I am one who would be so disappointed. I would not lose respect for him and I agree that he has shown tremendous courage, has been wonderful in the way he's taken professional advice and is playing the long game. I think though that he is out of the situation and he has the resources to follow through. He doesn't live with her abuse in isolation anymore but his daughters are still there. He can now take action - heroic action - to rescue them. This is his time to shine, I will be disappointed if he shrinks from the opportunity now.Song for the list:
Blackfield: Go To Hell
read the lyrics
Seeing a lot of commentary about how some will lose respect for Ioan, be ādone with himā etc. if he doesnāt apply for a PRO. Totally respect that viewpoint and right to hold it. But I feel like we shouldnāt forget that this is an abuse victim that fled his home, leaving his children and all of his possessions behind, unable to ever return without protection. Who said (allegedly) heād rather die than continue living with his abuser. Who has been kept forcefully from his children for over a year. Who has had to endure harassment, publicly and privately, for the crime of leaving an abusive marriage.
itās extremely common for abuse victims to feel unable to press charges against or pursue restraining orders against their abusers. Sometimes out of fear: theyāre scared if they do, the abuser will escalate. Sometimes out of misplaced hope: they desperately hope that if theyāre lenient and forgiving the abuser might take pity and move on. Sometimes out of Stockholm syndrome, they identify too much with the abuserās needs over their own after years of conditioning.
Iām just deeply uncomfortable seeing anyone judge an abuse victim that has fled their home and required an actual restraining order against their abuser being accused of not having a backbone, would we hold this same expectation over a female abuse victim? It can take YEARS and so much therapy to process and overcome the effects of long term abuse.
iām fully aware thereās plenty going on behind the scenes weāre not privy too and whichever way it goes, itās with legal counsel and Iām sure a considered decision. As much as Iād love to see Alice see some consequences for once.
I for one recognise the immense strength it has already taken for Ioan to have left, forged a new life, gone through a protracted legal battle to extricate himself from this succubus and fight to be with his children. Anyone who has read the TRO documents can see his ongoing attempts to remain civil and arrange to see his children and how much Alice has continued to use that avenue of communication to torment him.
Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #101 She claims spending all day weeping, can you smell the bull seeping
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I feel like I'm watching someone in a parallel universe, someone who is using words I understand but none of them make sense together.
Alice. He said heād rather be dead than live with you. If you loved this man in anyway, listen to him. That is heartbreaking.
Iām broken thinking of the life he has had at her hands.
Iām broken thinking of the life he has had at her hands.
I know, not for awhile,
back in the 'old days' of Alice there were times we got through at least a thread or more a day which meant a crazy amount of catching up! I did get behind during the Depp/Turd trial as I was on here, on their (very fast moving) threads, watching as much LIVE as I could then body language expert videos & squeezing in RL, haha!
Alice it's YOU Ioan doesn't want to see but you have decided that you and the children come as a package so Ioan cannot see them unless he spends the time with YOU. A court Judge will see through the games you are playing with your children's emotions and judge accordingly.
she really said ā40 filmsā lmfao
imagine giving your wife a life where she doesnt have to work while she writes passive aggresive stuff about you on IG - and then she claims she dodged a bullet LOL
and yet again she contradicts her perfect marriage narrative
and yet again she contradicts her perfect marriage narrative
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I agree with pretty much everything you say, Iām a mum too and think Alice is an embarrassment, but maybe I am a bit more of a tit mum than you because if my 7 year old wakes me up at 6am I send her off to play quietly for an hour or so, especially on a weekend! Elsie is 8 and I donāt think she needs attention that early, she could probably get herself a snack and put the tv on. Havenāt caught up with the thread so not sure if thatās what was happening there though! But now Iām like, am I an Alice for thinking that?!?!
Is this her last hurrah or is she going to keep going after the PRO gets slapped on her?
I think the latter. As for dodging bullets, that would be Olivier Picasso.
AE: Nobody knows who you are. You're a nothing. You're hiding behind a screen. There is nothing sadder. I will never know who you are and never, ever care. Bye Nobody!
But Alice! I am now prepared to reveal my identity and claim the $500. Don't you want to know any more?? I'm saddened.
I think the latter. As for dodging bullets, that would be Olivier Picasso.
AE: Nobody knows who you are. You're a nothing. You're hiding behind a screen. There is nothing sadder. I will never know who you are and never, ever care. Bye Nobody!
But Alice! I am now prepared to reveal my identity and claim the $500. Don't you want to know any more?? I'm saddened.
plus he is supposed to own the houses his brother and sister each live in. Not sure if that's true or another of Alice's stories, but he did co-own the apartment in London where he and Matthew Rhys lived the last 6 years they were in London. So they paid 198k for it in 1999 and listed it for 400k in 2005.
London: End of the bachelor life for Ioan and Matthew
One concerns an unexpected late-night encounter with some enthusiastic female fans. It was a few years ago, when the two palsā careers were still being forged, but Gruffudd ā tipped as the next James
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Heartthrobs' bachelor pad up for sale
IF YOU'VE always wanted to stay at Ioan Gruffudd and Matthew Rhys's flat, now's your chance.
She's firing a bow across cyberspace to Ioan and Bianca and trying to make them feel unsettled and insecure. The sudden I have love letters is laughable and given her love of sharing EVERY DETAIL of their life on instagram shows her to be the liar we have all come to know. I suspect this is a part of the threats of a diary Ioan mentioned and funnily enough Alice said she'd been busy writing. Love letters and flower girls have been introduced into the vocabulary this last week but no mention before by the over sharer
She is not pacing herself. 38 hours to go and she is building to a nasty crescendo. She is way, way beyond the TRO.
I suspect strongly she won't make it the PRO. She is going to implode before then.
She's going all guns blazing, my kids are happy, I was the perfect wife...trouble is she knows all of this will be exposed in 38 hours.
I'm sorry. I really think Alice is trying to leave some desperate legacy. I don't think she'll be at the PRO hearing at all.
I forsee a 'cry for help' she"s foreshadowed with these late night hunts for sleeping pills...
I suspect strongly she won't make it the PRO. She is going to implode before then.
She's going all guns blazing, my kids are happy, I was the perfect wife...trouble is she knows all of this will be exposed in 38 hours.
I'm sorry. I really think Alice is trying to leave some desperate legacy. I don't think she'll be at the PRO hearing at all.
I forsee a 'cry for help' she"s foreshadowed with these late night hunts for sleeping pills...
Just going to leave this here
"When I look at some of my husband's colleagues"...ffs, is she STILL harping on about Matthew Rhys and Damien Lewis, and how they're so much better husbands than Ioan ever was?
She needs to remember that neither of those two were married to her!
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I am devastated, heartbroken and in utter shock just now: My boss asked me to attend an all-day meeting on Tuesday. 
I've an old blanket in the pet's bed. I'm planning on draping it over my person, collecting a few empty wine bottles to decorate the lounge with and accessorizing with my pyjama bottoms and one of the kids' Paw Patrol plushies under my arm.
Alice has never let a tiny inconvenience like facts stop her!"When I look at some of my husband's colleagues"...ffs, is she STILL harping on about Matthew Rhys and Damien Lewis, and how they're so much better husbands than Ioan ever was?
She needs to remember that neither of those two were married to her!
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