Thank you for sharing the post, I’m going to read it nowSame here. @gigi_93 take a look at this post when you've got time, it really put things into perspective for me
Edit: didn't realise the whole thing would embed here haha. The post is so long!
I’ve made zero progress! If I’d made any at all I doubt I’d even be entertaining him :/ I’m just far too curious about what he has to say to me. At least there’s no chance of us meeting up I supposeNot kept up with this thread but hope everyone is managing to feel the best they can
When I met up with my ex in September it felt like a waste of time. I didn’t get any closure and it felt like a showing off exercise for my ex. I haven’t spoken to him since December (he text me happy Christmas I just text back the same to be civil). Since then he’s text me, emailed me, sent me a birthday card and I’ve blocked him everywhere. Just be cautious if you do talk to your ex, don’t let them back in after any progress you’ve made.
I saw this post on my Instagram earlier and it helped me:
It’s so hard to know what to do for the best. It seems like you are making progress even in small ways, so maybe it’s a good idea to carry on the no contact thing rather than putting yourself back at the start againIn a way I do but also not. I think he's doing his best to try and forget about me and move on when all I'm doing is waiting for him to see sense and come home. I just can't accept that this is it after so long. I think about contacting him all the time but I don't know if it will make things worse.
(As I’ve said before I don’t feel qualified to give advice given my own situation!)