Why on EARTH would you send another child out to look for your missing child. Awful parent. No wonder people call social services on her.
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And then sends the 'missing' child back out to find the other one
If I were either Duckworth or Lewis I’d be tempted to stay out for a bit to avoid the wrath of mother.
Surely you'd leave the child at home with a working phone, and go out and look for the missing one yourself?
But looks like she's got her period and therefore she can't possibly be expected to do anything.
This is what usually drives me to have a break from her threads, my heart absolutely breaks for those boys and how she neglects them.
Doubt she even left her bed with #extremeperiods
I think she sees sunlight way less than she claims too based on her skin
I'm so glad when I grew up to not have a mobile phone. Yeah we had to arrange more. We still had all ticket raves. No lonely mother screaming at you all night . You had no mobile Sar, give them a break. It's summer.
She's a single mum of three, two of whom are minor children. How can she just take to the sofa for three weeks out of four?
I can’t get my head around not even being arsed to be the one to walk round to his mates house to look for him and sending another kid. If one of mine was gone the other one would not be setting foot outside until everyone was accounted for.
Blimey you lot would be tough mums. These are teens on a South east council estate. I'd be out all night .
The boys should be referred to young carers I think at this point.
The kids have everything, every device and service going. They are not vulnerable. Don't give her ideas. Chavs , hopefully the 12 year older brother does a bit. I bet he has since they were born. Still got a degree and a job. Asked his mum to stop begging for his dentistry online too.
No Cape either I bet.
No Cape either I bet.
Having devices flung at them and spending time in a crappy house with a loser mum who can’t do anything it seems, can’t be good for them. The older brother classes as a young adult carer as far as I can see and none of it would benefit her, just them.
It does make you wonder how much those lads actually leave the house given how she's presented at least one as constantly breaking stuff (so presumably phones are regularly out of use/flat) and how much of a tailspin she appears to be in there. Then again, it was maybe his turn to stick the crispy pancakes in the oven.
Having “every device and service going” doesn’t mean the kids aren’t vulnerable though. What they may or may not have has no bearing on many types of vulnerability, and having every device and service going in some ways makes them more vulnerable to outside influences - including ones making use the insane amount of information their own mother shares about them.
The narrative that kids that have stuff can’t be vulnerable is hugely toxic - it’s how county lines for one thrives in middle class areas and completely disregards that parents can provide materially for kids while being crappy ass parents who expose their kids to stuff they shouldn’t be exposed to which SJ fits right into.
ETA: and she also appears to be attempting to ensure they’re as isolated as she is which again, vulnerability. She is the kind of parent where teachers and school staff are terrified for the kids and their future even if to the outside world they have everything and are spoilt.
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Any decent mummy makes sure the kids are home before they go to the '
Covert narcissists always baffle me with their ability to never do anything for themselves but be totally unaware of it. The eldest kid seems to run around after her more like a henpecked partner than a son while she sits on her arse all day, only venturing out after dark.
Guess who’s back unlocked, back unlocked again?
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