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Sometimes, I find it a little scary that people who are frankly, complete strangers, manage to connect via social media platforms but become "owners" of another account.
They tell others what to think, say, feel - I'm seeing so many people doing this on AE's Twitter. They believe they are defending her, supporting her, showing love and care...... but they come across as bullying, taking over, smothering and just enjoying the ride.![Frown :( :(](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
If they truly cared for AE as a person, not as a personality, then they'd try and calm her, soothe her, explain that yes right now is stinky, miserable and painful, but the best way to handle things is to be private, share the adult feelings and thoughts with other adults (like family and close long standing friends) not lay your life out, with windows for all to view as if you are some sort of creature in a "celeb-breakup-zoo" .
I'm concerned that in a year/few years, when this has moved onwards, as life does, she will look back and feel so miserable that her whole soul was spilt out over social media. But more so, that when her Daughters are older, they will see all of this, hear all of this and say stuff back to her, which may not be what she wants to hear.
They tell others what to think, say, feel - I'm seeing so many people doing this on AE's Twitter. They believe they are defending her, supporting her, showing love and care...... but they come across as bullying, taking over, smothering and just enjoying the ride.
If they truly cared for AE as a person, not as a personality, then they'd try and calm her, soothe her, explain that yes right now is stinky, miserable and painful, but the best way to handle things is to be private, share the adult feelings and thoughts with other adults (like family and close long standing friends) not lay your life out, with windows for all to view as if you are some sort of creature in a "celeb-breakup-zoo" .
I'm concerned that in a year/few years, when this has moved onwards, as life does, she will look back and feel so miserable that her whole soul was spilt out over social media. But more so, that when her Daughters are older, they will see all of this, hear all of this and say stuff back to her, which may not be what she wants to hear.