The timestamped bit where Phil says he'd heard of her through Maff:
Yeah you're right @Swamgwam, she's saying here (timestamped) that she had started dating using Bumble and Hinge.
So funny she says in that video that going on dates without rushing into a relationship is new to her... Video published on 14 January 2020.
Then on this IG post from 11 January 2021 she's wishing Phil a happy one year anniversary
Found Helen & Maff's wedding video (through the Papertwin wedding videographers website, since she's unlisted it now) - no Phil in sight. Kind of sad to watch actually, the more I stumble on old vlogs from that period the more I wonder if that relationship could have lasted if they hadn't got married so soon and lived a "normal" life without all the show-off parties/events made for content:
Watch the my followers grill me video from 4.10. She malls him without reciprocation then tells him that he needs to take a shower that hes dirty