I have been busy today I keep meaning to make a post about Alice’s parenting.
House of tea said earlier what I was thinking, you aren’t meant to just be LIKED by your kids and that’s not an indication of whether you are a good parent. Mine fluctuate between liking me - totally normal. Sometimes they are angry with me. Also normal. I allow them to be angry and say what the issue is. Alice hiding them from Ioan ‘to protect them’ is not a valid excuse - he’s not a dangerous crim, it’s ok for the kids to be mad at him and they should get the opportunity to be mad at him, get it out of their system, ask questions. Teaching them to run away and hide, and conduct your anger in a secret, malevolent way is so dangerous Alice. Let them shout at him, surely allowing them to go will give you some pleasure
that he has some explaining to do. This is why withholding your kids makes no logical sense that you are claiming it’s for them, when it’s clearly about YOU. Just lying to yourself and them that the only thing you have power over, is the thing that will hurt Ioan the most.
House of tea said earlier what I was thinking, you aren’t meant to just be LIKED by your kids and that’s not an indication of whether you are a good parent. Mine fluctuate between liking me - totally normal. Sometimes they are angry with me. Also normal. I allow them to be angry and say what the issue is. Alice hiding them from Ioan ‘to protect them’ is not a valid excuse - he’s not a dangerous crim, it’s ok for the kids to be mad at him and they should get the opportunity to be mad at him, get it out of their system, ask questions. Teaching them to run away and hide, and conduct your anger in a secret, malevolent way is so dangerous Alice. Let them shout at him, surely allowing them to go will give you some pleasure
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