Ioan Gruffudd and Alice Evans #21 Silent night, holy night, Alice isn’t calm and certainly isn’t very bright

[tilly27]

My thoughts, not that I'm in any way qualified - is that I bet Alice will now be shitting herself re the assessment orders, she will know she can draw her FMs first lookers and even interviews into "her truth" and act her way through it (note to self how her starting & stopping crying can flick like a switch) but she will know, that trying to get a professional to believe her will be an entirely different ball game. Bet she's writing down notes and learning her lines, she will also no doubt be racking her brain, as to what is best to try and get the girls to say, she'll be thinking "I have to be really clever here", with no doubt 100 scenarios darting about her mind. There's also the alcohol thing, has she been drinking so much and / or long enough that she will need x amount to simply function? Too little - withdrawal, Too much - well we know

 

[House of Tea]

Whatever way the cake has been sliced over the Xmas and NY period, I think the kids are going to have a rotten time of it. They are going to resent their dad for his new life and love interest - he might be able to win over the little un but Ella already looks ground down by it all. Plus they will worry about their mum being on her own. But they might also feel guilty that they really want to see him, especially Elsie who seems to be the apple of his eye. We will assume that IG won’t take this opportunity to spend the time with the kids and with a significant other - that would be too much. I could have got this totally wrong - kids like presents and he might lavish them with gifts - so he might win them around. But at the end of the day kids want security and love so it is going to be tricky.

 

[Just William]

@amethyst_unicorn
Given AEs history (I know she claimed activism for the Labour party in the UK but they were are bunch of champagne socialists at the time) and her penchant for self promotion, I suspect her tweets against Trump were an attempt to get him to engage in a Twitter war with her and raise her profile. She's all about self promotion - it might start out as a band wagon she can jump on with a tenuous belief of political activism - but the ultimate aim is self promotion. For herself and, in her deluded mind at that time, her hubby. She is incapable of calculating the fallout if it didn't work out.

Unfortunately, for her, Trump didn't recognise how "famous" she was and failed to engage in her attempt at a Twitter war.

Trump 1 - AE 0

So true. AE loves a bandwagon if she can use it to promote herself. Like using her 'pain' to help other wronged women, being their voice, but she's not really interested in them, they're just a means to an end as she can exploit their pain by turning it back to herself & justify going off on one over SM. And didn't she say it could be a movement like #MeToo or similar? The same movement she did a brief TV interview about referencing her interaction with HW, but then in her Marjorie video, claiming not to really understand what it meant!
I'll give her one thing - she is remarkably consistent in her inconsistency!

 

[upyernelly]

I did not know this. I always thought he was just really rich and couldn't afford to fight him.

He is really rich - that how he was able to fight her!!!

 

[tilly27]

@Magpierainbow i am so so sorry to hear of your loss of your wee toot. Hugs x

 

[Just William]

@CookieMonsta
I think she was probably able to control the nasty a bit better before the drinking, but then it lowered her inhibitions and the real nasty narc came out more often. It was interesting that IG told her off saying the woman he'd married was kind and dignified. I think he took all her jibes for jokes for a long time and really didn't see the nasty side of her as her real self for a long time.

Sadly he gave her the benefit of the doubt for way too long. Decent people don't want to think that someone they love is capable of such true nastiness. For Ioan I imagine it was death by a thousand cuts.

 

[MitziCooee]

I hope BW won't be there but I fear she will be. It is way too soon and too difficult for the girls. It would be a good chance for Ioan to spend proper time with the girls and only focusing on them.

Long time lurker, first time poster here. I found these pictures of BW today from her Web series "RelationShit" and couldn't get over the irony of how appropriate they are to the situation. Hope it's cool I share them here. Plus see who she looks just like in the last picture!

 

[CailinAlainn]

Many compare Alice to Betty Broderick but her case increasingly reminds me of Kelly Rutherford, which shows that mothers can lose custody quite easily.

I mean long term Ioan cant have sole custody or weighted to his favour because he is the only one who seriously works (thats where I dont get her cheerleaders who apparently think she is a Oscar-level actress LOL)

The question is if the court happily accepts 50/50 (when neither works, so overall more for her) or if they order any additional treatment before she gets custody. Because one thing is certain: the way she goes on about this currently it will end badly.

Yes! And that was another case I was glued to. Kelly was nowhere near as public or unhinged as Alice but same vibe. The international element (which was her fault) didn’t help her case though.

 

[Just William]

I'm starting earlier today in an attempt to keep up!

 

[BigBonedBuzzard]

I still assume BW is in Cali and that IG will spend the whole of December getting the girls used to her and then they'll try to do NYE together. He has the girls half the time, so he can start next week with Bianca away, than afterwards her just meeting the girls and popping out, then mid-month first whole day.
The speed with which he announced their relationship makes me think he doesn't want to lose any more time.

 

[MitziCooee]

Sorry I couldn't put the pictures behind a spoiler, I tried but it didn't work

 

[tilly27]

So true. AE loves a bandwagon if she can use it to promote herself. Like using her 'pain' to help other wronged women, being their voice, but she's not really interested in them, they're just a means to an end as she can exploit their pain by turning it back to herself & justify going off on one over SM. And didn't she say it could be a movement like #MeToo or similar? The same movement she did a brief TV interview about referencing her interaction with HW, but then in her Marjorie video, claiming not to really understand what it meant!
I'll give her one thing - she is remarkably consistent in her inconsistency!

