Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #217 Digging out your minging old rags isn't vintage, it's just manky.

[raiseseyebrow]

Tony:

Also Tony, 5 mins later:

 

[MarmiteMonster]

Maybe they didn’t make a song and dance about the school move because it’ll be a moot point when Alice loses custody altogether.

 

[BingoFlamingo]

Interesting that Elsie’s change of school was mentioned but nothing about Ella not being at school, so by omission I’m assuming she’s back in school? I hope so. Mind you; this was before the school year started so who actually knows?

The summary of the transcripts has got them riled up now. Looking through everyone’s tattle account. But they never read here

 

[MarmiteMonster]

The only way I can see this working out for the kids is if Alice ends up in court-ordered rehab or a psyche hold.

The kids would have to stay with Ioan whilst mom gets better.

I bet they’d be less inclined to run away if there was no Mommy Dearest encouraging them and waiting for them with open arms.

 

[Feather fans]

Tony Evans

@TonyEva92385840

I have so many screen shots now, it's ridiculous! Start worrying Trolls!

Are you all shaking in ya boots?

 

[NarcRage]

The only way I can see this working out for the kids is if Alice ends up in court-ordered rehab or a psyche hold.

The kids would have to stay with Ioan whilst mom gets better.

I bet they’d be less inclined to run away if there was no Mommy Dearest encouraging them and waiting for them with open arms.

She will never get better. She will always be like this, it's who she is.

 

[Autisteuse]

Also bare facts

oh she deep diving……so desperate, so pathetic. Although thread one is a bleeping banger worth rereading

Chez Malice, after dark:
*Alice puts down her extra large ‘gag gift’ wineglass which holds 500ml of rosé and weaves her way over to the girls who, of course, are glued to social media.
[Alice CAPS] ‘MY BAYBEEZ! Do not worry: MUMMY DEAREST will not forsake you? Unlikeyourfatherandthatboganho.’ Clasps them to her akimbo’d tits. Both girls emerge, slightly suffocated, as she weaves her way back to her laptop.
‘tit. Who am I signed in as? Might as well use Tone’s. Someone on Tattle which needs to be [Alice CAPS] BLOCKED IMMEDIATELY said he was dropped on his head as a baby. That information could only have come from one source…
‘Daddy and the Bogan,’ the girls chorus automatically, their gazes fixed on Instagram.
‘I’m going to screenshot all those cruel people and tell my [Alice CAPS] TRUTH. I haven’t been rolling around and vomiting in FEAR for nothing, you know. Hic. Out of bloody wine again. Order some for me, Mini-me, will you?’
‘I’m fourteen.’
‘So old enough to know how to dial the off licence (liquor store). Who am I again?’
*Spends the next three hours screenshatting to add to IG’s [Alice CAPS] DOSSIER OF LIES. Eventually passes out and awakes hungover with Panda Express chow mein noodles stuck to her forehead*
’What did I do last night?’
‘The same thing you’ve been doing for the last three years, Mummy,’ says Elsie on autopilot.
*Malice stands and clasps both girls to her akimbo’d tits. Both emerge slightly suffocated, as she weaves her way back to her laptop*
RINSE AND REPEAT, RINSE AND REPEAT, RINSE AND REPEAT…

 

[BessieNessie]

If tweeting shite to a handful of unemployed weirdos payed the bills she’d actually be doing really well for herself by now.

 

[MarmiteMonster]

She will never get better. She will always be like this, it's who she is.

Of course she won’t get better but even the girls can probably think she needs some sort of help.

They may be more receptive to a short-term arrangement.

 

[Feather fans]

All 3 of them?
Oh well my biochem lecturer and his wife had 5 kids, all unplanned.
The middle 3 were triplets, you'd think one of them would have figured out how babies are made after that little fiasco.

