So i found one of spencers family members and did some digging, he seemed like such a fun lads lad, deffo seems like imogen stopped that. He was posted on their instagram regularly up until october 2018, then bam imogen announces their relationship and hes no longer in any photos, even family photos. I honestly feel for the boy lol i think he gets a lot of stick for being awkward, but based on the people he used to hang out with he was clearly a fun person with a lot of mates. I think he comes across weird more so because imogen is so over the top and he feels the need to try and keep up with that as its her job? Some people just arent for the camera, e.g. my partner is brilliant and natural on vidoes, like imogen, but im deffo more of a spencer and everything i do just seems awkward and weird on camera and the more you get told the more awkward you are. I feel like imogen forces a lot for the camera which makes him uncomfortable (like when she talks about sex he always seems so uncomfortable, which is okay its normal to not want to share something so personal, but its like she doesnt take the hint that he doesnt enjoy sharing their sex life on camera), and she just wants this instagrammable life. Im not against her being too over the top as she always has been, and i used to love her channel and her storytimes, but shes just changed so much and i struggle to watch her videos as its guaranteed to mention her stomach condition or some sort of fake facade. I dont think this change is due to spencer though
shes deffo patronising, you could kind of see spencers eyes questioning what she meant when she said that his family was 'opposite' to her 'loving family'.