I've tried to explain this but doesn't work ha ha. Maybe one dayHe should concentrate on you first of all and make sure you are satified or at least close before he gets to finish. Even if he does have a habit of finishing quick he shouldnt just be declaring 'job done' and ending the session there.
There are plenty of things he could be doing to continue the pleasure for you once hes over the finish line. Rather selfish to stop simply because he has finished, to me the other persons pleasure has always been common courtesy and if they want to return that courtesy then perfect.
Any tips would be gratefully received hahaThere are sooo many things he could do to make sex enjoyable for you too....and to last longer.
Finish with him?, its not on for a partner to be that selfish.You dont want to be stuck with him for years if hes that crap.I'd honestly get rid of him. You deserve better.I've tried to explain this but doesn't work ha ha. Maybe one day
Any tips would be gratefully received haha
I have thought about it but in other ways (non sex related) he is fantastic.Finish with him?, its not on for a partner to be that selfish.You dont want to be stuck with him for years if hes that crap.I'd honestly get rid of him. You deserve better.
Yes but you are only young you are going to end up frustrated and angry. He might have something medically wrong with him as well.Its very selfish of him not to trying hard to fix the situation and ignore your needs.What if you want kids and by this time he gets worse?I have thought about it but in other ways (non sex related) he is fantastic.
Just fed up of trying to talk to him about it and getting no where lol
That’s very true! I do think it’s something medical as it seems to be getting worse. XYes but you are only young you are going to end up frustrated and angry. He might have something medically wrong with him as well.Its very selfish of him not to trying hard to fix the situation and ignore your needs.What if you want kids and by this time he gets worse?
I'd be talking to him and making him an appointment with the G.P and go with him.XThat’s very true! I do think it’s something medical as it seems to be getting worse. X
I’ve tried haha! Asked him to go before and he won’t, I think he’s scared of the answer from them!I'd be talking to him and making him an appointment with the G.P and go with him.X
I do wonder if men (it does seem to be mostly men that want it more anecdotally) are okay with less sex now because of porn?
I’m laughing so hard I’m work because I read that as “anally”I could of wrote this
Sex Toys, some men are intimidated at the thought of bringing them into the bedroom for fear of being replaced but personally I think that is pure nonsense. A bullet vibrator or something he wont be as intimidated by initially is a good place to start. They can easily be incorperated into sex and also be used together for mutual pleasure. Also dont have to have full sex to get the job done, oral sex, masturbation and using sex toys on each other is also an option. There are SO many ways to get the job done and you would almost be restricting yourself by attempting to get there purely through penetrative sex alone. I mean if hes not into the thought of his partner bringing more variety and spice into the bedroom and talking about sex more openly then there is definately something wrong somewhere.I've tried to explain this but doesn't work ha ha. Maybe one day
Any tips would be gratefully received haha
I think that communication is absolutely key to a healthy relationship. If you can’t talk to him about an important issue like this, or he refuses to listen to you, then alarm bells would be ringing for me! Intimacy is really important too, and you’re only young, you need to move on from him.I have thought about it but in other ways (non sex related) he is fantastic.
Just fed up of trying to talk to him about it and getting no where lol
He isn’t great if he isn’t willing to listen and make sure you are taken care of too...especially if it bothers you.I have thought about it but in other ways (non sex related) he is fantastic.
Just fed up of trying to talk to him about it and getting no where lol
I don’t unless I’m not turned on enough and that’s not just about “lubrication”. Also condoms can cause more friction too so if you’re using them, experimenting with different types and brands could help.Genuine question - to those who have sex more than once a night.... don’t you get sore? I have to wait at least 24hrs inbetween and it’s not an issue of *ahem* lubrication
We don’t use condoms anymore but even when we did I didn’t notice a difference. Always so sore after like at first it stings like a cut then just feels bruised for about 24hrs. Sometimes a bath helps.I don’t unless I’m not turned on enough and that’s not just about “lubrication”. Also condoms can cause more friction too so if you’re using them, experimenting with different types and brands could help.
We don’t use condoms anymore but even when we did I didn’t notice a difference. Always so sore after like at first it stings like a cut then just feels bruised for about 24hrs. Sometimes a bath helps.
Yeah mentioned it a couple times, they just said the same that I wasn’t turned on when I know I am. It’s been the same with every partner I’ve ever had since I lost my virginityThat doesn’t sound right, have you asked a dr about this? Also it could the that you’re physically not “relaxed” enough?
Yeah mentioned it a couple times, they just said the same that I wasn’t turned on when I know I am. It’s been the same with every partner I’ve ever had since I lost my virginity. Weirdly have no issue with examinations at the doctors (have had quite a few abormal smears and subsequent investigations over the years). I do have very sensitive skin so thought maybe some sort of irritation - I dunno.
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