always
I haven’t once commented on her parenting skills and have said several times on here that those who do are gross. All I’m literally saying is her behaviour was chaotic and that that can be frustrating for friends to witness. If you don’t think that’s chaotic behaviour at 34 years of age then I don’t know what to say to you .you’d swear she was abusing her kids the way you’re going on give over, adults break up and make up all the time you’re going on like she’s bopping off to a crack shack every weekend and neglecting them? Have u never gone to your nannys for a week or two on your summer hols?
Going to your nanny's for a week or two isn't the issue. When you have children, you can't uproot them from their house and school into a strange man's house that you've just started dating... Then shift them again when the relationship breaks down. Then get back with the fella again. It's not fair on them. Rushing into relationships is grand if that's what you want to do, but leave your kids out of it.you’d swear she was abusing her kids the way you’re going on give over, adults break up and make up all the time you’re going on like she’s bopping off to a crack shack every weekend and neglecting them? Have u never gone to your nannys for a week or two on your summer hols?
Except her son didn’t go for a week or two to his grandparents for a holiday, he moved in with them as was abandoned by his mother. I don’t care how you dress it up, whether it’s because “he wanted to be near his school and friends blah blah”, the point is he shouldn’t have been put in that situation to have to make a choice of who to live with. The poor child should be able to reliably say that his mother puts him and his sister above any man (let alone 3 separate men in quick succession).you’d swear she was abusing her kids the way you’re going on give over, adults break up and make up all the time you’re going on like she’s bopping off to a crack shack every weekend and neglecting them? Have u never gone to your nannys for a week or two on your summer hols?
This is so much more eloquently put that my attemptGoing to your nanny's for a week or two isn't the issue. When you have children, you can't uproot them from their house and school into a strange man's house that you've just started dating... Then shift them again when the relationship breaks down. Then get back with the fella again. It's not fair on them. Rushing into relationships is grand if that's what you want to do, but leave your kids out of it.
Not only has her son lost his own dad who isn't around, then someone who was seemingly like a dad (Jimmy) to him and seemed to really love him, then he loses his dog, and now he's apparently not living with his sister because he doesn't want to move again...
If you had children of your own, you would realise how fucked up all of that is. Teenage boys can be so vulnerable and from a psychological standpoint, an unhealthy or unstable relationship with their mother can cause them serious problems as an adult.
I'm not trying to mom shame so don't come at me, but my point is - if I were Jenny, I would have been expressing my feelings on all of the above too. You can't blame her for that. Especially when L goes from posting pics of edibles and tagging her dealer, comes off her meds cold turkey, goes back on them, drinks a lot, hangs out with big sessioners, comes off the drink. It's not normal behaviour.
I hope she sorts herself out because I've spiralled off those meds myself and it was the darkest time of my life. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, it really fucks your head up but counselling and taking a break from work and social media is the only way to get better. Don't like to see anyone going down the path that she is.
My head is reeling even thinking of the toxic relationship she’s in now. That can’t be helping the poor woman in her current mental state. Honestly what type of scummy prick lets a woman move in with him (conveniently for him without the kids) and then drops her like a hot snot only to pick her up again because he changes his mind? What example of love/acceptable behaviour is he showing to those kids? Never mind the rumours on here that he’s being controlling by allegedly telling her what she can and cant post on social media or what clothes she should be wearing. That doesn’t sound like love to me, it sounds like coercive controlling behaviour and if that’s the case he should honestly be ashamed of himself. If I were J in that situation you bet I’d be worried and maybe even furious texting L’s sisters my concerns. What if he had a part to play in L and J breakup?? Omg wow I’m spiralling I need to just go to sleep nowI struggle to understand how L thinks none of this is chaotic. She genuinely thinks these are standard, par for the course actions of your average 34 year old..
Except her son didn’t go for a week or two to his grandparents for a holiday, he moved in with them as was abandoned by his mother. I don’t care how you dress it up, whether it’s because “he wanted to be near his school and friends blah blah”, the point is he shouldn’t have been put in that situation to have to make a choice of who to live with. The poor child should be able to reliably say that his mother puts him and his sister above any man (let alone 3 separate men in quick succession).
