16 months ago! up until 12 months we couldn't have sex at all it was agony. i think it's getting better just a bit uncomfortable now. i hope it won't be like this foreverhow long ago did you have a baby. It didn’t feel good for me for 6 months. It was uncomfortable and. Abit painful for that long
No it won’t. It got better for me but it still hurt for a good while after the 6 Months as well. It’s not fun is it16 months ago! up until 12 months we couldn't have sex at all it was agony. i think it's getting better just a bit uncomfortable now. i hope it won't be like this forever
glad I'm not alone then! it's awful i've not know anybody to go through the same thing
Are you breast feeding? That can drop the hormones affecting libido and dryness.16 months ago! up until 12 months we couldn't have sex at all it was agony. i think it's getting better just a bit uncomfortable now. i hope it won't be like this forever
Just chiming in here to say I have old scar tissue from labour and find the same problem! I’m most certainly not a good advert for an active sex life as it’s been 6 months now
BUT anyway, lube is your friend! Use plenty of it and it will really help with the discomfort, along with making sure you’re really relaxed and in the mood of course!Male or female?On the topic of sex I've just had to sit and listen to my neighbour having sex/masturbating loudly. At least somebody is getting laid if not me
There is also lube with a tiny tiny bit of some numbing agent in it, in case the anticipation makes you tense up or uncomfortable.Just chiming in here to say I have old scar tissue from labour and find the same problem! I’m most certainly not a good advert for an active sex life as it’s been 6 months now
FemaleMale or female?
. I didn't hear any male noises so I think she was probably masturbating rather than having sex lol. Poor girl must have got lost in the moment and forgot that the walls are pretty thin.Update for those who care lol. I heard her again the next day and this time there was definitely a male voice too so the lucky so and so was having sex after all. Good on herFemale
Haha no this was definitely a real live and present male voiceMale voice from a screen perhaps ?
I watch a lot of history documentaries. Convinced someone once that I had a man over lol.
Just an aside are you on any hormonal contraception? I was on the mini pill after delivery and sex was painful dry and tit with no libido until I stopped it. It was all side effects. We’re not at it like rabbits since we have a toddler with “low sleep needs” but it doesn’t hurt anymore
I mentioned this on the odd neighbour thread (if anyone caresUpdate for those who care lol. I heard her again the next day and this time there was definitely a male voice too so the lucky so and so was having sex after all. Good on her
) but this is how I found out my old next door neighbour was cheating on her boyfriend. I heard her having sex one night while her boyfriend was working a night shift. I heard her at it again a week later but during the afternoon & that time I actually saw her leave the house with the other guyOmg I love the dramaI mentioned this on the odd neighbour thread (if anyone cares
When I lived in a flat with paper thin walls we always heard our neighbours having sex just because it was very obvious from the sqeaky bed, but other than that jt was total silenceI mentioned this on the odd neighbour thread (if anyone cares
