It Galz #5 It Galz, we the Split Galz, no Jenny and Lindsay gone to Tommy tit galz

[sarahrogers]

That’s tit, I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m going through it right now so I’m projecting my optimism.

I still have access to my toxic friend group, haven’t burned any bridges yet.
So you advise sticking with that rather than going through the emotional ringer in the hopes of finding your real friends?

I've been through the same and agree with the previous poster, however when you make it to the other side of the depression when you're alone, you are happier than you ever have been because you now have people who you mutually enjoy each other's company. Honestly, like a lot of things, it takes being uncomfortable for a bit to become comfortable. You won't be alone forever, unless you make no attempts to change it [be it a new job, location, bumble BFF etc.]

Also therapy during the period or at least deep self analysis is crucial because then you can reconcile the parts of you that you have hidden shame or guilt about so that when you emerge to find new people, you are confident in what you bring to the table and 'nicer' to be around [but rooted in genuine contentment with ones self]

 

[DailyGlitter]

I think Jenny will be far better off without Lindsay in the long run, I think she will see that herself too in time.

Im waiting for the Traveller-style call out video from Lindsay now .... she isn't too far off it these days with her behaviour.

 

[SMRT]

I think Jenny will be far better off without Lindsay in the long run, I think she will see that herself too in time.

Im waiting for the Traveller-style call out video from Lindsay now .... she isn't too far off it these days with her behaviour.

If there isn't a priest and someone swearing on a bible, I don't want it

 

[Sunflowerrose]

I think Jenny will be far better off without Lindsay in the long run, I think she will see that herself too in time.

Oh 100% - I could see her starting her own business relating to her degree in Marketing and she has so many connections now especially with Evans connections too!

 

[imthebadguyduh]

Bar the one with the two of them wearing the masks, has J deleted or archives recent pics with L? I swear she had way more pictures of the two of them on the gram?

 

[daisychain77]

That’s really easy to say but in reality it’s actual hell. For ages I stayed in a toxic friend group but eventually realised that I would rather be alone than surrounded by people who were bad for me. But holy tit, when I left that group I was so so lonely. Like it took so long for me to be able to have the confidence to find new friends. It was really hard and I spiralled into such a deep depression. At points I really think I would have rather had crappy friends than being completely alone. Loneliness is honestly soul destroying. And the fact that you don’t know if you will ever find anyone who gets you is terrifying.
Luckily I’m grand now and have been able to find good friends but it took a lot of time and a lot of therapy. I do not envy anyone who has to go through that.


Same!

I also had a friendship breakup with a toxic group of friends years ago and honestly the relief of being done with them (in particular one girl who was very chaotic and high maintenance, similar to Lindsay) was amazing. However, I wasn’t fully on my own and never felt lonely because I have a lovely and supportive boyfriend who is like a best friend to me too. Jenny is in a similar situation with Evan so hopefully the loneliness won’t be too much for her, she will be able to make new friends and connections through Evan.

 

[Goodlawd]

Oh 100% - I could see her starting her own business relating to her degree in Marketing and she has so many connections now especially with Evans connections too!

Her degree is in Art History where are you getting marketing from ?

 

[LadyGoodman]

Her degree is in Art History where are you getting marketing from ?

She worked for years in marketing, maybe that's why

 

[Cupcakeapple]

Why did Claire call her ‘the original it gal’

 

[Irishgal8]

Why did Claire call her ‘the original it gal’

Typical tit stirrer / tit gal behaviour from her. No surprises there

 

[Cupcakeapple]

Typical tit stirrer / tit gal behaviour from her. No surprises there

Yeah why did she have to stick her nose in at all when she only has heard one side of the story

 

[irishgirlo]

Cringes me to my core that L is reposting her "support" - a bunch of hanger ons that will bite her hand off to get on an episode of the podcast

 

[sarahhartigan94]

Bar the one with the two of them wearing the masks, has J deleted or archives recent pics with L? I swear she had way more pictures of the two of them on the gram?

yep! She deleted all itgalz pics since yesterday. They had loads in front of the mic and even in so sue mes office and all and they’re all gone today

They lost 2k followers since this morning!!

yep! She deleted all itgalz pics since yesterday. They had loads in front of the mic and even in so sue mes office and all and they’re all gone today

well not all of them but all the recent ones anyways

 

[Miranda256]

Jennys post got a lot more likes than Lindsays, even though she has less than half the followers.

It seems like most people believe she was wronged as opposed to being in the wrong.

Would love to know what really happened, must have been some heavy tit for them to not even want to say each others names.

 

[queenb96]

I think the theory of Jenny finding out that Lindsey was writing tit about her on tattle is v plausible, maybe she seen a notification when they were prepping for the live or Lindsey had her laptop open. Jenny wouldn’t go public with that info because it would destroy Lindsey and Jenny wouldn’t do that to Riloh or Luna

 

[Andreaohmy2]

Why are people quick to blame L though?? I know shes chaotic but if she did something that bad noone would want to be associated with her. Seems like a lot of high profile instacunts are publicly staking their flag in L's corner. Including people who it was assumed is closer to J. And with L's sister and all unfollowing J its starting to look like J was the one who did L wrong. As much as everyone doesnt want to hear it because apparently J can do no wrong these past 3 weeks.

 

[Jellybb]

Why are people quick to blame L though?? I know shes chaotic but if she did something that bad noone would want to be associated with her. Seems like a lot of high profile instacunts are publicly staking their flag in L's corner. Including people who it was assumed is closer to J. And with L's sister and all unfollowing J its starting to look like J was the one who did L wrong. As much as everyone doesnt want to hear it because apparently J can do no wrong these past 3 weeks.

Both lindsays sisters still follow jenny

 

[queenb96]

Also Lindsey grew up on chat rooms for example she started Ma’s who drink, she checks tattle almost daily. At some point she had to be tempted to start engaging with their threads, the girls were constantly pitted against each other so the only way to defend the constant criticisms was to put Jenny down in order to elevate herself, which is exactly what she has done publicly since they fell, only it back fired as it was as her motives were as transparent as water. I used to love L but the way she has conducted herself this year is awful, putting a man she knew for 5 minutes before her kids well being was so gross and damaging. She is making enough money to have an appartment which her teenage soon can have his own room and privacy but instead she decided to turn her cheap flat into a porno set for the 70’s. Anything bad that happens she blames on every ‘other party’ even tho she is always the common denominator. She needs to grow up and act like a mother rather than a spoilt, bitchy 20 year old with no responsibility. At every opportunity she brings up her ‘trauma’, she is so self obsessed she is blind to the long term trauma she is causing to her own kids.

 

[Irishgal8]

Lindsay's pal Louisa may who has done an xgalz (I think) has posted support on Jenny's statement post but didnt even like Lindsay's one??

 

[Loliri]

Why are people quick to blame L though?? I know shes chaotic but if she did something that bad noone would want to be associated with her. Seems like a lot of high profile instacunts are publicly staking their flag in L's corner. Including people who it was assumed is closer to J. And with L's sister and all unfollowing J its starting to look like J was the one who did L wrong. As much as everyone doesnt want to hear it because apparently J can do no wrong these past 3 weeks.

I would actually argue that J and L have agreed not to tell anyone what happened, more than likely because if it was tattle related, which is a total guess right now, it would end L's chances of anything successful, and J wouldn't want that for the kids.