Thank you. If I had wanted to break up with him, I like to think I’d have done it differently and at least offered him a real explanation and given him a chance to be heard. I certainly wouldn’t have blocked him in that way. I’d like to give him a chance to explain himself, if only because it might help me find peace. I can only do what feels right to me at the time I guess
Absolutely..I'd need a proper explanation..I wouldn't be able to let it go until I understood. I'm a bit crazy lol so I'd be getting on a plane over there and demanding to see him as soon as covid is over lol. It breaks my heart ro see so many girls upset iver
Absolutely..I'd need a proper explanation..I wouldn't be able to let it go until I understood. I'm a bit crazy lol so I'd be getting on a plane over there and demanding to see him as soon as covid is over lol. It breaks my heart ro see so many girls upset over actions of men which are so disrespectful. Fair enough if you don't want a relationship no more but issues need to be discussed first...or you would hope at leastThank you. If I had wanted to break up with him, I like to think I’d have done it differently and at least offered him a real explanation and given him a chance to be heard. I certainly wouldn’t have blocked him in that way. I’d like to give him a chance to explain himself, if only because it might help me find peace. I can only do what feels right to me at the time I guess
It’s good of you to admit you could have handled it better. We live and learn. I did not expect to be going through this in my 30s. Not really at the point where I can be hopeful for the future yet, I hope I can be soon. Thank you
Have you got any advice on how to get through it? I'm finding it so hard. I'm messing up at work. I'm either leaving early because I can't cope or staying late because I can't face going home and being there alone with all our stuff that we chose together. Weekends are the worst because the days just seem so long.
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I plan fun things with my friends. Get invested in a series which you love. Go shopping and buy new clothes. Get hair done. A new tattoo lol. Friends help massively and holidays Haha. Have something to focus on. Get used to your own company again. Do you read books? Xx