Abs what's your pointView attachment 1216473
Even if this is true, you do not verbalise or publish this for the younger child to see it. You tell those precious little girls that no matter what, they’re the best things in the world. Honestly!
She asks for prefect grammar, she doesn’t even know ellipses has three dots.
They are all definitely (badly) choreographed
And walked out the door as soon as they didn't tell her exactly what she wanted to hear!No halfway sane person would be going to all three, no doubt she's seen more than her fair share of psychiatrists, psychologists, and therapists in her 53 years, but not all at once.
Exactly. She's vile once again posting personal stuff that should remain private & using little E as a prop for her SM.View attachment 1216473
Even if this is true, you do not verbalise or publish this for the younger child to see it. You tell those precious little girls that no matter what, they’re the best things in the world. Honestly!
She asks for prefect grammar, she doesn’t even know ellipses has three dots.
Just noticed my own typoAnd walked out the door as soon as they didn't tell her exactly what she wanted to hear!
Exactly. She's vile once again posting personal stuff that should remain private & using little E as a prop for her SM.
Not to mention her subtleas a tankdigging for compliments at her being such a good mum making up those games. FFS.
I’m sorry that you have found some of the last few pages and the recent discord hard to deal with. I value your posts and you are unfailingly kind and thoughtful of others. I do apologise if I have contributed to any of this, that was far from my intention. I too love being part of this special community, you have all helped me through one of the most difficult and sad periods of my life, and I would hate to feel that I have upset any one of you lovely soulsI'm so sorry to hear of your sad situation caused by yet another Narc & like Alice using PA & delaying tactics. They truly are evil.
I don't have anything to offer wisdom wise, just sending you my warmest wishes that one day soon this will be resolved & you & your OH are able to get married & your story will be one of love being triumphant over hate.xxx
@Lulugrace
@Lulugrace - I'm so sorry you're struggling health wise & to hear that you were in an abusive relationship. But I'm very glad you got out.
I know it will take time to come to terms with it all but I wish you better brighter days ahead & hope as you blossom (& you will) that your health improves hugely as stress can cause so much damage.
@Knitwit
I'm so sorry to hear of your friends heart breaking news. For you to then see the posts from Alice must have been especially hard & hurtful.
I'm sure she will be very glad of your love, friendship & support.
Hi all, skim read the last 10 pages of #93 as I took a break & just caught up. Was finding the discord uncomfortable even tho' there's nothing wrong with turds having differing opinions & if we all agreed all the time it would just be an echo chamber. It's funny, no matter how many decades have passed & how far I've come from being a walking on eggshells young teen; the peace keeper, people pleaser/appeaser, etc I still don't like conflict. Not that I can't hold my own nowadays or say no but it took me decades, but still the discomfort from conflict comes knocking at times so I took a step back.
I love being part of this wonderful community of people who are kind, caring, supportive, funny, intelligent & stand up against abuse. But I still have to remind myself it's ok to disagree & that different posts will trigger different responses depending on our personal viewpoints/experiences.
Most of us have experienced various abuse of some kind, experience of a Narc, other issues, etc.
For example - one of mine is kind of petty. ETA - no I'm not singling anyone out.
I am very b/w when it comes to Alice. I think she's an irredeemable abusive vile bleep. The initial sympathy I felt for her was killed stone dead on seeing the receipts here so I can get irritated at times by vacillating posts; one week condemning her & the next week feeling sorry for her, etc but maybe my stance says I am lacking as other turds seem to have more compassion but I can't fake it. I can't feel compassion or sympathy, etc for an abuser. Doesn't mean the opinions of other turds who do matter any less than mine, we're just different.
All my compassion, sympathy, empathy, goodwill, support, etc goes to the girls, IG, his family & B - her victims. Alice can rot in hell.
I'm aware there will be turds who don't agree with my b/w view but my unwavering stance is what it is. Words I find useful for reminding myself - it's ok if we disagree at times. Having said that I'm also glad of the scroll button, lol, as I'm sure others are! Sorry, couldn't resist!
I'm also b/w in my thinking she'll never change. She may be able to fake it for awhile but at heart she's a long term abusive Narc & an entitled bully. She could (& still might) cut out the pills & booze, diet/lose weight, get a proper job, etc but none of it will change who she is.
It would be a little better for the girls sake but it wouldn't change her selfish Narc nature or her view of them as her pawns.
I don't believe she loves them. Narcs aren't capable of real love. Narcs use people they don't love them.
I'll always believe the girls would be way better off with their dad full time even with the PA than live with her toxicity.
She may be their 'mother' (I use that term very loosely) & they love her but they're children who don't understand who she really is.
Hopefully one day that will change & they will walk away for their own sanity & stay away like their dad had to.
There really are no depths she won't stoop to for attention & sympathy. She's beyond disgusting & vile. I know I'm not the only one here who has felt genuinely suicidal. I was in a very dark place for a very long time many years ago & attempted it twice. She sickens & revolts me. And once again brings up the step sister she barely even knew to get sympathy points. She is repugnant. I would say shame on her but she feels none as she has no conscience. As for her friend who doesn't say anything bad about anyone - it begs the Q how he could remain friends with such a POS?
Hugs to my fellow turds who have been there.
I’m sorry @Whodofthunk that you had to go through this as a child, and that it has echoed down the years. Some people, parents included, can have no idea just how their actions and words can reverberate down the years and continue to cause hurt. Take care of yourself, sending loveI never was close with my mom at all when I was younger, but when my folks split up my dad moved two thousand miles away. The week he was leaving they got into a huge argument and she told him she was going to kill herself and he told her he wouldn't take us even if she did . Mind you my little brother was four, I was 12, and my sister was 14. It for sure left us feeling unwanted and unloved by both parties and it showed in our lives later. I'm 60 and that crap still runs through my mind from time to time. Some things kids should just never know or hear. It's a parent's place to shield them and make them feel loved and secure. It's not about money or what you have it's about how you treat them. I'm through now sorry about that.
I bear this dress in mind for when I become a drag queen, then. Just need to think of a Malice-inspired name.She’ll be steaming that she’s had to delete that post … the only proof she has a friend in RL gone in the hitting of a button … and all because she’s a lying attention seeking bint
She’ll be sucking the dregs out of that wine box as we speak
Uh oh no good for her baps
But she admitted to blaming gas on the dog...so who can tell?
It’s a coming for her, it’s a coming, and I hope that we’ll be here to see it.
That's dreadful to post. It's not the first time either she publicises private info on the girl's education. Shut up, Malice.View attachment 1216473
Even if this is true, you do not verbalise or publish this for the younger child to see it. You tell those precious little girls that no matter what, they’re the best things in the world. Honestly!
She asks for prefect grammar, she doesn’t even know ellipses has three dots.
I suppose "Heinous Troutlips" is out of the question??Tattle turds assemble! Malice inspired drag queen names
I love you so much. So much <3see i just find it funny that she pretty much wants encyclopedias written about her but when someone calls her out on a lie or contradiction she suddenly thinks they should “get a hobby.” lmao witch YOU my hobby now i ain’t ashamed to say itmy final exams are almost done BET i’mma watch your vajazzled sinkhole life w/ 3-D glasses and a soda.
Prefix ‘Missy’ lolI suppose "Heinous Troutlips" is out of the question??
Fab u lousI suppose "Heinous Troutlips" is out of the question??
Aced it, perfect
Just so you know - I'm gay and it took a long time to sort myself out as well. Did similar in my teens, which were very turbulent indeed. There's quite a bit of support out there and you can survive. I guess I did - am.
Alice thinking of someone other than herself?Game time … spot the blatant lie