As a parent myself, I’d be extremely slow and cautious to introduce my child to any new boyfriend, let alone move in with one after 6 weeks of dating and leaving my child to live with someone else. You can dress it up any way you like, but what I’ve said is just the plain old facts. And that’s not including the chaotic behaviour of what his mother is posting online. Let’s not forget she used to shamelessly post photos on her insta of her bringing her young kids to sessions on the grass, having cans with her mates.
Yes adults break up and kids go on holidays to their grandparents, but that’s not what happened here
This is so much more eloquently put that my attempt
We’re not mom shaming at all, but it’s naive to think her behaviours aren’t having huge psychological effects on her kids
My head is reeling even thinking of the toxic relationship she’s in now. That can’t be helping the poor woman in her current mental state. Honestly what type of scummy prick lets a woman move in with him (conveniently for him without the kids) and then drops her like a hot snot only to pick her up again because he changes his mind? What example of love/acceptable behaviour is he showing to those kids? Never mind the rumours on here that he’s being controlling by allegedly telling her what she can and cant post on social media or what clothes she should be wearing. That doesn’t sound like love to me, it sounds like coercive controlling behaviour and if that’s the case he should honestly be ashamed of himself. If I were J in that situation you bet I’d be worried and maybe even furious texting L’s sisters my concerns. What if he had a part to play in L and J breakup?? Omg wow I’m spiralling I need to just go to sleep now (the joys off feeding a young baby )
Except her son didn’t go for a week or two to his grandparents for a holiday, he moved in with them as was abandoned by his mother. I don’t care how you dress it up, whether it’s because “he wanted to be near his school and friends blah blah”, the point is he shouldn’t have been put in that situation to have to make a choice of who to live with. The poor child should be able to reliably say that his mother puts him and his sister above any man (let alone 3 separate men in quick succession).
As a parent myself, I’d be extremely slow and cautious to introduce my child to any new boyfriend, let alone move in with one after 6 weeks of dating and leaving my child to live with someone else. You can dress it up any way you like, but what I’ve said is just the plain old facts. And that’s not including the chaotic behaviour of what his mother is posting online. Let’s not forget she used to shamelessly post photos on her insta of her bringing her young kids to sessions on the grass, having cans with her mates.
Yes adults break up and kids go on holidays to their grandparents, but that’s not what happened here
This is so much more eloquently put that my attempt
We’re not mom shaming at all, but it’s naive to think her behaviours aren’t having huge psychological effects on her kids
She was prob just “regurgitating” that story and that doesn’t count apparentlyWhy is she pretending that they didn’t spend a good ten mins discussing the rumour that sosu tit herself on her wedding day because she did too much coke? some bullshitter she is
I haven’t once commented on her parenting skills and have said several times on here that those who do are gross. All I’m literally saying is her behaviour was chaotic and that that can be frustrating for friends to witness. If you don’t think that’s chaotic behaviour at 34 years of age then I don’t know what to say to you .
and in answer to your question yeah I’ve gone to my nanny’s for a week’s summer holidays as a child. But no, never went to live with my nanny because my mum moved in with her new bf.
The people bending over backwards to defend her on this are crazy like please never have kids if you think that kind of behaviour is ok I don't care if that comes across as "mom shaming" or whatever it will be labeled as by the stans, but nobody should put a man (or woman) before their kids. Moving in with someone after weeks of knowing them is not normal behaviour especially when there are kids involved.Except her son didn’t go for a week or two to his grandparents for a holiday, he moved in with them as was abandoned by his mother. I don’t care how you dress it up, whether it’s because “he wanted to be near his school and friends blah blah”, the point is he shouldn’t have been put in that situation to have to make a choice of who to live with. The poor child should be able to reliably say that his mother puts him and his sister above any man (let alone 3 separate men in quick succession).
As a parent myself, I’d be extremely slow and cautious to introduce my child to any new boyfriend, let alone move in with one after 6 weeks of dating and leaving my child to live with someone else. You can dress it up any way you like, but what I’ve said is just the plain old facts. And that’s not including the chaotic behaviour of what his mother is posting online. Let’s not forget she used to shamelessly post photos on her insta of her bringing her young kids to sessions on the grass, having cans with her mates.
Yes adults break up and kids go on holidays to their grandparents, but that’s not what happened here
This is so much more eloquently put that my attempt
We’re not mom shaming at all, but it’s naive to think her behaviours aren’t having huge psychological effects on her kids