You see, thats what happens when you concentrate roo much on nuclear components/ biochemistry and forget the bigger picture. holistic approach people!, thats’s what we all need )

 

[Autisteuse]

this has 3 reasons
1. as you say do the opposite of what Ioan does
2. she has already been exposed. she doesnt care about it anymore. she does care about her mates from the DM being able to report on it (attention = narc supply) and put her spin on it
3. Alice wants the children to be fully exposed rather than to protect them. her approach from day one: the constant posting about them, the constant involving in the divorce, the RO, the pap shots etc. The more trauma they have the better for her, because she just blames it then on Ioan. She even blames the fact that she failed to get a lawyer for Ella against him on Ioan (or the fact that they were in court)

Point 3 - absolutely: remember the chilling ‘lovingly, but with intent’, when she showed Elsie the news reportage on the divorce, and Elsie ran away screaming ‘my Daddy wouldn’t do that’? And the ridiculous ‘it’s all good, baby baby’ being deliberately misinterpreted by Alice who claimed Bianca was pregnant and told Elsie, which made her cry and shiver all afternoon?
It seems that Alice was working very hard on Elsie to break that bond between her and IG. The Golden Child was easier, I think, because she’s been parentified, but Elsie was a tougher nut to crack.

 

[Loveu2]

The custody evaluator after listening to Alice drone on and on about the book she wants to write, bogans, bombshell secret videos, and being broke and abandoned with babyeez.

 

[Lulugrace]

Sonny & Cher (& The Bristol Massive)
“I Got You Babe”




I’m Not You Babe!

They say online we post as one
Our tweets are there and then they’re gone!
I’m so confused now where’s my gin?
You know me I always WIN!

Tone!
I got you, bro
Am I you though?!

They think we’re fake, they say I’m you!
Now I’m not sure just who is who!
It’s 4am in Brizzle town
But the LA Sun has just gone down…

Al!
I got you, sis!
Am I you sis?!

I’m the SMARTEST person in the room!
Call me bro! Let’s do a zoom!
They’re going to shoot A Ray of Sun!
While I’m left alone with my glue gun.

Tone!
I got you, bro
Am I you though?!

Rach has said she’s had enough
Cos I just want to fight with Gruff!
I LOVE my dogs! I LOVE my wife!
Now all I need’s to get a life..

Al!
I got you, sis!
Am I you sis?!

Drunk posting hashtag ALL IN CAPS!
Now I’m on the floor flashing my baps
That sock account’s a double bluff!
I’ve got screenshots, I know my stuff!

Babe
I got you, babe
I’m not you, babe!

I got Tone to tweet as me
I got him to slander Bee!
I got Tone to post all night
I got him to start a flight!
I got Tone to glue my bags
I got him to buy me fags!
I got Tone, I won't let go
I got him to break my RO!

Tone!
I got you bro
Am I Welp though?
Send some help bro!
I got you, bro
I got you, bro
I got you, bro
I got you, bro

And I'm dead
G.E.N.I.U.S!
I've got a horrible cold and this has made me laugh so hard, it turned into a full on coughing fit
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I just received the transcript.

It's 27 pages long so bear with me please, I'm going to start summarizing immediately.

This is the post I've been waiting to wake up to and its finally here!
Thank you 🩷

 

[mousse]

I still can't work out what's happened in that family.

Father = applied mathematician, top of the field.
Mother = teacher, top of the field.
Mother's brother = physicist, top of the field.

Alice = Alice.
Tone = Tone.
Phil = conspiracy theorist and anti-vaxxer. ie anti-science.

I thought maybe a defect from a grandparent that has skipped a generation.
But all 3/3 kids wouldn't get it and anyway what is it?

So I went to environmental contaminant/pollutant. Which is why I ended up with air pollution in Bristol in early 70's.
It is literally the only thing I can think of. Air pollution could do that to the brain of of a young'un and to bubs in utero.
It's all I got. Unless they were all foundlings, or all adopted, or all from some other parents somehow .....

Someone should do a case study ....

IQ reverts to the mean. More likely that the father's generation were outliers than vice versa.

 

[BessieNessie]

Maybe one of her parents was adopted as a child and unwittingly went on to marry a sibling?it would explain so much.

