I worked fullt when my eldest was a baby and most of my salary went on childcare ....but then was a sahm when I had my 2nd and 3rd child as childcare would have been prohibitively expensive and as it was , where we lived there wasn't any suitable to cover the shifts I'd have been expected to workForgive me if I sound stupid here as I'm not completely educated on the subject. Obviously as a single mother it would be different, but I just can't understand why, as a woman still with her partner, I would bother working at all with those childcare costs. When I have kids I fully intend to be a SAHM because why would I pay most of my salary to spend all my time at work and not see them might as well have a little side hustle and make the extra few hundred quid out of that. Fine by me I hate working anyway.
I stayed at home until youngest went to school.By that time I'd been out of employment market for 8 years and had to do a refresher course to allow me to work in a professional capacity again
However I don't regret having spent that time at home when the kids were little , whatsoever
If I'd stayed working I'd probably have been promoted to a higher grade than I am currently, as well as would have been able to retire aged 55 , and take a decent pension 3 years ago ...as it is I'm working until I'm 60 and then cashing in my