Since I jumped on the bandwagon from the poster who put the splitting book let me give context.
During the early days of the pandemic writer Neil Gaiman and musician Amanda Palmer got caught in lockdown in New Zealand. She's just a messy person who is just insufferable in a lot of ways like wanting to pay musicians with beer and hugs and not money. She's into punk caberet (ahem). She was very publicly documenting the cracks in their marriage. During this, Gaiman flew 6,000 miles to Scotland to get away from her and he "accidentally" posted a good reads list of the book Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline Or Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Note - it is that author who couples bipolar with narcissistic personal issues together.
She is known for being super revealing about her sex life, her open marriage, abortions, money, all of it. She said she walked into a New Zealand coffee shop after Biden was elected and everyone clapped for her and NZ twitter clapped back saying NO. She gets people riled out because of her perceived entitlement and self important in the same vein as Alice. I've compared them before but as I said in another post -and as much is Amanda Palmer is not my cup of tea - she works. She makes music. And she is being a hell of a lot more in control than Alice.
I'm not really feeling the tone policing, I'm not neurotypical and don't think I need or want people to understand me on a celebrity gossip site, and don't feel like going down that rabbithole of what people should be able to post or not post. We aren't here for therapy, we are here for the lolz.