Pls don’t be angry with me, it’s just a thought.

just got COVID head throbbing and my attempt to make my sock crime scene diagram is on ice- but I am coming to the conclusion Alice has had a psychotic break and she is animating a brother by sock who's probably incapacitated in Bristol -I reckon Ioan knows this. I don't think real tones exists on line at all. This is almost a " "psycho" sitch. She has no one period - ( except the girls ) hence her need to make socks to replace the family who have "abandoned" / run from her . More friends than anyone lips knows ? She's actually mad.

I think you’re right, She’s psychotic and she’s using Tone’s account to channel her psychosis. Her parents moved back to the U.K. when her mother had a mental crises, This is history repeating itself.

Theoretically Tone could have the same affliction and could be in a psychotic state himself The incoherent knucklehead nonsense on the account seems masculine but that could be her channelling her aggression. It switches to 80’s teen girl insults and seedy old man comments in second.

Obvs she’s a narc but she’s a psychotic one. Her paranoia has her holed up in her house and her grip on reality is slipping by the day.

Poor kids, it must be terrifying for them.

 

[Lulugrace]

Court Transcript Summary
In re The Matter of: Ioan Gruffudd v. Alice Evans (Case No. 21STFL2019)
Ex Parte Hearing on Stipulation and Order for Appointment and Payment for Child Custody Evaluation
August 17, 2023 – Los Angeles County Superior Court
Hon. Josh Freeman Stinn, Superior Court Judge
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Appearances:
Anne Kiley (“Anne”), representing Petitioner Ioan Gruffudd (“Ioan”)
Bernal Ojeda (“Bernal”) representing Respondent Alice Evans (“Alice”)
Elise Greenberg (“Ms. Greenberg”), representing minor children of the marriage: Ella Evans Griffith (“Ella”) and Elsie Evans Griffith (“Elsie”)

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The judge, Hon. Josh Freeman Stinn, calls the case and the hearing begins. The attorneys make their appearances. The attorneys are the only ones present; Ioan, Alice, Ella, and Elsie are not present in court.

The judge states that there are two items on the agenda that day: (i) to deal with Ioan’s request for a custody evaluation; and (ii) to see if the request for a custody evaluation changes the previously set date of February 7, 2024 for the oral argument on the RFO (request for order) that was pending for interim visits to the children by Ioan pending trial. The judge said that dates will be set for the three-day bifurcated trial on this day as well.

Judge: “Let’s start with the big enchilada, which is the custody evaluation.” The judge states that he has read through all the court filings, but that he wants to allow Anne the opportunity to argue on behalf of Ioan, Bernal the opportunity to respond on behalf of Alice, and Ms. Greenberg the opportunity to advocate on behalf of the minor children.

Anne Kiley begins, stating that she will keep her argument brief and not repeat anything that is already in the filed court papers. She says that while the children have an individual therapist as well as a conjoint therapist in place, neither of them have the ability to make custody or visitation recommendations to the Court.

Anne: “Mr. Gruffudd loves his children very, very much. Does not know what is in their best interest in this extremely complicated situation. And he is seeking the recommendation, the analysis assessment of a mental health professional and the recommendation as to the best interest of the children, taking into consideration some of the most complex facts and family dynamic situations that I’ve certainly ever seen in a custody case.”

Anne states that they are seeking the appointment of Dr. Dupee as child custody evaluator because she is a psychiatrist and has the ability to make psychiatric assessments. One of the children’s therapists previously recommended a psychiatric assessment of Ella. Ioan believes that there are complications with Alice that will be assisted by having a psychiatrist as the child custody evaluator. Further, there are not a lot of people doing child custody evaluations, and those that are, are booked up. Dr. Dupee is available to start in October if she is appointed now. Anne is concerned that Ms. Greenberg’s suggestion to “wait a week and submit names” is going to further delay the process of finding an evaluator, and she doesn’t know anyone that can start sooner than Dr. Dupee. Anne states that Dr. Dupee is experienced, and excellent in that her psychiatric background would be of assistance in this particular matter. With that, Anne ends her argument.

