Also,just to add we have one of these big house in the country, build 8 years ago.It's not all it's cracked up to be. It will never be finished,always things to do, everything I'd like panelling hall etc.is not hundreds but thousands of euros.Maintainance is a pain to get anyone and so expensive, water pumps,boilers,heating systems,it's endless. House is crazy to clean and never clean as too big unless u have a cleaner which I definitely don't nor would I.Windows too many to clean,Snowed in some winters,we are near nothing,no transport,no shops, hospitals everything is a car.Living in a city or town is more expensive to buy but must be nice to walk to things.With alot getting a free site in the country,€150k-200k direct labour would get u a nice house.So it's not all it looks like,u get alot more for ur money self building in the country than buying in towns or cities.I feel once you have a warm home,.happy and healthy children, the rest is materialistic rubbish.Keep ur money insta people for the important things,health is number one,the rest is show really and the quicker all this craziness and obsessions with other people and their big houses ends the better.With what is going on in the world at the moment,these idiots on insta really look foolish and so shallow.