She is unbelievable, I bet some of those interacting with her are actually going through a whole lot worse. I've seen numerous posts from several people - and she fails to even acknowledge them. There was one lady - she had sent Alice a 4 part tweet explaining what she was going through - and got absolutely ZERO interaction/acknowledgment from Alice (you could tell the lady really put her heart & sadness into the tweet(s) )
She won't look anywhere - where someone is clearly in pain and might take the focus away from Alice.

 

[plinky]

It is usual for parents to split the day, I did it for years. So 1 year they are were me Xmas eve till 2pm Xmas day, then with him from then till Boxing Day and then whatever the similar split with NY and swap the next year. Usually you have 2 x Christmas. So everyone sees everyone and no massive gaps between the parents and the occasions. It’s normal and not unheard of. Worse to lose an entire Xmas, eve and all

 

[upyernelly]

My thoughts, not that I'm in any way qualified - is that I bet Alice will now be shitting herself re the assessment orders, she will know she can draw her FMs first lookers and even interviews into "her truth" and act her way through it (note to self how her starting & stopping crying can flick like a switch) but she will know, that trying to get a professional to believe her will be an entirely different ball game. Bet she's writing down notes and learning her lines, she will also no doubt be racking her brain, as to what is best to try and get the girls to say, she'll be thinking "I have to be really clever here", with no doubt 100 scenarios darting about her mind. There's also the alcohol thing, has she been drinking so much and / or long enough that she will need x amount to simply function? Too little - withdrawal, Too much - well we know

The thing is Alice isn’t really that clever. One of her biggest flaws is overestimating herself and underestimating others.

This’ll be glaringly obvious to whomever is doing the evaluations.

 

[claudiarocks]

The thing is Alice isn’t really that clever. One of her biggest flaws is overestimating herself and underestimating others.

This’ll be glaringly obvious to whomever is doing the evaluations.

Long time lurker, first time poster here. I found these pictures of BW today from her Web series "RelationShit" and couldn't get over the irony of how appropriate they are to the situation. Hope it's cool I share them here. Plus see who she looks just like in the last picture!
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Loser

 

[House of Tea]

I still assume BW is in Cali and that IG will spend the whole of December getting the girls used to her and then they'll try to do NYE together. He has the girls half the time, so he can start next week with Bianca away, than afterwards her just meeting the girls and popping out, then mid-month first whole day.
The speed with which he announced their relationship makes me think he doesn't want to lose any more time.

I don’t come from divorced parents, I wish they had broken up, they were a nightmare together (both dead now, mum died quite young, and I digress…) but what is the optimum time to do the introduction to my new partner. He might want speeed but it seems rushed. They only just found out about her, and then by a back door way.

 

[Just William]

Can you imagine a judge sitting there watching Alice’s videos? . I don’t know what’s worse that or published in the DM. God almighty. She has to understand what a mess she’s in. I bet she will blame medication.

She would blame anything incl' the judges dog if she thought she could get away with it! Alice is never at fault.
Alice has been wronged, dammit.

 

[MarkC1387]

I’m just catching up from this morning where she says “oh he has been swanning about France and the Gold Coast and we have been stuck here”

Is this fuckwit demented or something? Complaining about being stuck…. In LA?? Am I missing something? She lives in a modest house, doesn’t need to work, has two beautiful daughters, sunny weather, the list goes on and she is complaining about “being stuck there”

She really pisses me off more and more every day. Mon back to freezing cold Blighty and then I’ll maybe have a degree of sympathy for you, you absolute roaster.

She seems to use the pandemic as an excuse when she wants to. She's "stuck" at home because of the pandemic but at the same time she was complaining that she couldn't send the children to France, during the same pandemic. And complaining that he's quarantining now, ya know, during that same very pandemic.

 

[BigBonedBuzzard]

I don’t come from divorced parents, I wish they had broken up, they were a nightmare together (both dead now, mum died quite young, and I digress…) but what is the optimum time to do the introduction to my new partner. He might want speeed but it seems rushed. They only just found out about her, and then by a back door way.

I agree it's rushed, I just don't believe he understands that. If this relationship has been going on for a year or even years, he probably thinks it's time anyway. I hope he's got some professional there to advise him.

And if I'm right, I don't envy Bianca one bit. NYE with his kids, of which at least one was taught to hate you? Sounds like fun.

Do you think the "provocative text" Ella sent Ioan was about BW?

 

[House of Tea]

She seems to use the pandemic as an excuse when she wants to. She's "stuck" at home because of the pandemic but at the same time she was complaining that she couldn't send the children to France, during the same pandemic. And complaining that he's quarantining now, ya know, during that same very pandemic.

Also, she loves that house, she mentions it all the time in a we are going to lose the house way. There are worse places to be stuck. But in reality the stuck means the daily drudgery and the endless days and nights tapping on a keyboard. He was working for sure - but he loves that, plus he was having a luxurious stay in a glamorous location with a very attractive, very bendy, adoring woman. I think that is what she is really narked about.