It’s very hard to feel that sorry for someone who has caused their own problems and isn’t doing anything to stop causing these problems they have created. Indy needs to take a look at her parenting and realise she is the big problem. She’s created bad habits and enabled bad behaviour and this is why the kids act out all the time and are wild. It’s not the kids fault because they have been allowed to behave this way so they think it’s normal to be aggressive and do whatever they want no matter how much they hurt themselves or other people or what they destroy , the kids don’t understand that it’s not ok to behave that way because they’ve had their immature mum filming them all the time laughing behind the phone at their bad behaviour and dangerous behaviour at times she encourages all of it.
Also having your mum laugh and at the same time say “ no don’t do that” or “stop and behave” of course the kids won’t take her seriously when she’s smiling and laughing while saying it so then they start laughing and behaving even worse. I’ve noticed sometimes Indy will quietly say “ no stop doing that” knowing the kids can’t hear her but she’ll act like she’s correcting the kids but then she’s glancing at her phone and will be laughing enjoying the content she’s getting so Indy shouldn’t be surprised they behave so badly and don’t listen to her or Ben. I agree with what’s been said on here Indy is too immature to be a mum and I feel sorry for the kids. Indy has also said before her and Ben have different parenting styles but the problem with that is you’re on two different pages , both of you telling the kids different things and confusing the kids even more so Indy and Ben need to be mature and communicate cause those kids are relying on them and it’s not fair the kids are exploited and used for entertainment while they are not learning how to behave and are being put in situations they could get badly hurt.
Of course parenting isn’t easy all the time and kids will always have their moments when they don’t want to listen or will throw a tantrum but standing there filming them instead of parenting them is so unfair on those kids cause how else are they going to learn right from wrong? the 3 kids are still so little and the youngest two are still babies so she should want to start being a more responsible mature mum NOW before they get older and older and it’ll be too late to start changing your parenting because by then they’ll be so used to never listening and doing what they want but the problem is Indy doesn’t seem like she wants to even try parent her kids properly cause she’s too focused on looking like a cool chilled rule free mum.
Also having your mum laugh and at the same time say “ no don’t do that” or “stop and behave” of course the kids won’t take her seriously when she’s smiling and laughing while saying it so then they start laughing and behaving even worse. I’ve noticed sometimes Indy will quietly say “ no stop doing that” knowing the kids can’t hear her but she’ll act like she’s correcting the kids but then she’s glancing at her phone and will be laughing enjoying the content she’s getting so Indy shouldn’t be surprised they behave so badly and don’t listen to her or Ben. I agree with what’s been said on here Indy is too immature to be a mum and I feel sorry for the kids. Indy has also said before her and Ben have different parenting styles but the problem with that is you’re on two different pages , both of you telling the kids different things and confusing the kids even more so Indy and Ben need to be mature and communicate cause those kids are relying on them and it’s not fair the kids are exploited and used for entertainment while they are not learning how to behave and are being put in situations they could get badly hurt.
Of course parenting isn’t easy all the time and kids will always have their moments when they don’t want to listen or will throw a tantrum but standing there filming them instead of parenting them is so unfair on those kids cause how else are they going to learn right from wrong? the 3 kids are still so little and the youngest two are still babies so she should want to start being a more responsible mature mum NOW before they get older and older and it’ll be too late to start changing your parenting because by then they’ll be so used to never listening and doing what they want but the problem is Indy doesn’t seem like she wants to even try parent her kids properly cause she’s too focused on looking like a cool chilled rule free mum.