Alice has admitted she tracks Ella's phone when she's away from home.I think he just is getting tired of Alice calling Ella at 10.01am and getting a reaction from Ella. From his description, Ella instantly responds to Alice the moment they are apart which is not at all normal for any child, and very doubtfully happens any other time like if Ella goes out with friends.
It’s actually worse that those girls get up, have breakfast, get dressed, get in the car with him then immediately leave than not going at all, it’s so cruel of Alice to toy with them like this. It also doesn’t make any rational sense, they aren’t refusing to go if they get up and go with him initially, which exactly fits with them being scared once they leave home.
Them staying home and not going at all in January makes more sense, if they are detaching from him and the stress of it all is too much
and people have made comments that make it sound like Ella is acting autonomously, when she clearly isn’t.
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We all know what she’s told Ella as she’s told everyone else as well. She has now managed to convert her children into her conspiracy theory mentality
That he wants her to kill herself
That he’s trying to jail her
That they are setting her up online with trolls
That they are stalking Alice and tracking her
That they are tracking the girls and stealing information to use against her
That he’s hiding money and making them poor and homeless
That B has wrecked their lives for fun, on purpose
That daddy has a dark scary side
That daddy is a liar
I can’t believe that this “Lawyer” signed off on something she hadn’t, or had someone, read through properly. I mean your client up before the judge on criminal charges very very soon is a little bit important to be aware of.this work was 102 Dalmatians btw
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guess she searched for "aid money"
lol I just showed this to my boyfriend (lawyer since 2020, not family though). his comment: "If I would do that my day would be finished by 10am"(he did said it's common to skim in order to speed things up, but at least one lawyer/assistant always HAS to read through properly, that's literally the point of appointing lawyers, claiming something else is just a creative way to cover a mistake)
I'm pretty sure that it's viewed as a crime in California.For any legal people here. Is PA an actual crime in itself? Or does it just go against someone in a custody battle?
She'll be left for dead now that Alice knows this.Interesting that Ioan is in touch with one of the parents who Elsie stays with. That’s a good dad there. He obviously knows her too. Maybe that parent was keeping an eye out, which is heartening.
nah the dvro stuff tops all of this. plus neither Ella and especially Elsie are considered runaway age yet. at that stage the court focuses on forcing relationships to both parents. if you keep breeching a court order you are also in contemptSo at this current time, Big Al’s PA has really done a number on the girls to the point where court ordered visitation and therapy is not happening. Big Al has shown that she will not adhere to court orders and dragged it out to ensure Ella is ‘pharaohly’ under her control and Elsie is scared enough to follow Ella’s lead. She has manipulated this so she can say the girls don’t want to see their dad and it’s their decision to hurt Yo as much as possible and to ‘win’.
Given the ‘runaway’ risk is it now likely that she may be given full custody despite everything we know she has done/continues to do? With Yo having to pay full child support for them but having no contact (if they won’t go). Clearly she will not continue with therapy for them even if ordered, so they will be living in her toxic, unstable cesspit of doom completely unsupportedWould any agency step in or would Yo be then left to keep shelling out on lawyers fees to keep fighting until he runs out of money?
It is not a crime. There are organizations that are pushing for it though in several countries. There are opposers who say that the bad parents cry PA to try to get custody. It's really messed up. Pa is hard to prove but its It’s getting easier with smart phones and social media. It's good Ioan (and TattleFor any legal people here. Is PA an actual crime in itself? Or does it just go against someone in a custody battle?
I have always thought that Ioan was telling thee truth when he said that he started a relationship with Bianca after he separated from Alice, but now I'm starting to wonder. He would've been in a dark place for a long time being married to that and perhaps falling in love with Bianca was the life raft he needed to take the plunge and leave. I don't condone cheating - I think it's deplorable but I'll make an exception here. Alice was clearly abusing him for years.Putting a little palate cleanser here:
Thank goodness he has the love of this woman to help him through it. Whether they last the course or not. He has support now and she’s a rock to him by the sounds of it.
I skimmed it while cooking dinner for my kids and still got all the relevant infoThat is shocking confession that she only "skimmed" it. Isn't it your job to ensure that everything is correct and in order, and if there is anything else that has been brought up, which needs to be addressed.
I work in due diligence and have to read everything with a fine tooth comb! It's like me saying, "my bad" I missed that bit about the client having a huge insurance claim, which was repudiated by insurers
It's not a crime in California or any state that I know of but judges are starting to give it more weight in deciding or modifying custody.I'm pretty sure that it's viewed as a crime in California.
What a fucking liar. She deliberately made sure she was late too. 10 mins with a therapist is the same as a missed session.also
Alice: "I took them to therapy because their father didnt want to"
Reality: "Alice insisted on driving the girls to the appointment,"
what a professional victim
I am not blaming Ella because at 13 she cannot control her environment. She is clearly mimicking and copying her mothers behaviour because that is what 13 year olds do. My concern for my child would be that they start mimicking or going along with how Ella behaves. But more than that 13 year olds fall out and I would fear Ella’s emotional response would be nasty. She has been taught and told bullying is okay of someone deserves to. I would also fear Alice getting involved.Ella doesn’t seem to have good coping mechanisms but this doesn’t mean she’s a bad person or has an unpleasant personality. I was alienated from my dad, I’m the eldest and I still managed to have relationships and a job. I chose an abusive man to have children with (who I escaped) because I was not taught about healthy relationships, both my parents are not good people but how you act at 13 with your parents doesn’t always determine how you act with your friends or how you turn out as an adult
Ioan is probably the only person she feels safe expressing her feelings around. I bet she suppresses a lot with her mother. Outbursts of anger with a safe person are probably cathartic for her. She is a victim of abuse too. I feel deeply sorry for both the E's. I hope Alice loses custody of themI don’t think people should be judging Ella’s tactics here on a par with Alice. She doesn’t have tactics to ruin Ioan’s life or make him unhappy. Ella has responsibility lying on her shoulders. She does not know if her mother will harm herself if she doesn’t do what she wants, and she doesn’t want to go back to an environment that is unbearable for herself and Elsie. She is a hostage who is carrying out her mothers instructions and wishes in an attempt to stop anything bad happening to her mum. Ella seems to have no choice or options. Standing up to Alice and choosing Ioan is too risky. The fear will be real. There is no way Ella will be able to call Alice’s bluff whilst she’s at Ioan’s house because she has actually seen the lengths Alice will go to and believes it to be real. Ella is angry at Ioan for leaving Alice, that is correct but I do not think she is trying to ruin the RS with Elsie on purpose. Ella will be torn between protecting her sister from her mum, and protecting her mum. Much of Ella’s rants and anger about money is just parroting Alice’s narrative, Ella is now the connection with Ioan so Alice is exploiting it. Alice is also telling Ella that dad has loads of money and they have none, so obviously she will be angry at him about that if she believes it to be true.
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Ioan won’t be angry at Ella and neither should we. She is still a good kid deep down she’s just being manipulated
So, Marie signed a legal document and then stated she was unaware of the scheduled court date by admitting she did not closely read it - and expects the courts to excuse her oversight(s) and that's supposed to make everything "okay"?Marie is incompetent at best. What a shitshow.
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