I cannot agree you were inspired by Alice. Even from reading this brief description it is clear you internalised your hurt and pain and protected your children.
I cannot agree you were inspired by Alice. Even from reading this brief description it is clear you internalised your hurt and pain and protected your children.Lonnng time lurker. I mean longgg. Since waaay back. It’s the only thread I read on Tattle & never bothered setting up an acc till now. And as there’s no rave thread for Alice, I’m forced to post this here.
I know how you all feel, however, I for one have been completely inspired by the glamorous Alice Evans. When my long term partner left me and moved out, I too was absolutely BEREFT. And when the kids stayed with him, I would come home from work, get into bed & stalk my exes and his colleagues socials for signs of a new relationship. I lost interest in everything & completely isolated myself from my own friends and all of our former friends. I felt such a failure at life.
When the children stayed with their dad weekends, I would open the wine, take a sleeping tablet and wake up with MAJOR fear reading the absolute gibberish I had sent to himself whilst under the influence. That’s about the same time as brave and honest Alice went public about her own divorce. I began following her on both Insta & Twitter and even exchanged some supportive DMs with her. Good on her speaking out! A kindred spirit!
The longer I followed the saga, the more invested I became…… and the more I looked at my own life and behaviour. I haven’t touched a drop of alcohol in 14 months. And while I take antidepressants, sleeping aids have become a thing of the past. I no longer need them! As on the nights my kids are in their dads, I go to netball & book club & for the past 5 months, I’ve also taken up boxfit. So I’m always ready for a good nights sleep! I’ve lost almost 3 stone, reconnected with friends & made some new ones along the way. I have a renewed zest for life & our children have benefited HUGELY from my new mindset. Last month, we went on our first holiday together sans dad & it was GLORIOUS. In August, they are going on another holiday with dad and my former inlaws (Who I still love and adore and regularly communicate with) Dad & I have a way to go in terms of a good relationship but we are civil & cordial and would never speak ill of each other to or in front of our children. Oh I’m sure I’ll feel some type of way when I eventually learn he has a new partner. But I understand he deserves happiness & fulfilment too. And I actually WANT that for the father of my children.
Anyway, all this to say,..
THANK YOU ALICE. All your privilege, and (former) beauty, wealth, linguistic skills & many years in the business and all you will be remembered for is as a cautionary tale. THANK YOU for reminding me that my children’s mental well-being comes first & foremost no matter what goes on between their father & I. THANK YOU for encouraging me to stop drunk dialling. THANK YOU for bringing awareness to the toll that years of eating shite, popping pills, drinking & ranting online takes on one’s belly (And neck ). And THANK YOU for reminding me of the importance of staying connected to friends…. and reality.
Respectfully,
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I wonder at what point Tone is going to realise there’s nothing in this for him. No money, no kidney, no leverage to blackmail his famous ex-BIL, no support from big Al if he needs it (as if she’d lift a finger for him).Is "Tone" brain damaged from the collision with the bollard?
Tone: I am thinking maybe he misses Alice SO much that he now can't leave it alone, in the vague hope that one day there may be some reconciliation! I mean - Think about it!
This was in response to Tam banging on about BW being an extra lol. I wonder is she spinning it now that she dumped IG?? LMAO narc injury is real.
It's been quite the life ruiner for me, too. I'm just coming out of a flair, I had influenza A, so I knew it would probably trigger it. The kids are on school holidays so I've been able to skip the school run at leastAwww we are a rarity indeed! I think on the group I was in on fb there was only 2k of us worldwide!
Yes I’m really flaring still but being stubborn about hospital. So am on top of my meds and hoping it stays relatively stable because any worse and in I go
Awww I’m so so sorry you have this terrible ficking thing as well… it’s ruined my life quite honestly BUT I save my spoons for taking care of my kids, enjoying the good days when I have them and for making sure everyone has healthy meals and a tidy home
Sending solidarity babe - us Tietzes girls need to stick together!!
It's been quite the life ruiner for me, too. I'm just coming out of a flair, I had influenza A, so I knew it would probably trigger it. The kids are on school holidays so I've been able to skip the school run at least
It sucks but we can do hard things
This might be the funniest one so far. They can't be seriousTone: I am thinking maybe he misses Alice SO much that he now can't leave it alone, in the vague hope that one day there may be some reconciliation! I mean - Think about it!