The judge turns to Bernal Ojeda to make his argument.

Bernal states that Alice believed that “with a little bit more time and the children now with their therapist that it might be prudent to wait on child custody evaluation. It is expensive. It’s going to take a long time. If there is a concern of serious emotional harm to the children, I think that will be borne out fairly quickly.” Bernal asks that he be able to provide to the court a list of at least 3 names of potential child custody evaluators by Monday. With that, Bernal ends his statement to the court.

The judge says his understanding is that Bernal originally recommended Dr. Dupee for one of the children, and asks Bernal, “what is the hangup or the objection to Dr. Dupee being the evaluator. If I’m correct in my understanding that at one point, you were advocating for Dr. Dupee for, I believe, either conjoint or individual therapy but not for the custody evaluation so I guess where’s the line here? Why would she be qualified for task A but not for task B?”

Bernal states: “Well, your Honor, I think that my client was okay in terms of therapy. But for whatever reason—and I don’t know whether she’s done some research on Dr. Dupee and now she doesn’t feel comfortable that Dr. Dupee be the custody evaluator.”

Judge: “Okay. Fair enough. So I gleaned from your two emerging arguments: number one, mom, Respondent, does not think the custody evaluation is warranted. But if an evaluation is to take place for whatever reason, which has not been articulated to the Court, she's not particularly fond of the idea of it being Dr. Dupee. Is that the two takeaways?” Bernal answers in the affirmative.

The judge turns to Elise Greenberg.

Ms. Greenberg states that, unless the Court has changed its positive inclination to order the evaluation in general, that she won’t speak to that point since she doesn’t want to waste anyone’s time.

The judge states that the parties are to assume for the sake of argument that the Court is positively inclined toward having an evaluation done. He asks them: what, if anything, do they want him to know about who ought to do it and, if so, why and what the process ought to be?

Anne Kiley states that her concern is that if there’s not some sort of participation or suggestion by Alice and her attorney that there won’t be a buy-in. “There might not be a buy-in anyway.” And on behalf of Ioan, she thought it would be helpful if there would be 48 hours by which a name of a child custody evaluator could be supplied as well as their availability, so narrowing it down to evaluators who could start by October or sooner, if the court is inclined to give a few more days for some names of child custody evaluators to be provided.

The judge directs a question to Ms. Greenberg (but states that Anne or Bernal can weigh in as well): If Alice “is resistant to an evaluation being done, period, I don’t understand how we’re going to necessarily get more “buy-in” with the selection of three different names.” The judge states that if Alice provided a name, that there may be perhaps less resistance, but the bigger hurdle is that if Alice doesn’t want an evaluation, his sense is that the person opposed to an evaluation would oppose it no matter what, and that more delay or the selection of 3 names doesn’t give a lot better information and it doesn’t really solve the problem, which is that “mom, fundamentally, doesn’t believe an evaluation is necessary.”

Ms. Greenberg states that she is comfortable with the judge making a decision on the child custody evaluator that day. Ms. Greenberg states that “my concern is that we get something done because the therapists, who haven't started really working in earnest with this family yet, will not be able to make recommendations, will not be able to give an analysis and provide an expert opinion. Unlike other cases, where there's tons of people involved who can provide that evidence, that doesn't exist in this case. So I urge the Court to order the evaluation and let's get it done.”

The judge asks if Anne Kiley has anything further. She says no.

The judge rules. “So what the Court is going to do, the Court does believe that this case does warrant the appointment of a custody evaluator. The Court is clearly familiar with the case, clearly familiar with the allegations. It is apparent, abundantly, for whatever reason in part of the -- I believe, the analysis to help inform the Court as to what has happened, you know, most importantly through the -- you know, the perspective of the girls to cause this estrangement. We need to -- we need to get to the bottom of it, so that ultimately when we do make orders in the long run, that they are informed. These girls are clearly estranged from dad. Again, I'm not prepared to say exactly why or what the emanating source is. You know, the least of which or the most recent of which example is the eldest of the two children seeking a domestic violence restraining order against her father, which, again, foretells estrangement. It doesn't mean, you know, that it was, you know, bad faith or anything like that. It just means that there's clearly a deep rupture in the relationship and we need to figure out what the source of that is and most importantly figure out how we can make informed custody orders going forward.”

