LMFMO - laughing his moobs off?Would Tone be laughing his fucking tits off? Or, would Alice be laughing her tits off?
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In your own words.
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Thank you for this - and I hope Mr H. is feeling better now?I wrote most of this last night but had a medically eventful evening with Mr. H and couldn't post.
These are all good questions. I think, based on the transcript's description of how the school discussion went in court, that the status quo will remain for now. The main goal for Ioan, I believe, is to minimize disruption to the girls' lives as much as possible (as much as it can be possible in these difficult circumstances). Pressing the issue would cause further disruption in little E's life and possibly make both girls' lives more difficult if Alice were immediately held to account (imagine how she would be to live with, for them). Obviously little E would have stayed in the same school regardless of what happened with her living situation, if Alice had followed the court order. But she didn't, and Ioan is choosing to lose this battle for little E's sake. However, the judge obviously noticed it (judges aren't happy when their orders are ignored) and this will be a contributing factor in considering custody and which parent really does have the children's best interests at heart.
I hope you and Mr H are both feeling better today.I wrote most of this last night but had a medically eventful evening with Mr. H and couldn't post.
These are all good questions. I think, based on the transcript's description of how the school discussion went in court, that the status quo will remain for now. The main goal for Ioan, I believe, is to minimize disruption to the girls' lives as much as possible (as much as it can be possible in these difficult circumstances). Pressing the issue would cause further disruption in little E's life and possibly make both girls' lives more difficult if Alice were immediately held to account (imagine how she would be to live with, for them). Obviously little E would have stayed in the same school regardless of what happened with her living situation, if Alice had followed the court order. But she didn't, and Ioan is choosing to lose this battle for little E's sake. However, the judge obviously noticed it (judges aren't happy when their orders are ignored) and this will be a contributing factor in considering custody and which parent really does have the children's best interests at heart.
Glad to see this. Anything that says camp for the mental welfare of children is suspect to me. I can see why a parent might agree to such things where a situation is dire, but it only leaves the child even more traumatised. I am not sure how IG is going to cope with the PA his kids have suffered as there aren't even any close friends or family, the kids could stay with until they can reconnect with IG on a civil basis. The only alternative is for IG to do the unthinkable, and live apart from Bianca for a while. Personally, if they were my children, I would do that in the hope that therapy would help but I can see why IG wouldn't. If they love each other as much as they say, they know that living apart isn't the end, and it doesn't seem like B's visa is reliant on IG or they would married by now.Piqui’s Law: Keeping Children Safe From Family Violence Act passed unanimously in the California Assembly on Sept. 13; it now awaits Gov. Gavin Newsom’s signature. The law is named for a 5-year-old boy who was murdered by his father on April 21, 2017, despite his mother’s warnings. It requires judges and court professionals involved in custody and domestic violence to complete crucial training. And it also bans use of reunification camps—controversial therapy programs that claim to “reunite” children with estranged, sometimes abusive, parents.
Reunification camps will be out if/when Newsom signs this.
I bet Ioan already has a plan for where the girls could go. He has tons of friends and family and I bet one of them are set to take custody of the girls when needed. And no doubt, Alice IS losing custody.I don’t think leaving them with Malice is the safest option. Malice has proved over and over again what an abusive mother she is. Leaving them with her will probably cause even more damage and trauma that will be very difficult to undo even with tons of therapy. The children need to be removed. Whether they will go to their father is another issue.
The other thing is, narcissists don’t tend to be longterm thinkers, unless they’re plotting revenge - but because they’re infants trapped in an adult’s body, they don’t factor in ageing or time passing (unless they look in the mirror: they are terrified of the visible signs of mortality, which challenge their worldview of the unique, unbeatable, godlike figure they’ve created to inhabit their empty shell). All they see and know is revenge. They will spend their entire life working to ruin someone they deemed to have wronged them. They don’t care if they lose absolutely everything, as long as they punish the person who has dented or punctured their ego. And other people in the equation mean nothing to them, be they spouses, family, children - they’re there to be used as part of their masterplan against their enemy.Thank you for this succinct explanation.
Genuinely, I have learned so much about the behaviour of the narcissist(s) in my life from this and the Jack Monroe threads.
I wouldn't say it's made me happier, exactly, but there's something comforting in knowing that i/we are not alone in having to try to deal with this kind of person around us.
The often self-defeating nature of it, in particular - the fact that the desperation for attention and validation seems to outweigh all practical benefits even for the narc themselves... it still doesn't make sense to me on a deep level, but it's reassuring to have it explained.
Behave yourself RalphDoes anyone else think Judge Josh has at least a cool 8 inches....I have a crush!
JM has extracted vast sums of money for no work, six figures easy, and her paypigs are paying all her bills, she doesn’t work, lives alone in a large detached property, with outbuildings. House is full of designer 'stuff' including a recent purchase of a designer dog. She pretends her son lives with her and she can’t afford shampoo and uses Solar powered garden light indoorsI agree there is something much more 'off piste' about AE. JM always just strikes me as pathetic and embarrassing - but managed to fool a lot of people for a long time. AE definitely feels madder and more dangerous.
Taking swipes at Alun who has had no role in this shit show just shows what bullies the Evanses are.As I’ve said before in the Battle of the Brothers, I’d take amazing Alun over tantrum Tone anytime.
Must admit to a little crush on Al during the race.
In fact I’m still tracking the real amazing Al Gruffudd on GPS! Tell me that’s ok?
I can't even imagine anyone being this stupidMore twattery from the idiots. I presume this sock would have to give a real name to make a report so am calling BS.
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Yes, and not the first time he's done this either.Did I read the post correctly? Did he refer to Alun as “it”?
Wait, we can still track him???As I’ve said before in the Battle of the Brothers, I’d take amazing Alun over tantrum Tone anytime.
Must admit to a little crush on Al during the race.
In fact I’m still tracking the real amazing Al Gruffudd on GPS! Tell me that’s ok?
Not that I'm condoning it, but a fool and their money are easily parted. JM's good at grifting. Alice on the other hand isn't LOLJM has extracted vast sums of money for no work, six figures easy
If by GPS you actually mean binoculars, put them awayAs I’ve said before in the Battle of the Brothers, I’d take amazing Alun over tantrum Tone anytime.
Must admit to a little crush on Al during the race.
In fact I’m still tracking the real amazing Al Gruffudd on GPS! Tell me that’s ok?
I wonder if he forgot to take his chip off.Wait, we can still track him???
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