I'm at pains to admit this but I have been increasingly coming more round to how watchable a Reality Show of mAlice and Tone in a bedsit in Bristol would be.
I'm seeing it akin to 'At Home with the Osbourne's' with Tone desperately asking for help after struggling to work a TV remote and send an SMS.
Maybe he’s just doing it from spiteI wonder at what point Tone is going to realise there’s nothing in this for him. No money, no kidney, no leverage to blackmail his famous ex-BIL, no support from big Al if he needs it (as if she’d lift a finger for him).
Why does that article say a temporary restraining order was reissued on 23 June?People article on YoBee in the park yesterday
Ioan Gruffudd and Girlfriend Bianca Wallace Seen on Park Outing as Actor Finalizes Contentious Divorce
Ioan Gruffudd and girlfriend Bianca Wallace were spotted on a park outing as the actor reportedly finalized his contentious divorce from wife Alice Evanspeople.com
BIB I didn't know that! What actress did they use?When AE filmed VD she only had Ella (season 3 would have been filmed between summer 2011 and Spring 2012). It is when she was rumoured to have had an affair with one of the actors playing her son. She has also said before that she had Ella on set with her. She had both girls when she filmed Originals season 2 (2014) although given her limited involvement in Originals I would say any annoyance of the producers was due to her limited involvement and then flying off when she felt like it (I mean she was in a couple episodes and - at least in the finale - less than 10 minutes of actual screen time). I always thought there was a reason the producers used a different actress to play Esther for the majority of the season!
Alice isn't much of an actress. She needs to do better if she wants us to believe Tone. wrote thisIs "Tone" brain damaged from the collision with the bollard?
Tone: I am thinking maybe he misses Alice SO much that he now can't leave it alone, in the vague hope that one day there may be some reconciliation! I mean - Think about it!
This was in response to Tam banging on about BW being an extra lol. I wonder is she spinning it now that she dumped IG?? LMAO narc injury is real.
So the Child Custody will be continued and they'll decide when on July 13? Is the RFO the finances? At least that means Ioan will soon be free of her financially. What's the current temporary custody order? Is it actually 50/50?
I can't remember the other dates but here's the doc. I'm not sure what it means. Real life is taking over so these Alice tantrums are fantastic if terrible distractions.
One thing I love is that, even if you take everything Alice has said as gospel, it still wouldn't be true because she's contradicted herself so much.Not Alice! She never lies
The only way those girls have any hope is if Ioan gets 100% custody. Alice can rot.I just feel so sorry for Ioan. Whether he gets custody or not, his life is going to be tough with 2 alienated daughters. If he does get full custody, it is going to be bumpy at best, dangerous at worst. His career will suffer and he will have to turn down work to look after his kids. And if he gets 50% custody, it will still affect his career as Alice will be bloody minded and make him stick to his days without any leeway. And she will be working on them the entire time she has the 50%. I would not want to be Bianca. I think the 'honeymoon' period is coming to an end - and I mean this ironically. It has not been 'honeymoon' the last few months, but I'm sure it was when it was child free, on holiday and the early days of getting to know each other and living together. It's going to be tough going forward in every way. I think they are very committed and she is obviously a tough cookie, but my goodness, I would not want to be dealing with what they have to deal with going forward. I wish them strength and perseverance.
Alice’s mind refuses to see that she lost a long time ago. It’s like she can’t comprehend reality. Even if she lost full custody, she would find some way to spin it so that she’s a victim. Her husband is gone and her kids are completely traumatized because of how she chose to handle the situation. She can’t get work acting and refuses to do anything to earn money. She has only a few people who support her cause, and they spend all their time bullying and lying to a few pro-Ioan accounts. They’re all shouting into the abyss. No real family, no close friends. She’s lost everything important, but she refuses to see it.I wonder if Alice still thinks she is winning.
But wouldn’t the Judge state that Ioan rents an apartment for nearly half the cost of Alice’s, and he is the only parent making money, why should Alice. a lazy slug, have a better lifestyle than the person who works to pay for it?She will not get away with rental costs of this amount imo, my guess is that she's trying to bump the amount of living costs needed to the maximum.
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