“So the Court does believe that there is enough allegations of estrangement, enough allegations of alienation that we need to have a more wholesome understanding. So I am going to order the appointment of Dr. Dupee. I don't believe in letting the perfect be the -- I mean, the good being the enemy of the perfect or however you say it correctly. I want progress and I want it to start sooner rather than later. If Dr. Dupee is available, I think that that makes a lot of sense. I am going to order the fees paid from the blocked account that we have been discussing in earlier hearings subject to reallocation.” The judge states that these orders are being made pursuant to Family Code 3111, Evidence Code 730, and California Rules of Court 5.220.

[EDITOR’S NOTE: Family Code 3111 refers to the authority granted under the law to courts to order a custody evaluation if it believes that doing so is in the best interests of the minor child. Evidence Code 730 refers to the court’s authority to appoint an expert to give an unbiased, objective evaluation of a matter for which an expert opinion will help the Court. This allows the court to appoint an expert to investigate, report, and testify about issues relevant to the case. California Rule of Court 5.220 refers to the rules and regulations surrounding the job of a child custody evaluator and what he or she is expected to do.]

The judge asks for a Sanchez waiver and Anne, Bernal, and Ms. Greenberg agree.

[EDITOR’S NOTE: A Sanchez waiver means that the parties all agree that the child custody evaluator’s reports may be admitted into evidence without foundation (establishing qualifications of a witness or authenticity of evidence) and without objection, subject to cross-examination of the child custody evaluator.]

The judge then turns to the next issue.

-End of Part 1-

Judge J! I know the source, we all know! It's ALICE!!!

 

[seneca]

Yep narc injury induced psychosis fuelled by menopause / rose~ and possibly long term pill abuse and genetic vulnerability. Also Ioan needs to move to BH school zone asap .

 

[NarcRage]

Alice's excuse on the sealing of the custody hearing will be that the motion to seal is being put forward by minors counsel and Alice is responsible for half minors counsel's fees - she will say she can't afford to pay for all these unnecessary filings....
When in reality she wants it open because she craves DM attention.

 

[Diamonds60]

I also think mAlice is all talk and doesn’t really want the trial open. We likely don’t know the half of what she has done or is doing. Does she really want it all exposed to the world? I don’t think so. She will also want it sealed but she won’t admit that.

 

[Gawdwhitnext??]

Sadly I think the same, it will be really hard to establish any kind of relationship again especially if 50/50 custody is ordered as all she will do with her time with the girls is continue the PA. The damage has pretty much been done already and I can't see therapy working miracles either because she will be coaching them and pushing them for information all the time.

I actually think the worst is yet to come.

I agree as she is nuts, it’s actually not remotely funny when you consider her behaviour over this past 3 years and judging from the socks she hasn’t moved on one iota. That says something pretty damning about her, I’ve never known anyone to have such a lack of self awareness as Alice.
But I do have hope and massive new respect for Ioan who tbh I don’t have strong feelings about as I didn’t even know him before this thread…because…what he said in the new transcript about not being sure what to do in the girls’ best interests due to the extent of alienation and asking for the court/evaluators to make the appropriate judgement…
I think another Turd picked up that this is someone who loves his kids so much that he recognises he might have to let them go. Hopefully temporarily and they would find their way back to him. That’s true, genuine, altruistic love to me, when you love someone so much you just want the best for them even if that means you lose them, even if in this situation it’s not really the best thing for them, but they’re so alienated that in reality it’s the only safe option.
So much respect for Ioan and for what it’s worth I’m sure the girls will both come back to him. They have Stockholm but it can be fixed. He’s done everything right in my view.